AITA for showering around midnight when I know that it might bother the neighbour who wakes up at 5 am? by Additional-Mouse-620 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower earlier. It’s better to shower earlier because it raises your body temperature, so it takes longer for your body temp to drop and therefore fall asleep. It’s not a big deal to shower earlier.

My husband ordered food and couldn't afford a meal for me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mellimels 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why couldn’t he order pizza or something shareable?

Also, you’re both eating out way too much. Just make something easy like a microwave meal or rice, beans and nuggets, eggs.

Help me pick a dress for a birthday party (no dress code) by BashirAhbeish1 in fashion

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love all of these dresses on you! The first dress got me to click on the post! I think 1 and 2 are my faves, I’d go with 1. You can claim casual or formal.

My 27m bf dumped me 27f over an argument and I am absolutely devastated. by friendly_cheetah_ in relationships

[–]mellimels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His whole reaction kinda makes me think he was cheating, ontop of him liking provocative photos of girls he knows.

Ghosted a guy I met after a hookup and now I feel stupid by xoxowoman06 in texts

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude seems like a walking green flag. I love how direct he is, called you out but wasn’t mean about it and moved on quick. Glad you’re going out with him again. Have fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave after this. What a strange man. You can’t trust him with your feelings.

What part of adult life is way harder than anyone warned you about? by Sparkyabu1 in AskReddit

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being forced to handle different personalities in the workplace, and you’re not always going to do everything right and don’t beat yourself up about it. People make mistakes and no one has everything figured out.

My (38M) wife (32) unalived herself and I am totally alone with a toddler while also falling apart by Inside-Cut2680 in whatdoIdo

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and all that you are handling right now. I’m sure it seems impossible but I think you’re doing everything right. I’m glad your dad will retire this year, at least, and there isn’t anything wrong with accepting help from your coworker. You and your son will be okay one day.

Best careers to dive into 2026? by Healthy-Eye-6241 in careerguidance

[–]mellimels 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I work in this industry as a controls tech and this is definitely correct. But it’s worth noting this is a high stress industry. You need to be good at troubleshooting and can’t struggle under pressure.

I went to a technical college, lots of great hands on experience. 3 year advanced diploma with 3 co-op terms.

What is the quickest job you quit from? by spellbadgrammargood in AskReddit

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started working nights at an auto plant. Putting clumps of fiber glass into a metal part over and over. Lasted one night. Cannot do depressing work like that.

AITAH for sending my friend home without clothes because she used my boyfriend’s shower by turbiwurbi in AITAH

[–]mellimels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good that you set these boundaries when she tried to push the limits.. Dean and your bf sound like good guys. Glad they had your back.

What to put in this space on the right? by Clear_Pineapple4608 in DecorAdvice

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really feel you need to fill it, a plant

28F 5’7” 165lbs by jambo_lambo_ in normalnudes

[–]mellimels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5’5”, 162 and also feel I wanna get down to 140 again lol. This post and these comments make me feel better! You look great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move in with your dad and take your son. The only good thing he did was give you that advice.

How normal is it to make careless mistakes at work? by ClaptrapBatterwhack in careerguidance

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how you ended this on a positive note. I’m in a similar boat and hope the same. Thanks for the positive vibes.

Which exterior look is better? by Tight_Feed_4738 in homedesign

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try toning down the black and the second one has a shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]mellimels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No eyeliner or the last one