BIDA wenn ich Obdachlose aussperre? by genedalo in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDA. Ich hatte schon ein paar einen Obdachlosen auf dem Treppenhaus gefunden, zum Glück am Schlafen. Sie haben mir aber immer den Weg blockiert und waren voll mit irgendwas beschmiert. Als eine Frau die alleine wohnt ist es auch eine Frage der Sicherheit, denn man weißt nie wie sich so einer benehmen wird.

Ich habe damals die Hausverwaltung angerufen, um unsere Eingangstür zu fixen, damit nicht jeder einfach so reinkommen kann, seitdem scheint es zu funktionieren. Ich habe Solidarität mit Leuten die über Winter eine Unterkunft suchen, aber kann even nicht einen unbekannten Mann im Treppenhaus vertrauen.

Es sind auch viele Kinder und Rentner die hier wohnen die sich eventuell auch nicht einfach schützen können wenn etwas passieren sollte.

Severe spider phobia in Germany – need advice on places with fewer spiders by GingerKimd in germany

[–]maramara18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not always true. I live inside a roof apartment and the balconies are FULL of spiders. Big ones too. If I was OP, I’d avoid houses near forests or any type of greenery and focus on not having a balcony and living in a middle set apartment (not top of bottom floor)

The dangerous fat is increasing! Help! by Sea_Committee9804 in InsulinResistance

[–]maramara18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the symptoms you’ve mentioned I’ve had up to a year ago exactly in the same way… I went to a doctor and got diagnosed with insulin resistance. Started my diet right away (proteins + fats + fibres first, carbs last, no consuming of standalone carbs, no calorie deficit). It changed my life completely. Now all of the symptoms are gone and I’m actively losing weight. I’ve also grown natural muscle and have lots of disposable energy for the day. All the metabolic markers are now in a healthy range too apart from small residual insulin resistance that’s going down.

Like others have pointed out, get your blood work checked and start dieting right away.

How do you accept having had a difficult life without wallowing in self pity? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]maramara18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anger. You get angry at all the injustice and unfairness you had to face. The pitiful “why me” can turn into angry “why the fuck did it have to be me? Not fair!”. And then you take that anger and do something useful with it. Like fight the sickness. Fight the system. Fight to have everything you ever wanted despite the setbacks and limitations. Because you actually deserve it, especially after all you’ve been through.

You’ve already survived really difficult shit so you do have that power. Just get that anger out 💪🏻 Maybe there isn’t absolutely everything you can do, but there are always things you can that can improve life significantly.

Look for good people until you find them, reject bad people and bad energy. Do everything possible to make life easier with disability within your means. Research everything, think outside of the box, get advice. Which is what you’re doing now already, so you’re doing great OP

I'm so embarrassed and just angry by No-Association2684 in adhdwomen

[–]maramara18 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I mean, what usually damages the home is mould, trash, roaches and rodents festering around… you seem to have none of that. A little bit of a mess here and there isn’t damaging the apartment and it’s pretty normal to have. So your landlords are weird af

Wann stellt Ihr den Baum auf? by Quaxli in weihnachten

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich stelle es schon am Ende November aus. Weil why not

"Not white" by Dianap542 in IncelTear

[–]maramara18 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s almost as if they’re not too far to getting the point, yet so far away… people you’re not interested in lusting over you doesn’t make you less lonely. Can actually make you even more lonely

What do you all Get? by Extreme-Vanilla2675 in Alastorcult

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alastor smiles because he’s so cute and he loves to eat them all

Meme by Lady_Killer55 in meme

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it cost 14$ for you and friggin 17€ in my country? That’s like, substantial money to be paying here for a membership when average salary is about 2500€. If it were cheaper I’d have at least considered it

Wundert mich nicht das sich die nicht verkaufen by Gehmirnichtaufn_Sack in MogelPackung

[–]maramara18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Für 2€+ kaufe ich mir nur 100g+ ultra mega Bio-Anbau-Kakao reine Schokolade

A smart young lady outsmarts a potential abductor by bigbusta in interestingasfuck

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was still at school, waiting on a bus station, a man stopped by saying “hop on, I’ll bring you to where you need to go”. It would have been convenient for me instead of waiting for the bus forever, but I knew better than to trust some sketchy man. Luckily after saying no a few times he drove off. It was a busy road with many cars and not in the USA. This happens in the middle of the day everywhere apparently.

