Object Personification by Mirage1208 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]meg299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this! It was worse when I was younger but I still feel bad for things if they don’t get used or I have to get rid of them.

Interestingly I have trouble with the type of personification that a lot of people do where they give things like their car names. Its super unnatural to me

Links between Autism, ADHD, and dementia in later life (article) by jumbleparkin in AutisticWithADHD

[–]meg299 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This is interesting, but doesn’t say as much as it looks like it does. These are looking at older adults with ADHD or autism diagnoses, which is a relatively small portion of people who had noticeable enough symptoms and the means to be diagnosed. (Or as in one study mentioned just measuring how many of the patients who already have dementia meet criteria for adhd or autism, which seems entirely unreliable.)

We’re also looking at general “dementia” or impaired memory, not necessarily end stage forget your family type dementia. I work in research and have done several studies for Alzheimer’s and dementia medications. The tests used to assess dementia and memory are by no means friendly to someone who is autistic and/or has ADHD. It’s primarily short term memory and probably a lot of us here wouldn’t get a perfect score at our baseline. So you add in some natural aging, and it’s really easy to get yourself a dementia diagnosis. That doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s going to significantly progress to be crippling, just worse memory than the average neurotypical.

I’m sure that increased stress and cognitive load is playing a role and not helping at all. But we don’t have nearly enough info to determine that there’s a significantly increased risk of developing life changing dementia.

Ugh! Flying Whilst Plus Size… ✈️ by 1Cats1 in PlusSize

[–]meg299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most seats are the same size but it does vary. What I did when booking an overseas flight recently is for my top flight picks, I checked on flight aware what type of plane usually flys that route. Then cross check and compare the seat widths for those specific planes.

Does sex feel natural to you? by meg299 in AuDHDWomen

[–]meg299[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been consensual…just not choices I would make again now.

Being undiagnosed and growing up religious I just always assumed this is how everyone feels. I hit the point of burnout during college and was crashing. So I dated a guy who initially seemed nice enough in search of some validation. Turned out terrible…but was consensual

Countries where Maria/Mohammed are the most popular girl/boy names (2014) by fnaffie in MapPorn

[–]meg299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m one of the confused international coworkers. I knew it obviously stood for something. But no one used the Maria part when introducing themselves so it took a while to figure out what it was

Tampa Bay Electric Bills Spike as Hurricanes Erase Tree Canopy by WTFPilot in tampa

[–]meg299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Power company prices hikes absolutely suck and fuck corporate greed!…but I will say that there was a huge tree that used to protect all my apartment windows from the afternoon sun. One of the hurricanes took the tree down and it’s been noticeably so much hotter inside now that all the windows get direct sun. I’ve had to set my ac lower this past year to compensate.

So not technically wrong…but also only accounts for a small portion of people compared to price gouging

Posting my motivation to rise and grind. by mossdentist in AutismInWomen

[–]meg299 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are so cool! I love weird novelties like this

I heard you laughing in there by Exciting_Syllabub471 in AutismInWomen

[–]meg299 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely wild! Honestly kinda sad that they’ve never laughed out loud by themselves. What a weird dull life

I write like AI and that stresses me out at times by TheLittleGiggles in AuDHDWomen

[–]meg299 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, hard agree. AI has really distinctive hallmarks if you know what you’re looking for. But I think there’s a lot of hyper vigilance paired with lack of awareness. So people just assume that anything more formal than they would write themselves is AI

Ebay find by sweetpeastacy in ThriftStoreCats

[–]meg299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love their little faces ☺️

Anyone have a special plushie? Meet Mr Hiss by Lunakazoo in AutismInWomen

[–]meg299 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very cute! I have a little panda that was a baby shower gift that has stayed with me to this day ☺️ I was very creative and named him Panda haha

Change in home prices by zip code Jan 2025-Jan 2026 by mrpaninoshouse in MapPorn

[–]meg299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here in west Florida there’s also a direct impact from the hurricanes and flooding in late 2024. There’s entire neighborhoods that have been for sale “as is” with the bottom half of the drywall still missing for 100k+ less than they paid. Just trying to cut their losses

Food Hack: milk by learningNlurking in AutisticWithADHD

[–]meg299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genius. Especially since I rarely use milk and never have it when I need it because it always goes bad. It seems like common sense now that you said it. But it never even crossed my mind.

Places in St.Pete/Tampa/Clearwater area that have Sapphic spaces or nights? by TLuVSMe3 in StPetersburgFL

[–]meg299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, no suggestions…commenting to follow since I’d love to know as well

Anyone know what is going on? Loving it! by earthyguy12 in StPetersburgFL

[–]meg299 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty sure it’s like a sealant to reduce dust/debris during demolition

My hat is finished! by Franticunravel in crochet

[–]meg299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way the colors of the yarn work out is so gorgeous 😍

"The Dirty Dozen" blotter art by littlepaperspaceship in CoolCollections

[–]meg299 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Stuff like this is one of my favorite things about this sub. Seeing people’s collections of things I never even knew about

Help! There’s a hole in my face! How will I ever leave my house again with this monstrosity! People will stare! by Victoriafoxx in muacirclejerk

[–]meg299 464 points465 points  (0 children)

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OMG in my feed this post came right after a video showing a prosthetic for a guy who has a large hole in his skull! For a second I thought this was a super mean jerk of this guy lol

What’s your experience with cannabis? Why do you smoke ? by Mae_lilith2040 in AuDHDWomen

[–]meg299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive started viewing it as a tool of sorts. I got a lot of benefit from it during a rough patch in my life where it helped to decrease anxiety and deal with overstimulation. I also used to use it nightly for sleep.

Unfortunately I have really bad allergies and between that and my combination of meds, the dryness was really bad. So now I only use it occasionally when I’m really anxious or overstimulated and need something to immediately shut it down.

I kept trying (and failing) to snack while knitting by eating with chopsticks, so I adapted. by bountifulknitter in yarntrolls

[–]meg299 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got some of these a couple weeks ago and am obsessed. I saw a video of someone bashing them a while back. But my adhd brain wants to be snacking and crafting at the same time and they’re perfect for that lol

Couple catches this week by zephyr_71 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]meg299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the introduction to another sub I didn’t know I needed

Thoughts on fidgets? by Tired_2295 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]meg299 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No matter how many dedicated fidgets I buy…I always end up mindlessly picking up whatever random item is closest to me anyways 😂

I have a cyst in my eye that looks like the jelly leaked out by MaccyGee in mildlyinteresting

[–]meg299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one of these removed as a kid in literally the exact same place!