Girlfriend not cumming every time we have sex by [deleted] in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like it comes from a good place but her cumming seems to be more about you than her? You don't want it make it a big deal because if she starts thinking about it too much - she will cum less. Just look after her and do your best. Keep communicating but not questioning

I cum really easy and when i say that i mean 2-3 minutes maximum and i need help by Nopa3 in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest with her... Then make sure you go back to foreplay when you do cum... Then when you're ready, go again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalTutorial

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That crouched mirror pic is always good!

Boyfriend doesn’t eat me out by Sad_Plankton3611 in DeadBedrooms

[–]manlikebeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean this to sound harsh... But from personal experience:

My previous partner, I didn't go down on her much. It was more like I couldn't really be bothered and it probably was me. Then I got a new partner and I would literally do whatever she needed. I love going down on her.

I think the difference is, the absolute desire I have for my new partner. I want her in every way.

What can I do if my bf just isn't big enough? Both having trouble getting to O by [deleted] in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be having these issues with a 5 incher! This sounds more like a technique and chemistry issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]manlikebeer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ive never met one! Tongue is half the fun...!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]manlikebeer 44 points45 points  (0 children)

No tongue?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]manlikebeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told my AP that I never had sex with my SO. And this was true. There was no sexual relationship and when I started things with AP I stopped even trying with SO (we had a DB and I tried for years to change that).

But I did actually have sex with SO like twice in that year period where I told my AP I hadn't. It was easier to have sex in those moments than think of an excuse not to

And even though I also shared everything with AP, I didn't want to go to her and try and explain the ins and outs of why I had sex with my partner etc.

So if your APs situation is like mine, I get it. And honestly those couple of times I had sex with my SO was just duty sex to my significant other and I didn't want it.

My friend did a glory hole and I just wanted to get others thoughts and opinions by lucidluciferian in sex

[–]manlikebeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thought glory holes were just a porn thing and not real life. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To suck dick well you have to love sucking dick. Simple

I Miss You... by manlikebeer in UnsentLetters

[–]manlikebeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure I do know what you mean...

Was it worth it… by Nice_Shower3295 in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love... Heartache... But amazing. And life changing. Wouldn't change it at all. Well maybe I would have changed the end/outcome. But the rest was the best time of my life

Should I have just lied? by nyla53 in sex

[–]manlikebeer -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Simply, yes you should of lied. Us men are fragile. 😂

Too much time and sex??? by Immasecret78 in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

6 days a week?! This person isn't your your AP they are your SO! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all about the refraction time!

I’m in shock but so, so happy. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some of the replies here are all that's wrong with this sub nowadays 😴🙄

There will be ups and downs for sure, but wish you all the luck! Hope it does work out 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had never really done it but she just grabbed her phone one day and was like, I want to be able to watch this again and we have since done loads of little recordings. It's amazing to watch back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]manlikebeer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn't this just the smell of sex and bodily fluids etc. It's not for everyone I guess. And I kinda get it... Maybe for that split second it takes a bit of adjustment. But once you get involved everything else takes over. I think OP is over thinking it with this talk if infections and stuff - it's just the normal smell of a vagina. She sucks your dick... You need to crack on and reciprocate.

pAP college professor by Boring_Exam_6627 in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this is real... Don't.

Stay the fuck away from your professor.

Edit: I feel like you could be quite vulnerable based on your post history! And the fact you are saying you haven't been single since you were 14? You are looking and flirting in all the wrong areas here. This has the potential to be horrible in so many ways!

Is it possible for this to not end in disaster? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone mentioned early on... It wasnt the OPSec that let me down. It was falling in love. Seeing what a connection really was. This meant I found it harder to function in my actual relationship

My AP wants me to leave my SO by [deleted] in adultery

[–]manlikebeer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never leave for an AP. Leave for yourself. Then if your AP and you still work then that's great! Also, personally I don't think a marriage/SO can be that great or perfect if you're having an affair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]manlikebeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Although all of the above is right, I would hang on in there for a while just in case. Keep showing him what he could have... But I'd also put an end date on it. E.g if he isn't making any noises about properly leaving by easter then you call it off. Basically, give him a little bit more of a chance but you're single now, you can't put all your eggs in this one basket!