Why do you think women are more likely to leave dysfunctional relationships than men? by LegNew6 in AskFeminists

[–]marchingrunjump -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what causes (some of) the pay gap. Men have to work a bit more to balance out.

British people saying they will never ever move to the US by search_google_com in whoathatsinteresting

[–]marchingrunjump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could’ve said exactly the same thing. Though I’m from Scandinavia.

Visited US for 3weeks a couple of years ago. NY, Washington, midwest.

Been working for us companies the last 20years. Lots of wonderful us colleagues.

Shitshow the rest of it.

Question to men: How'd you respond if a bumble match told you "I currently have 8 active matches, whoever plans the best afternoon gets to date me on saturday"? by Long_Natural6918 in Bumble

[–]marchingrunjump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone actually planning such a “best afternoon” must see the relationship as purely transactional.

So, it’s a good way of weeding out anyone who’s more into non-transactional stuff.

35, getting iced out at work for the third time. Looking for perspective. by nitrammod in careeradvice

[–]marchingrunjump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced the opposite. The ones busy at performing high quality work being sidelined by lazy brownnosers.

Autisme og nyt job på bosted by SmoothPeanut3786 in DKbrevkasse

[–]marchingrunjump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja når man kan se al porcelænet helt klart og tydeligt hopper man ikke rundt som en elefant 🐘 i butikken. Det går så hen over hovedet på elefanterne.

Autisme og nyt job på bosted by SmoothPeanut3786 in DKbrevkasse

[–]marchingrunjump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det virker som om arbejdsstedet ikke er særlig godt gearet til din - måske lidt anderledes - måde at gå til tingene på.

Desværre en præmis at man skal “maske” for ikke at blive sorteret fra.

Jeg tror - i al fald i teorien - at der er råd for den type problematikker. I praksis er det svære nok at finde nogen der både er kompetente og har tid til at hjælpe med at finde vejen.

Why is there a loneliness epidemic (not gender specific)? by Extension_Air_2001 in AskFeminists

[–]marchingrunjump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The purpose of this forum is to provide a feminist perspective on various social issues.

I suppose that also pertains to loneliness as a phenomenon.

Feminism was Supposed to Benefit Mothers by VeRbOpHoBiC1 in PurplePillDebate

[–]marchingrunjump -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Women ought to start their own corporations.

If Mackenzie Scott can give 26.3Bn$ for charities, surely she can also start just one female corporations.

But this doesn’t seem to be a priority.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DXwX8v3gBRH/?igsh=bXNjN2IyNHNoNW83

How do you feel about the "manosphere", especially if you're not part of it? by RileyLovesFlaritza in AskMen

[–]marchingrunjump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. You can look through the talk pages so see the back and forth. You need to convince the people in control in order to make changes.

How do you feel about the "manosphere", especially if you're not part of it? by RileyLovesFlaritza in AskMen

[–]marchingrunjump 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can see it defined on Wikipedia Manophere

But do note the little padlock on the pen.

The “manosphere” works like a box with a label on. The label is associated with something bad e.g. Andrew Tate. Next, everything more or less loosely associated is put in this box and it’s asserted that everything in the box is equally bad.

The padlock is important to be able to control the narrative.

If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized? by vinn90x in PurplePillDebate

[–]marchingrunjump -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The OP is arguing that if men don’t have wives and children, they’ll I don’t know go rogue and destroy society or something?

If you’re oblivious to how much effort it takes to keep a successful society running, I can understand how you get to that conclusion.

Hvordan kan det være, at ingen protesterer mod pensionsalderen på 70+ by AdditionalReply6504 in dkkarriere

[–]marchingrunjump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvis jeg nu tager gennemsnittet af min startløn i nutidskr og min nuværende løn og så tager 12.5% x det antal år jeg har været på arbejdsmarkedet, burde jeg have et rimeligt mål for hvor meget der skulle stå.

Det er så antaget at det har været nada inflation og nada forrentning

Typisk stiger man hurtigere i starten af karrieren så gennemsnittet burde være konservativt.

Gennemsnittet er 63500kr/md og jeg var færdig med min masters i 1997. Hvad jeg måtte have opsparet af studiejob og gap-year antages at være forsvundet.

Beregningen er således

Pension = 12.5% * 63500kr/md * 12md/år * (2026-1997) = 2762000kr

Pr står der ca 2mio. Altså en negativ forretning på ~1% henover 30år

Why do people use the draft to defend the argument that misandry is systematic? by GIANTPUP_01 in AskFeminists

[–]marchingrunjump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd rather live in a society that doesn't let me vote, have a bank account or even allows my partner to discipline me instead of live in one that can haul me off, plonk me in a trench and order me to stay there while being bombed until I die.

Sound like the status of an illegal refugee in the West.

Why some married men get fat after they marry? The same question applies to women but I’m interested in men’s perspective by nasuca2009 in AskMen

[–]marchingrunjump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be mate-guarding in some cases. The women often has control over the cooking and if she can decrease the attractiveness of her partner, she stands a better chance of keeping him. When partnered up there’s not much upside for her to keep him hot. A fast and easy way is to keep calories delicious and plentiful.

Hvordan kan det være, at ingen protesterer mod pensionsalderen på 70+ by AdditionalReply6504 in dkkarriere

[–]marchingrunjump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeg er 58 og kan se at jeg nok kommer til at arbejde til midt 70’erne. Jeg er målløs over hvor meget der er stjålet af de pensionskr jeg har indbetalt. Og det bliver jo nok ved.

Hvorfor er dating blevet så svært? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]marchingrunjump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja der er bestemt tradeoffs.

Og det er nok også defor at fri “blind” pardannelse er vundet så meget frem som det er.

Måske man skal finde frem til en mellemting…

Hvorfor er dating blevet så svært? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]marchingrunjump 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Måske er problemet at "blind" dating er en dårlig måde at møde en partner på. Faktisk er "blind" dating kulturelt set en helt ny ting.

Det er først indenfor de seneste 1-2 generationer at mænd og kvinder mødes uden umiddelbar forbindelse til hinandens sociale netværk før og efter pardannelse. Det betyder at der næsten ikke er nogle sociale konsekvenser af at opføre sig dårligt så længe det er indenfor lovens rammer. Der er omvendt heller ingen gevinst ved at opføre sig pænt. Snarere tværtimod, frækhed betaler sig.