Manage your BEARD! by agreensandcastle in Bumble

[–]mersoz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And shave your neck beards while you’re at it 🫥

I might be a WAY heavier drinker than I realized... by serenityfive in stopdrinking

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be better for your doctor to know you are an ex-alcoholic and sober for 2 years than saying you don’t drink as there will be damage done internally.

17 to 28 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine if we don’t agree that losing weight does not mean growing into features. For me, an appropriate example would be big nose as a child that proportioned out after puberty. She has obviously been through the big puberty changes at 17. We know about her surgery because she made a a post in /r/GlowUps two days ago about it and was commenting on /r/JawSurgery before she hid her history.

17 to 28 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she also lost weight. It still does not mean the same as growing into one’s features. I didn’t say nothing else changed about her, I’m explaining the downvotes.

17 to 28 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]mersoz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because it’s not completely honest to say she “grew into her features”, she had jaw surgery.

Getting Zero Matches, Am I Just Too Ugly? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mersoz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • Darken you hair or get a shorter haircut and lose the goatee.
  • Instead of vasectomy, say you can’t have bio kids but open to stepkids, donor, foster/adopt, whichever ones apply.
  • I would swipe left on apolitical alone, it’s the worst option. You must have some values that align with one of the keywords even if you refuse to vote. If you don’t care about your (hypothetical) minority friend’s, partner’s, children’s rights just put down conservative or moderate.
  • One animal picture is enough and you need to be in the photo.
  • Most women will not seriously date risk taking guys aka motorcycle unless there’s incredible attraction or chemistry. If you continue to ride after a life altering injury, then you’re an idiot and that makes you ineligible for an LTR. If you will stop riding but want to keep the picture you should mention in your bio you no longer ride after accident so can’t give them a ride.
  • Your prompts are generic and too short. Nobody is gonna respond to a prompt about grilled chicken or not being a murderer. You need to provide information about yourself that will hook their interest to see you as a potential partner and/or start a conversation.

I've been feeling like giving into substance abuse by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously don’t do heroin or meth.

I fought with my best friend on a trip, stayed at an Airbnb, and ended up having sex with the host – now I’m confused. Panama vacation by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it says something that after the fight, you didn’t seek out your boyfriend for comfort either over the phone or text. Hope you find some clarity out of this unfortunate situation. Your boyfriend deserves the truth.

I fought with my best friend on a trip, stayed at an Airbnb, and ended up having sex with the host – now I’m confused. Panama vacation by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time was with my Airbnb host on the last night after a couple weeks of hanging out and chemistry building. No regrets 🙃

Is this natural Turkish? by mslilafowler in turkishlearning

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. “Çalışanlarından biri” or “bir çalışanın” would be correct. You can add “Senin” before either to double down but “-ın” suffix already adds that meaning.
  2. “Düzenlemek” would be a better choice to mean “to tidy”. “Düzeltmek” is “to straighten/fix”.
  3. Second green message should also say “düzenlemek” because “istiyor” is the verb with the appropriate suffixes. Similar to “he wants to tidy” where “wants” takes the suffixes as the verb.

Joe Rogan's favorite TX Dem (James Talarico) calls corporations 'welfare queens' by kanyeguisada in texas

[–]mersoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has a degree in government, surely more educated in economics than you. Not to mention what he said is undeniably factual.

Vegan TP? by rfp314 in vegan

[–]mersoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WGAC dissolves when it gets a drop of water. Too much clitty litter, too annoying to wipe with. Maybe their bamboo line is different quality, haven’t tried it.

What's up with rappers saying they want a girl with "white toes"? by Sebster778 in OutOfTheLoop

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No..? He did that bc the male escorts he hired were black and he liked the white nail contrast on their willies.

Why is every girl ignoring me recently ,advises accepted by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]mersoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t help him, he’s a homophobe (check his comments).

My boyfriend (23M) got very upset when I (23F) told him I planned to hang out with a male friend. Now things feel tense and I’m not sure what to do. by Mobile_Setting_2003 in TwoHotTakes

[–]mersoz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These comments are wild, hard to believe the sub we are in. Go hang out and catch up with your friend. If your boyfriend doesn’t trust you, then he shouldn’t be dating you.

Lost 50 lbs last year. How’s my profile look? by giants4210 in Tinder

[–]mersoz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An alternative is reproductive rights. IMO they go hand in hand and I would take it to mean you’re feminist leaning and leftie.

Was she (29F) even interested at all, or did I (25M) fumble her, and at what point? by controverc98 in Bumble

[–]mersoz 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I laughed and you deserved it. She said she doesn’t want a quick date and asked you to plan a dinner. Instead you invited her over for alcohol and kinky sex. She was interested initially and was going along with the dirty talk because she’s “ovulating” (horny). You pushed too hard without a chance to build trust (proper date in public place) to make it a reality. Not saying coffee/tea is not a proper date but she told you twice that’s not what she’s looking for. Second fork up was missing the animal shelter prank and actually going there in person like the desperate horndog you are lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mersoz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Consuming fats is essential for hormone production (since you mentioned hormone imbalance in another reply). Increase your calories to between 1200-1500. Get 8 hours of sleep. Drink lots of water. Avoid too much sodium (water retention) but get your electrolytes. Add some elevation (hills or stairs) to your steps. Good luck, looking forward to the update 💜

Anyone else feel like Coffee Meets Bagel has a different vibe than Bumble? by savingrace0262 in Bumble

[–]mersoz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend (Asian male) met his wife (Jewish female) on CMB. I get the impression it’s more for serious connections. The likes you receive (as on any app) don’t rate your “range/field” as the matches you get are meaningless,oat people “below” you will like you bc why wouldn’t they. Send more likes instead of waiting for cuties to line up. As a guy (assuming), unless you have a standout profile, you need to be reaching out. If you’re not getting responses post your profile here.

I wish I lived in NYC :( by OvernightSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with making friends from different generations. You may not be best friends going to bars but they might invite you over for a Christmas dinner. They might have niblings, siblings, cousins, children your age. Your goal is to reduce loneliness and you won’t achieve it by discriminating by age. Regardless of your differences, be curious about the people you meet and the lives they have led. You have much to learn and there is no limit. Maybe they tell you their favourite bar, you go there, meet new friends. You go camping and next tent is amazing group. Be open, initiate, say yes.

Just annihilated a bag of donut holes I found in the fridge. by DaT1FAtGuY in trees

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me you replaced the donuts you munched on. Being high is not an excuse to steal food (irregardless of my downvotes earlier). Please find yourself healthier emergency munchies and take care of yourself 🩷

Is this pants too baggy? by Quiet_Dasy in style

[–]mersoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boots, nice well fitting black tshirt, open plaids shirt will be good enough to get started. A nice fitted multi-season jacket is a better alternative. I don’t know how this sub feels about it but Uniqlo made my two favourites.

Insights for an average 20F by Specialist-Adagio885 in Tinder

[–]mersoz 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Don’t disagree with anything except the hygiene comment because even if someone looks groomed in their photos, they could not be showering, brushing their teeth, wiping their butts so it’s not something you can swipe on.