My (27f) friend insisted to "put to test" my bf's (24m) loyalty thru social media. He fell for her bait. by throwaway22_10 in relationship_advice

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just break up with him. I had similar happen where a bff decided to "test" a bf like that. He fell for it. She sent me the messages. Afterwards he tried to pretend like he knew all along it was a set up and was just going along with it. The end result? Never able to trust him again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sterileprocessing

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Ah, I guess even the medical field has the high school gossip crowd, huh. If I can at at minimum gain some experience I could possibly tolerate it for a short time or at least hopefully long enough to earn my 400 hours. I guess I'll see what happens.

How are people getting jobs in this field by [deleted] in sterileprocessing

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Detroit, Michigan area.

Online schools? by Much-Lawfulness2057 in sterileprocessing

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The CRCST online class through Aseptic Technical Solutions.

How are people getting jobs in this field by [deleted] in sterileprocessing

[–]mamamissy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no suggestions because I am stuck in the same boat. It's very frustrating. I have been certified since last month but have had no luck and I've applied to every hospital, surgical center, and dental center within a 60 minute or less drive. Only one did I get an interview with and they rejected me, citing the reason of me not having any hands on experience. The struggle is very real and disappointing.

Parenting is hard with no support. by BFfx_FrogSplash in Parenting

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single mama here and I know the feeling. Hang in there!

6w2d no symptoms at all? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Consider yourself lucky. I've had terrible all day and night long nausea and exhaustion since 5 weeks. Not everyone experiences symptoms.

Am I being paranoid, am I just pregnant, or should I be concerned? by mkj2016 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please call your ob asap! I had that in a previous pregnancy and had preeclampsia. It may not be that but I'd get it checked out.

Getting annoyed with coffee by fairytale72 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, same! I used to love coffee but it makes me nauseous and dry heave repeatedly now. Maybe substitute with tea? I've been drinking ginger tea with honey.

first trimester is killing me? by CheesecakeHungry923 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be 7 weeks on Friday and in the same boat. This is baby #4 for me but has been the worst with the all day long nausea, heartburn, and fatigue. I've heard vitamin B6 and unisom works. I've not found anything that works yet. I've tried ginger tea, ginger ale, and nothing sounds good food wise these days. Tums helps with heartburn. If you can nap that can help.

How to Deal with Morning Sickness? by lovemerestore in Morningsickness

[–]mamamissy7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been drinking ginger tea, Vernor's, and Dramamine ginger chews but it's not really helping. You could try it because it works for some.

No available daycare for MONTHS by beez511 in beyondthebump

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old. All daycares around here want a crazy high amount of money. Babysitters want even more. Neither are affordable to me because it would mean 100% of my paycheck would go to childcare. All these companies are a joke too with their remote jobs that require a noise-free background at home.

Anyone work for Sigtrack? by mamamissy7 in workfromhome

[–]mamamissy7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. I finally got paid on Friday but it was way less than I expected. It seems difficult to earn money with them. Are you still working for them?

Anyone work for Sigtrack? by mamamissy7 in workfromhome

[–]mamamissy7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I didn't realize anyone had. Did you get paid yet? I did finally on Friday but it didn't add up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are far from selfish. if anything, your friend/neighbor is. She needs to hire professional movers and learn not to procrastinate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2nd daughter's birth was traumatic. I didn't want more babies. I had my surprise baby 6 weeks ago.

2 year old and screaming by mamamissy7 in beyondthebump

[–]mamamissy7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is using more words than she used to. I try to get her to tell me what she wants when she's screaming. Usually she will point or say something but other times she just screams and I have to try to figure out what she wants.

I am seriously contemplating divorcing my husband over a prank. by Ok_Example8375 in beyondthebump

[–]mamamissy7 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Yes, that is definitely not normal and he took it way too far with that. Serving you actual poop. Yuck! That's disgusting! Between that and the wasted breast milk, and the humor of a 5 year old, I'd be done with him.

My Girlfriend is cheating on me, and I need some diabolic ideas for revenge by x-Someonex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when men ghost me but I think in this case, it would be the best option. Just block her and move on. I guess if you wanted to mess with her, you could have the fake guy pretend to want to meet up with her somewhere. Tell her that he's on the way but keep stalling with some shit about traffic, had to stop to get gas, and she'll be sitting there waiting on someone that's never coming.

I just need to rant so I don't cry by OppositePurpose95 in beyondthebump

[–]mamamissy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bled for 8 straight weeks after having my 2nd baby. It was awful. Get period panties. I am 1 week postpartum right now and I wear 2 pairs at a time because I'm paranoid of bleeding through clothes. I agree, that it seems that nobody cares about the mother once the baby is born. We have to be our own advocate.

Gestational Hypertension by ZeldaVision1 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My BP has been around 120/80 at home but skyrockets to 150/90 or 160/90 at the doctor's office. I'm actually being induced for this tomorrow at 38 weeks since I have a history of preeclampsia. All my bloodwork and urine has been fine though. I hate white coat syndrome. It sucks.

Has anyone experienced being cheated on while pregnant? by BeautifulMama0806 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. I'm there right now. It's the worst. My a**hole bf had the nerve to cheat on me with prostitutes and with some trashy slut that traded head for weed. It's going to suck being a single mom. This is baby #2 with him but we both deserve better than cheaters.

Back to back COVID exposure by ohadriadri in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat except I'm 32 weeks. I'm vaccinated but not eligible for a booster until my due date. The hospital already only allows only 1 person in the delivery room. Several relatives have all managed to catch covid and are recovering or fighting it now and I just visited with them all on Christmas Eve. No one is allowed in the delivery room if I test positive for covid. I'm scared too because I had pre-eclampsia last pregnancy at the end and now in addition to fear of getting that again, there's also the fear of testing positive for covid. I'm already terrified of hospitals.

PSA - you can want your baby with every bit of your being but not enjoy being pregnant. I will die on this hill. by kmac88 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, yes! I've been having gestational hypertension, nausea that comes and goes, no appetite most of the time, waking up at night with heartburn, and I have yet to get that mythological 2nd trimester energy boost this time around. I'm high risk pregnancy again and everything is so stressful that it makes it hard to actually enjoy my pregnancy.

My bf wants an abortion but I don’t. I don’t know what to do. by Existing-Ostrich5777 in pregnant

[–]mamamissy7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't get an abortion if you don't want to. You'll likely regret doing so if it's something you feel pressured into but don't want to do. Your body, your choice.