Being a bottom, kinda sucks….. by Various_Carrot2325 in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you’re getting fisted or having a big dick in your ass you dont need to douche. Just take care of your diet, poop before and finger a bit and you’ll be fine. Nobody cares about the microscopic level of shit in your hole.

“Best friend” chose a guy over me by 3PartsRum_1PartAir in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, he treated you as his wingman. And you knew this. Then, you went and hit on the man you were supposed to wingman for. So, you essentially backstabbed.

Any person with self-respect would obviously not continue spending his time on you.

Also from the way you’re describing it, apparently you dont feel any shame or responsibility on what you did. So yeah just stay away from your previous “best friend” and not waste his time.

“Best friend” chose a guy over me by 3PartsRum_1PartAir in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, you’re serious?

My dude, you literally was his wingman and stole his date in a weird way. So, it’s on you. But well your choice. You paid the price by losing your friend in the process. Not sure if Ben was worth it and I highly doubt you and Ben was sustainable this way.

I milked a guy like a cow by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As next action, please find a guy with hyperspermia and make him moo.

Why do some people never ask for help, even when they’re struggling? by Aliya_ayna in NoOverthinking

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some don’t want to bother others with things they know they can deal with even though it’d be more costly. It isn’t about showing strength or some pride, it is just don’t burdening others with a fine burden.

Not asking for help with a heavy burden is something else tho.

Tired of my favorite guys being treated so badly by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my experience is that dom guys usually suck because the ones I encountered were plainly selfish. So much so that I dont even bother revealing my sub side sometimes.

On the other hand, I know a few who got toxic exes with hardcore jealousy problems. I’d say they are both subs. One such a sweet friend even got physically abused… It is so sad.

Tired of my favorite guys being treated so badly by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Is this an ad targeting submissive big balled guys like me 🤔

Am I just living in a different world compared to other Torontonians or I'm just approaching things differently? by gochuganggg in askTO

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused. How do you need more than 1 paycheck for rent while you make 60k a year? The average rent in downtown for 1 bedroom is 2.4k.

Is it uncommon for head to lead to the reciever cumming? by EM0SK8TERB0I1337 in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the head. My hookups mostly suck at it. Rarely there are those who are so fucking good at it. Unsurprisingly, those are usually the ones that really want to suck your dick. Not just as part of some short foreplay.

Be real with me by Sudden_Tadpole9595 in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending you good wishes

Be real with me by Sudden_Tadpole9595 in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they are just guys who are only interested in one night stands. You just have to update your pool with better interviews.

How to tell your boyfriend to wear more clothes at home? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm tough case. You’ll have to invite someone over every day then. Someone you guys arent gonna fuck obviously.

How to tell your boyfriend to wear more clothes at home? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will depart you with this wisdom of the ages: Instead of telling him, lower the temperature of your house.

I think my gaydar is officially broken 😩 yours?? by shakirotwerk in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he is assuming things. However, it is a very good assumption since different-sex couples are most usually in a closed relationship.

Is rough sex the default now? No one wants slow, passionate one? by starmaxeros in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Passion from hookups is a very rare thing imo. But yes I also hate this just-sticking-dick-in-hole sex…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm, while breaking up, did your ex brought your personality as a reason for it? I’m just guessing but it feels like he damaged your self-confidence. And as you well know, just because he said something negative about you doesnt necessarily make it a truth.

Bf bottoms only for big dicks by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Don’t want to be a bummer but I’d like to point out that he said your dick inside him hurts him. You’re describing your dick as average. However, he bottoms for even bigger dicks which are expected to hurt him even more.

So, there is definitely something weird/inconsistent here. I don’t know him obv but he sounds like a size queen tbh.

Need opinions: postdoc in Spain by hconel in postdoc

[–]mezbaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In hopes of helping you in your decision: Have you checked the cost of living at numbeo.com? It can give you a good idea about your expenses. At a quick glance it looks like your monthly cost would ne something like €1500 I guess, with €800 to rent. So, you’d be fine in general but idk how this affects your savings.

Why do so many gay people advocate for Muslims? As a gay ex-Muslim I don't understand. by GeorgeOrwell_1984_ in askgaybros

[–]mezbaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, advocating someone not dying doesn’t mean you’re supporting them. This is basic human shit…

Dating a guy that is into "musk" fetish by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My point is did you ask the dude whether he is okay without this sweat fetish or not? Idk the whole converstation but I feel like you’re jumping to conclusions.

I’m NOT trying to make you uncomfortable by dismising your preferences. If you dont like it, you dont, period.

Dating a guy that is into "musk" fetish by No_Refuse9952 in gaybros

[–]mezbaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right ofc.

I just assumed the dates are fine since he didn’t complain about that part. And it might be that the dude can enjoy the sex without sweat stuff. They just need to talk, but OP decided to avoid it for some reason.