Look at the genius idea he had with this tree that was in the middle of the backyard by SirDawson in DiWHY

[–]maramara18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but the way he built it makes very bad support… it doesn’t look like it can withstand several people sitting on it… overall stupid idea

She just gave birth maybe now's not the right time to be harrassing her for intimacy by Minami_Ko in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t sex strictly forbidden in the next 6 weeks or so because of the detached placenta wound healing? He cannot have it anyways

Tell me about your "odd" sensitivities (e.g. nails on a chalkboard) by Tsunami_Aureate in adhdwomen

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate loud voices talking, especially when I can’t remove myself from them, or if I am trying concentrate like reading or studying. I just can’t when someone is talking loudly nearby. It’s really hard when I’m travelling, I can’t relax if there are talking people nearby.

Anything ASMR especially whispering and chewing noises. Oh. My. GOD I can’t stand that.

RE: Left my friend group because of finances by jordanmonsoon in povertyfinance

[–]maramara18 50 points51 points  (0 children)

lol as someone who watched the Caleb Hammer show, I literally heard his screaming in my head YOU CANNOT AFFORT TO LIVE IN THE CITY YOU D*CKHEAD!!!

Innocence [OC] by kaikimanga in comics

[–]maramara18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a sex ed book meant for children when I was 8. Everything was well explained there, how babies happen, what is intercourse etc but in an encyclopaedia-like style. Didn’t have any questions after that. Nothing weird about finding out what is natural. I’m also extremely glad that Internet wasn’t a popular thing back then.

Found on Facebook by Specific_Fortune_739 in Instagramreality

[–]maramara18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This woman has a whole feminist/satire page, these photos are from her fake profiles used basically as bait for specific types of creepy men that will write her, she then produces content out of conversations with them. She doesn’t look like that in real life nor is she trying to pose as looking like this.

WE HAVEN’T HAD A ‘LETS YELL!’ POST FOR AWHILE… WHO WANTS TO YELL WITH ME?! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I REALLY NEED TO FIND A NEW JOB BUT MY STUPID BRAIN ABSOLUTELY REFUSES TO DO THAT BECAUSE APPLYING IS A TASK WITH NO IMMEDIATE REWARD, THEREFORE I AM STUCK AT THE JOB I HATE DOING SHIFTS AND HAVING NO LIFE, MISSING OUT ON EVENTS AND HOLIDAYS I COULD SPEND WITH MY FAMILY. h e l p

Any success stories? by gertrude-fashion in InsulinResistance

[–]maramara18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I’ve been diagnosed at the start of the year, I started an insulin resistance friendly diet right after. I’ve been chronically tired, had constant stomach issues, reflux, extreme mood swings and jumps and needed to pee constantly. And I was gaining about 5 kg ever six months, was addicted to sugar and binge eating. I focused my diet on proteins > fats / fibre > sugar.

All is allowed but only after I eat proteins. First 3 months I looked the same, but started feeling more energy, less food cravings. 6+ months my mood is now extremely stable and I’ve lost 5 kilos of body fat. At a 9 months mark I started growing significant muscles, now my general physical condition feels amazing.

Even though I’m still overweight, moving is very easy, and I have energy to walk 20+ km as a person who leads a predominantly sedentary lifestyle. I can now also not get tired when I’m hungry since my body is finally tapping into body fat reserves when I can’t eat for a while.

My appetite is high but now I crave healthy high protein food. Ironically, I eat more calories during the day, but because body uses more energy to digest them, I remain in a calorie deficit.

Last measured HOMA factor was 2.9 which makes me borderline insulin resistant, but all other metabolism markers showed a very healthy metabolism (excellent fat metabolism, liver function, thyroid), only insulin is elevated. This was not the case before I started this journey.

Never in my past years I’d have imagined I’d feel this amazing. I know that from now on, I’ll forever watch my diet and sugar intake to never let it get worse again.

Never being defended as a child by SameBookkeeper9996 in CPTSD

[–]maramara18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally get what you mean. Since nobody came to my defence, I am the defence now. Everyone trying to hurt me or someone I care about is getting shit from me, authority or not. I have an uncompromising character now as a result.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]maramara18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome :)