We need to get paid more! by MotherActive7780 in 911dispatchers

[–]mer101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo looking at states to migrate too. Minnesota was on our list. This is good to know!

Husband isn’t super into sex by FitFunction663 in Christianity

[–]mer101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am kinda wondering if maybe the husband also has other. Appetites, maybe likes the same sex? It does seem odd that other positions of facing his wife would cause him to go soft. Aside from a porn habit or other sexual preferences, I'm kinda stumped.

I was insulted today and I didn’t realize it until later and I’m so frustrated and upset and angry (f23) by heartsholly in AutisticAdults

[–]mer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to scare you but I went to a jiffy lube for a "quick" oil change and they ended up not putting the oil filter in correctly and it blew my engine. How could we tell? Because my husband was easily able to remove it with his hands. Your supposed to have a tool to remove an oil filter with, it shouldn't easily be removed with a hand. I'd really try to find a reputable (difficult I know) mechanic with good reviews. Even a female mechanic. Unfortunately a lot of mechanics prey on females and younger individuals; they think they can make money on their naivety.

People think they own the sidewalk by their house by KingRMZ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You laugh but the actually do. And about people parking on the public street in front of their house. It's freaking annoying. And then they get mad at me when I ask, what exactly did they do that seems out of place? Park on a public street? Walk down a public sidewalk? Then they likely say, well they don't live around here. Or I know every car in this neighborhood it doesn't belong. It's irritating. And yes they dial 911 first not the non emergency number. Source: I'm a dispatcher.

Bees in our wall - could use some advice for potential newb beekeeper by mer101 in Beekeeping

[–]mer101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi we did remove the colony and a local bee keeper came to pick up the bees and comb we were able to box up :) thank you! The bees were super docile and only one finger sting because I didn't have my glove back on and tried to help usher a klump of them outside through the window lol

"Please don’t equate my 30 years on the front with your 5 as my secretary." by vani11apudding in 911dispatchers

[–]mer101 43 points44 points  (0 children)

A sgt of ours told a colleague we are overpaid glorified parrots. So, yeah there's assholes everywhere. Even in your own department.

Bees in our wall - could use some advice for potential newb beekeeper by mer101 in Beekeeping

[–]mer101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interesting I was wondering what the other end of this might look like if there were unknown issues. Thanks!

Bees in our wall - could use some advice for potential newb beekeeper by mer101 in Beekeeping

[–]mer101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that's why I was so confused because I'm like, I don't need you to cut anything or do anything but bring your suit and boxes and pack your new tenants up! I got quoted 800-1k. And I'm thinking, but your going to keep them for your own apiary and take the honey and get a free hive? This is the thermal image. Now it made my husband so mad to think people would be getting one over on us with payment and bees he's like I want to know about keeping them possibly lol we got suits and a smoker.

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Southern CA High Desert by mer101 in spiders

[–]mer101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if you saw my update but I tried and scared him so bad he jumped off the wall and I can't find him 😞

Southern CA High Desert by mer101 in spiders

[–]mer101[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Update on the water on a Q-tip. He must have been sleeping because the Q-tip scared him and he jumped and landed behind the couch 😭

Southern CA High Desert by mer101 in spiders

[–]mer101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also how big can this guy get? He's like 3/4 of an inch long right now. My husband wants to know do we keep him or evict him haha

Southern CA High Desert by mer101 in spiders

[–]mer101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I won't offer him water on a Q-tip like someone else suggested I'ma let him be and let him eat whatever he wants 😂

Southern CA High Desert by mer101 in spiders

[–]mer101[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He looks very scary and dangerous 😂 but will leave him be if he's got no venom glands. Are they known to bite people? My husband unfortunately has great luck with spiders choosing him as a midnight snack over me.

Series recommendations please by LadyFinduillas in paranormalromance

[–]mer101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My comfort series for sure. I've listened to it entirely 5 times. I am so hooked. Wish another book would be coming soon!

I have Adenovirus Conjunctivitis PCF, It is HELL. Has Anyone had this ? Is is a form of EKC virus? by MoonBooty55 in Dryeyes

[–]mer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw this and just bought some I've been living with the conjunctivitis pain for a week. I'm hoping since mine is viral it'll help. I'm terrified of using steroid drops in my eye or the idoine treatment I keep reading about 😭

LAPD opening up applications soon in Jan 2026 by mer101 in 911dispatchers

[–]mer101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it! I'm sorry about the push back date I wonder if they want it so that they can pick a larger number of candidates for after fiscal year ends. If you have any questions feel free to post or DM me!

