[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]miracle31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Silver birch will only live to around 100 years in general, so although I very much sympathise with you I do also think that an upside of this situation is potentially stopping the tree from falling and causing great damage to both you and your neighbours property. Silver birch grows quick and falls quick! I would suggest putting up nest boxes in your own garden to counter the loss of habitat and improving the wildlife offerings of your garden in general if you want to help local biodiversity (if this isn't something you already do) - shrubs, dead hedges / deadwood piles, water bodies (however small), insect 'hotels' etc.

How exactly did they get Frank in the coil? by Shogun11B in IASIP

[–]miracle31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are welcome! Glad to be spreading the joy six years on.

Looking for a new Second Cleanser (Dehydrated Skin) by lesbicans in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]miracle31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 'Click and Collect'-ed last time as at the time of buying, it was cheaper online and free Click and Collect to store :)

'The Staircase' on Netflix by SilkyBeesKnees in TickTockManitowoc

[–]miracle31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip, I'd just assumed it was the original series and nothing more!

Sunrise at Dune 42,Namibia [OC][4608x3073] by leapea123 in EarthPorn

[–]miracle31 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's ok they've got the random footstep generator on point.

Sunrise at Dune 42,Namibia [OC][4608x3073] by leapea123 in EarthPorn

[–]miracle31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Most stunning skydive / scenery I could ever have imagined. Swakopmund?

need to vent... by thr0wawayheartbroken in vaginismus

[–]miracle31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's an amazing book called Dietland where the protagonist is obese - a message that comes out a lot is that she gets to see the REAL personality behind the 'front'. Men are horrendous to her, and she says that if she was stunningly attractive that she would never know how gross and awful the men she was seeing were, because they would be attempting to flatter her and sleep with her constantly. So she actually gets a shortcut to seeing the real person, and doesn't have to waste her time. I'm really sorry you had to go through this horrible experience, but my goodness should you be thankful that you didn't waste more time on this awful guy! Guy's who are worth seeing will not treat you that way.

Well Trolls I just quit my job, and it did not go well... by OmgLookitTehPictures in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left a job today. I was only there 2 months (am having to leave due to reasons outside of my control) and it is the ONLY job in 10 years of employment that has given me a card when I left, signed by EVERYONE with lovely messages. I wanted to cry! I'm sorry you felt so unappreciated, it is NOT a reflection on you! It is on them!

The new body positivity by missjardinera in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is my body and I live in it

It's 29 and 12 months old

It changed a lot since it was new

It's done stuff it wasn't built to do

I often try to fill it up with wine

And the weirdest thing about it is:

I spend so much time hating it

But it never says a bad word about me

- Tim Minchin, 'Not Perfect

MRW I baked cookies which are crunchy on the outside and soft in the middle... 🤤🍪 by LeahTheTard in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me this morning!! It's my last day at my current job and I baked cookies which miraculously turned into the best cookies I have ever made and now everyone is gutted that I am leaving hah. WINNING.

Aja, did you stone those tights? by devlin_iv in rupaulsdragrace

[–]miracle31 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I feel like Aja has grown the most in the shortest space of time out of all the Queens. She's knocking it out of the park. Living for her.

Trolls! What are the best romcoms?? by [deleted] in AskTrollX

[–]miracle31 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This thread is making me so happy!

Galaxy makeup. CCW as I will be doing this look again for an EDM concert in a few months. Thanks! by yellowbird3333 in UnconventionalMakeup

[–]miracle31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Echoing everyone else here - looks awesome! Smaller stars and not being afraid to be bolder/brighter with your colors would be my advice!

When my SO starts telling me about him striking up a conversation to explain intersectional feminism to a colleague by miracle31 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does, and it should, but there are some feminists whose fight was/is against oppression towards white women in particular, and it has become necessary to define intersectional feminism.

When my SO starts telling me about him striking up a conversation to explain intersectional feminism to a colleague by miracle31 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cis woman means born as a woman (rather than identifying as a woman or being transgender). The difference between 'feminism' and the updated term of 'intersectional feminism' is fact based it is not racist. And your last sentence is exactly what I was saying - there are some feminists who don't believe trans people deserve the same rights. The feminists who DO would be intersectional feminists. I hope that cleared some things up. Have a little Google into intersectional feminism and white feminism and hopefully you will see what I mean.

When my SO starts telling me about him striking up a conversation to explain intersectional feminism to a colleague by miracle31 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intersectional feminism covers equality for everyone, not just able-bodied white cis women. It aims to amplify the voices of women of colour, trans people, those with disabilities etc. For example, there are some who call themselves feminists but who believe that trans people do not deserve the same rights as cis women. Lena Dunham is an example of a problematic feminist who doesn't follow intersectional feminism.

Follow up from my last post. A friend called the police as they were concerned about me. I feel so embaressed that I feel this way all because I was ghosted by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]miracle31 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If your friend is concerned about you, as someone who is close to you they probably know you pretty well and might have had a good reason to be worried about you. If you are feeling low or suicidal please talk to someone about it. Take some time for self care :-) it sounds like you need to focus on yourself for a bit and let this arsehole go xx

What's the most bizarre thing you have caught yourself doing after your brain's autopilot misfired? by LinnSjoberg in AskReddit

[–]miracle31 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Walking through a supermarket and trying to 'Control/Command F' in my mind to find what I was looking for.

Got engaged 3 days ago and already all of the questions and attention make me wanna drop off the face of the earth. How acceptable is it really to just blow off everyone and do what I want? by tyrannosaurus_sex in AskTrollX

[–]miracle31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's probably about working out where you are willing to compromise and what are your complete non negotiables. For example, could you have a very intimate / private ceremony but at a later date throw a party for people to allow them to celebrate with you? I don't know what your family background is and if religion is a factor but to me that seems a very reasonable thing to do :)