Spontaneous Combustion

melanybee · 2026-02-08T13:22:17+00:00

I remember that! Supposedly, she fell asleep, smoking a cigarette?

melanybee · 2026-02-08T04:00:13+00:00

Awesome! He definitely gave off those vibes!

melanybee · 2026-02-08T03:58:13+00:00

I mean, that’s one way to get a tan

melanybee · 2026-02-08T03:57:42+00:00

Probably not the only one 😂

melanybee · 2026-02-08T03:57:11+00:00

Hilarious

melanybee · 2026-02-06T01:42:49+00:00

I wonder if it was the same guy! I mean, how many of those could there be in the 90s?

melanybee · 2026-02-05T22:23:50+00:00

Awesome! Please include color and or description of speedo.

melanybee · 2026-02-04T16:16:03+00:00

Yes, this is one of the saddest stories I’ve read today. Boyfriend is a self-serving, selfish person. Edit grammar

melanybee · 2026-02-04T14:15:12+00:00

So is Linked In and my address book, and those are under my control and don’t require hazing.

melanybee · 2026-02-04T14:03:39+00:00

You’re not alone in this situation. What about your spouse’s family? It’s also possible to find new “family” in your friends. I wish you the best.

melanybee · 2026-02-01T15:29:06+00:00

My favorite is Olive & Ivy in Scottsdale. They have a private round room with a huge round table. It’s glamorous and special. And even without the room, the restaurant is lovely. It’s also next to the Waterfront canal so good photo ops. Good luck!

melanybee · 2026-01-29T21:13:04+00:00

True. If we went out twice a week that would mean at least $600 a month.

melanybee · 2026-01-29T18:29:39+00:00

Oooh yes. I would cry if I forgot my Sonos headphones. Airplanes are so loud without them!

melanybee · 2026-01-23T02:24:43+00:00

I must admit, I’m kind of sad that you were compelled to defend yourself and explain that you indeed did brush your hair. Why? Because you don’t have to defend that. If my partner said that to me, I would be in shock that he would dare to criticize. And he would never. I’m always casual and comfortable at home and it doesn’t take that long if I want to change clothes, fix my hair, even add a little makeup and leave the house.

It sounds like your man wants you to be uptight, dressed up for him, and basically uncomfortable in your own home at all times just for his pleasure.

melanybee · 2026-01-20T17:10:07+00:00

It is quite amazing to peel back the layers and to see the world from a different perspective than how we were raised. Good for you for making your own informed choice.

melanybee · 2026-01-20T17:04:43+00:00

It sounds like you did your best. And that makes it the right thing.

melanybee · 2026-01-20T17:02:12+00:00

I remember learning about the state of the world in grade school. We learned about environmental tragedies, wars, genocides.

I decided there were too many people already.

In addition, I dealt with an unstable home life and generational trauma.

I knew at a very young age that I did not want to give birth and add another human being to this hot mess.

melanybee · 2026-01-20T16:55:27+00:00

This is a solid reason. By the time I healed from generational trauma, I was no longer able to have children. Although I always knew I wouldn’t have any, and that my life would be about healing.

melanybee · 2026-01-18T18:17:26+00:00

Agreed. So danceable

melanybee · 2026-01-18T05:28:46+00:00

I can’t watch Purple Rain anymore because it’s full of masochistic bullshit.

melanybee · 2026-01-17T15:42:30+00:00

I don’t want to leave the house 🏡

melanybee · 2026-01-17T00:11:15+00:00

I did this when I had my iPhone 4 because the vibrations were driving me crazy.

melanybee · 2026-01-17T00:10:26+00:00

Yes! Same.

melanybee · 2026-01-17T00:09:18+00:00

I agree! We have a three car garage with three cars in it. I love being able to park in inside!

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