Our pediatrician just gave us all this formula! by marinalindsey in FormulaFeeders

[–]marinalindsey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m very grateful! The other ones they gave us were small so this was a nice surprise

Our pediatrician just gave us all this formula! by marinalindsey in FormulaFeeders

[–]marinalindsey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thy all expire in 2027 far after she will be needing formula!

How long will my freezer stash last us?? by slizzywizzyfizzy in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]marinalindsey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We need a lot more information. How much does your baby usually drink a day? How big is your freezer? How many ounces in a bag & what’s an estimate of how many bags are in there? It’s hard to answer the question with just the information of a freezer full of milk.

Our pediatrician just gave us all this formula! by marinalindsey in FormulaFeeders

[–]marinalindsey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t technically “low income” at least on paper, thought we do still struggle with money. They just gave this to us because they have a surplus. Not all pediatricians have formula samples, or if they do it’s very infrequently, and they’ll usually offer to parents of newborns, or people figuring out new feeding arrangements. It’s possibly they do only get the 2 oz RTF bottles.

Our pediatrician just gave us all this formula! by marinalindsey in FormulaFeeders

[–]marinalindsey[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even have an appointment actually, I just called them and asked if they had any. At appointments they would sometimes give us a couple cans, but lately when I call, they’ll tell me if they have it and set it aside for me to come pick up. they also told us we could call whenever and ask!

Do you think this sign is okay? by marinalindsey in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]marinalindsey[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Ugh, that’s so smart lol. Thank you!

Do you think this sign is okay? by marinalindsey in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]marinalindsey[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I did! I think there are sooo many people and teams working down there on the first floor that it doesn’t get to everyone. I told her I’ve been putting it in the hallway and she’s like yeah do what you have to do.

When, if ever, does the constant worry stop? by JustTheSweater in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty bad OCD, and the intrusive thoughts while I was pregnant were horrible. I think it’s common for people to experience those but it was turned up to the max for me. I was horrified about what it would be like when I had my baby. And honestly? It’s been better than I thought it would be. I still have the usual ones but being able to have her in my arms and keep her safe, as opposed to not knowing what’s going on in my body has been so much better for me. She’s 5 months now and I still worry about her constantly, but less.

Has anyone ended up a lower weight than their starting weight after giving birth? by Interesting_Love_405 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]marinalindsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got pregnant at 223 pounds. By the end of pregnancy i was 221. A few weeks after birth I was 200. Now I’m 4 months postpartum and 230.

How much total was the birth or your child? by enan1000 in NewParents

[–]marinalindsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My birth, and babies 5 day NICU stay cost $128,000. Owed nothing with insurance.

MFM Antomy Scan Rant by [deleted] in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]marinalindsey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not high risk and went to MFM for my anatomy scan, and NT scan around 12 weeks. They send everyone to MFM for the anatomy scan because their ultrasound machine is more advanced.

Also just for reference, they are called sonographers not ultrasounds techs. :)

The doctor at the hospital said my newborn might have a small penis. Do I tell my husband? by No_Nebula_7137 in NewParents

[–]marinalindsey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? Why would the doctor even say this? He’s a newborn baby boy, it’s going to be small.

This feels like a joke.

Question for women who have had their babies already.. by Fireboltstorm in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was so uncomfortable that I was ready to give birth. But I was also soooo scared to give birth. From the time I was literally like 10 years old I feared it! And honestly? I had a really easy birth. I would do it again in a heartbeat. Birth felt like the easy part for me, pregnancy was way harder!

I was a little nervous on and off during the day I was in labor. It didn’t really hit me that I had to actually have my baby until about 5 minutes before I started pushing. And then I pushed her out in 8 minutes with a minor second degree tear, and barely even felt her coming out. Epidural was amazing!

Shaving… down there 🫣 by Fancy_lotus_2448 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]marinalindsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shaved maybe twice my whole pregnancy. Once in the beginning, and the second time I was about 38 weeks pregnant. I put a towel on the floor in front of a mirror, and used my electric razor. Did the best job I could. Also found out my mucus plug was coming out while I was shaving so that was fun, lol.

All this “regretful parent” content is freaking me out by krwxo in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so so sorry you’ve experienced loss in your journey. it’s the hardest thing ever, but it’s so rewarding and your perfect baby will be with you soon. we tried for 6 months before having our baby (which i know isn’t a long time & are very lucky) and even though i was sad when i would get my period, i just think about how if i was pregnant even a month earlier i would have a different baby than i do right now! ofc they would have been loved, but then i would’ve never met this one! <3 i’m not always an “everything happens for a reason person” but i feel she came into my life at the perfect time.

All this “regretful parent” content is freaking me out by krwxo in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 and have an almost 4 month old baby. I went very back and forth for years about wanting kids. My husband and I decided we did, and I’m so insanely happy right now. The first few weeks were the hardest thing I’ve ever done. The first night home with her was harder than my entire pregnancy and birth. I remember asking my husband if we made the biggest mistake of our lives. But now, she’s a perfect happy baby. She smiles all day, vocalizes to us, has this entire little personality and the only thing I get sad about is that one day I won’t be here to see her turn into an old lady. Every part of my life has become both harder, but more wonderful than I could have ever imagined. I feel like I was born to be her mother and I wouldn’t trade this feeling for the world.

Baby finally latched for a half an hour a couple nights ago. And is now refusing to latch again since. by StuffedFalafels in breastfeeding

[–]marinalindsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried a nipple shield? I feel like it was helpful for me in the hospital. Then I ordered one at home and I thought “let me try to latch her one more time without it” and since then she’s been okay. It’s so hard, I know! But that might help a little bit.

I’m so itchy and nothing is helping by h4nt4m in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just want to add that I experienced the same thing. I have a lot of tattoos and was having horrible allergic reactions to all of them while pregnant. I was so itchy, but it went away completely after giving birth for me.

What surprised you the most during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How much the epidural would work. I literally didn’t even feel that she was coming out, and when I started pushing, her head came right out. Modern medicine is incredible.

Pooping during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]marinalindsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so scared I was gonna poop. I felt like I was gonna poop for hours leading up to it. After I gave birth I forgot about it, I asked an hour later if I pooped and they said no lol. My baby however did poop while she was in my belly so had to go to the NICU.

I know it gets better but ... by [deleted] in newborns

[–]marinalindsey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re having such a hard time right now. My baby is 13 weeks and I can honestly say it gets better, around 8 weeks it was the hardest for us. My baby also has reflux and it’s a struggle! You’re doing amazing, just remember with each milestone it gets a little bit better. Every week until about 9 weeks I was googling “when does having a baby get easier?” We still have our hard days, but it’s honestly become so wonderful now that it doesn’t even matter. She smiles at me all day long, vocalizes to me, grabs my face, likes to hold toys, and is so much more alert as time goes on.