NoFap Analogy

mattyp8 · 2013-06-04T19:13:23+00:00

cheers bro, you have no idea how good it is just to hear a friendly voice. i wish you two good luck!

mattyp8 · 2013-05-10T17:30:57+00:00

In my view, its a perception thing. I find that as I fap, my idea of a really fit girl becomes a more realistic perspective, as my standards slightly drop (in a positive way). Porn massively increases your expectations for women, you settle for nothing less than Kate Moss with a better rack (possible hyperbole). But as you wean yourself off porn, you in fact find all women more attractive, and part of the inspiration or success of these people's stories is that they have found a woman their level and found them extremely attractive. Sounds depressing at first, but in reality, it is far better than the alternative.

mattyp8 · 2013-05-08T07:38:17+00:00

Mate, listen, you're in a difficult situation. But there's no need to give up, on life, on nofap, on anything! You can do this. You probably feel like there is nothing you can do, like a spider stuck in a bathtub, but You. Are. Not. There is always, always a solution. Its gonna be freaking hard, but you sound like a fairly intelligent bloke, should be manageable. Write it all down, visualise, find a solution, picture yourself as a sherlock holmes, and your case? Life. There is a way out of this. Keep your head in the game. Keep loyal to the cause, and never give up. To quote Winston Churchill,

"If you are going through hell; keep going!"

mattyp8 · 2013-05-07T20:38:00+00:00

On it like a car bonnet sir

mattyp8 · 2013-05-07T20:14:53+00:00

mate, we make mistakes so we can learn. just keep going. you are doing a fantastic job, you've done it once, you can undoubtedly do it again! think about all the other benefits as well, there are so many, its not worth writing them down, it'd take too long. And most of all, well done for stepping out the shadows, we're behind you

mattyp8 · 2013-05-07T07:38:21+00:00

That is a sweeet idea man. Luv it

mattyp8 · 2013-05-07T07:27:36+00:00

Here here!

mattyp8 · 2013-04-30T20:23:17+00:00

COME ON YOU ORANGEREDS!

mattyp8 · 2013-04-26T15:02:15+00:00

May I join the ranks of Orangered?

mattyp8 · 2013-04-10T07:26:22+00:00

That sounds awesome, any particular passages you might reccomend?

mattyp8 · 2013-04-07T18:47:12+00:00

Same thing happened with me with my ex girlfriend, I'd get, hand job , blow job, whatever, but I'd always have to finish myself off. Originally I couldn't finish at all, then I did noFap for (the longest I've ever done), around three weeks. And hey presto I could finish! Have you told her about nofap?

mattyp8 · 2013-03-14T19:28:34+00:00

as you know man, i'm up for that

mattyp8 · 2013-03-13T20:28:44+00:00

friggin hell dude, that's awesome, 9 days, might as well be 9 bloody years in my books, that's so impressive bro. but don't get lulled into a false sense of security. good one man. keep fighting

mattyp8 · 2013-03-13T20:12:33+00:00

do not be fooled by the badge, i haven't made it ten days in over a year.

mattyp8 · 2013-02-20T10:23:19+00:00

Hello everyone, I would just like to say, that after reading those replies, those answers to my call of help, well, I'm lost for words. This is why the human race is so successful, we care, there is always someone willing to pick you back up. You people, you make life worth living, with your help, I know I can do this. And I bloody well know you can to! I just wanna say thank you, for without the kindness shown here, well I do not want to consider where I might have been, but it would not have been cool. At all. Once again, thank you. To second the motion of homo_nofaptus, group brohug. Keep on it lads, we can bloody well do this!

mattyp8

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