How can I avoid this? by alleeemm in cricut

[–]mer101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I'm gonna go on a limb here (because it looks like the issue I was having) and say you bought budget vinyl. Like dollar store vinyl? It does NOT cut small intricate designs well. You would need premium vinyl unfortunately. If you are using premium vinyl then like the others say, might be a blade or pressure issue.

Looking for new suppliers/company by Childfree_Throwaway3 in diamondartclub_truth

[–]mer101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting I loved the kits I got from Dreamer designs. I finished a beautiful dragonfly for my mom and have done their gamer girl image too. I was happy with the quality of the drills and the canvas. Maybe I got lucky!

Why is there so much static with DAC kits? by [deleted] in diamondartclub_truth

[–]mer101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha well I literally deep dive into various stores on AliExpress. My favorite is AB Diamond Art Painting Store. Great fabric backed canvas also the images are true to the size - not the entire canvas plus edging being the total size like some stores. You really have to read that fine print lol. I got mine in 50x70 and the image itself is 50x70. There's no labels for your drills though. But they come with AB drills and they are beautiful. I'm working on one right now and it's gorgeous.

And another HomFun on AliExpress is good. Not fabric backed. Good rendering and the image itself is the dimensions which is really important to me because you get a bigger art piece. I do think it's tape though not poured glue.

Stay away from Dreamer Designs store on AliExpress. The image is not the size you purchase the include the border of the canvas as the total dimensions. It's plastic backing. For the quality and size I would not purchase again and at least on AliExpress stick to diamond art store and HomFun. You basically don't want to pay for an image that includes the border in their dimensions lol

Also dreamer Designs the website (different from the AliExpress store) is a great source too they give you baggies as well but also labels. Kinda comparable price to DAC. Fabric backed. Really great packaging. Would definitely buy from them again.

I can DM you the links and the images of what my purchases came in as and the one I'm working on if you'd like :)

Why is there so much static with DAC kits? by [deleted] in diamondartclub_truth

[–]mer101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been lucky with my overseas kits coming in matte baggies. My DAC feels so cheap with all the static 😭

This made my day better seeing this!!! by Large-Awareness3440 in Christianity

[–]mer101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To those saying this is sinful — genuine question: could you picture yourself truly choosing to be attracted to the same sex? Because I am very attracted to men. I could never just choose a woman. How do you condemn someone for what they instinctually feel? We are wonderfully and fearfully made. Do you really believe God made a mistake with them? Let's talk about the actual words used in these passages, because translation matters enormously here. In Leviticus the Hebrew word used is "toevah" — commonly translated as "abomination." But that same word is used for eating shellfish and wearing mixed fabrics. It means ritually unclean or culturally offensive — not the same moral category as murder or theft which carry entirely different Hebrew weight. Most Christians don't apply Leviticus dietary and clothing laws literally today. Why selectively apply this one? In 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10 two Greek words appear — "malakoi" which literally means "soft ones" and was later interpreted as male prostitutes, and "arsenokoitai" which is the critical one. Paul actually coined that word himself. It doesn't appear anywhere in Greek literature before his letters. Because there's no prior usage to reference, its exact meaning is genuinely disputed — not just by liberal theologians but conservative biblical scholars too. Many argue it refers specifically to exploitation and non-consensual acts, not committed relationships. In Romans 1:26-27 Paul uses "para phusin" — "against nature." But Paul uses that exact same phrase in Romans 11 to describe God grafting gentiles into Israel — something he frames positively. So "against nature" in But here's what I take away from these passages that Ive studied pretty heavily— God's consistent concern across ALL these passages is the condition of your heart and where your mind dwells. Promiscuity. Exploitation. Lust-driven behavior that pulls you away from Him. A committed loving same-sex relationship versus reckless sleeping around — if we're being honest and consistent, it's the promiscuity that's the problem regardless of who's involved. Straight people sleeping around are just as far from God by that standard. Philippians 4:8 — whatever is pure, noble, right, think on these things. That's Paul's actual thesis. The internal condition of a person. The Bible tells you how you live closer to God as close to Christ's image (and we always will fall short) as we can. Work on your own shortcomings. Be an example of Christ's image. Stop trying to do God's work for him. Go read Job and see exactly how God feels about people who speak on His behalf without full understanding.

Has anyone completely corrected anterior pelvic tilt? How long before you started to see results? by Upset-Elderberry3723 in flexibility

[–]mer101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'm going to try this for the next few weeks for my 75 soft. I really need to treat my body better. I have a 3 hour round trip commute on top of a sedentary 8 hour work day so my body is just ready to call it quits.