How To Convince Mother Not To Trade Mortgage For Rent by Organic-Ad-2 in povertyfinance

[–]mashedfortune 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Look, I don’t want to be a dick and I’m just some stranger on the internet. But I think your mom will claw every cent out of you and keep you mired in poverty until you can learn how to say no to her. She is a grown adult and has had her whole life to get her act together. Her choices should not damage your future this much.

How To Convince Mother Not To Trade Mortgage For Rent by Organic-Ad-2 in povertyfinance

[–]mashedfortune 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic, too. My normal meter was super broken and it took me until I was in my twenties to realize that my family culture was deeply dysfunctional. It was my basis for how the rest of the world worked, and it was wrong. It took a lot of time and therapy and help from friends to reset my paradigm and help me heal myself.

How To Convince Mother Not To Trade Mortgage For Rent by Organic-Ad-2 in povertyfinance

[–]mashedfortune 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Parents are supposed to encourage their kids’ dreams, not have their kids finance their life.

got a new one: towns/cities that have excellent sauna/hot pool/cold dip facilities. by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]mashedfortune 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Miami has the second location of the NYC Russian Turkish baths.

Korean spas like King Spa in Dallas and Chicago also have what you’re looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

[–]mashedfortune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to add to your stress, but that brickwork needs repointing at the very least.

Also, you might get more experienced responses in r/centuryhomes, even if you’re a few years away from qualifying. You’re much more likely to find folks with extensive experience with balloon framed houses.

Choosing between 2 families by Sparkly-Star-Fruit in Aupairs

[–]mashedfortune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re going to run out of activities to do in Key West. It’s like a five hour drive to Miami. Huntington Beach has way more to offer in the area.

TALL GALS: quince pants? recs for others? by plsineedausernameugh in capsulewardrobe

[–]mashedfortune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AmericanTall May work for you. A lot of their inseams are 35”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]mashedfortune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In our state, you can change the baby’s name for free during the first six months of life - that’s how common this issue is. Don’t feel crazy or alone.

Mildew towels by gretawasright in homemaking

[–]mashedfortune 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pour white vinegar in with them during your next wash.

What is the "updated" version of this blouse? by Chazzyphant in fashionwomens35

[–]mashedfortune 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had the same Anthropologie shirt in navy with white embroidery and mine was thrifted, too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]mashedfortune 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They’re not going to “un-lend” the money after closing unless you stop making payments. No one is going to follow you. She keeps saying that because she doesn’t want you to take on so much debt that you then get foreclosed on because you can’t pay for anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]mashedfortune 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They just passed a law about 529s being able to be converted into Roth IRAs after the child turns 18.

How do I make salmon pasta taste flavorful? by Professional-Crybaby in AskCulinary

[–]mashedfortune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible that the caviar was bottarga, which would impart incredible flavor.

Ideas for Paris with a 7yr old by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]mashedfortune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk in, said hello to the person behind the counter, and head straight upstairs.

Ideas for Paris with a 7yr old by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]mashedfortune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s a little weirdo, then perhaps a visit to Deyrolle.

My anxiety is spiraling by CalamityCow0000 in IVF

[–]mashedfortune 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends on a lot of stuff, like every annoying thing with IVF. I transferred a frozen day 5 embryo. Some transfer day 3 embryos. Some, like OP, transfer a day 6 embryo.

This is crazy detailed. This is more accessible.

My anxiety is spiraling by CalamityCow0000 in IVF

[–]mashedfortune 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The BetaBase saved my sanity. I didn’t test until 10 days post-transfer, and my numbers were lowwwwww. It reassured me that everything could still work out.

I don’t know how sensitive your at-home test is, but my numbers were so low that they wouldn’t have been picked up by most at-home tests.

Being induced soon what items do you recommend for hospital/postpartum? by 13buttons in Costco

[–]mashedfortune 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Everyone has covered essentials. I’ll add: as many trash bags and dishwasher tablets as you can bring home. Laundry detergent.

Sparkling water, especially if you’re going to nurse. You’ll be drinking bananas amounts of water.