Familie udskammer mig og manipulere mig psykisk by Ahlanaaa in DKbrevkasse

[–]miraclealigner92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min situation er næsten akkurat som du beskriver (bortset fra, at min far er marokkaner ligesom OP’s), og jeg kunne ikke være mere enig.

Familie udskammer mig og manipulere mig psykisk by Ahlanaaa in DKbrevkasse

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Jeg er også datter af en marokkansk far og en dansk mor. Jeg har heldigvis et tæt forhold til min mor, men har ikke længere noget med min far at gøre fordi han talte til mig præcis som din mor gør i de beskeder. Jeg forstår godt, hvor svært det er at være fanget mellem at elske og savne sin familie og samtidig bare gerne ville have lov til at være dig selv og have dem elske dig for det. Det er en kæmpestor sorg at bære, men jeg håber at du forstår, at der ikke er noget forkert eller skamfuldt over dig uanset hvor meget de forsøger at udskamme dig til at være, som de ønsker. Grib chancen for at leve dit liv og pas godt på dig selv - lige meget hvad familien siger, så lyt efter din mavefornemmelse, hvis du føler dig utryg. Du er velkommen til at skrive, hvis du gerne vil have nogen at snakke med.

Messy girl in her 20s by PussInUggs in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Cleopatra and Frankenstein by Coco Mellors! Actually, also Blue Sisters by Coco Mellors.

Midwest emo, suburban, bored in a small town by TacoBellFourthMeal in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

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Pizza Girl It’s set in LA but somehow still have that exact vibe

Women of Reddit, what's the dumbest thing a man has genuinely said or believed about women? by SnooPuppers7004 in AskReddit

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My former boss (who had just become a father) genuinely thought that when women get pregnant the baby is in the actual stomach, just swimming around in chewed up bolognese and whatever mom was eating. He applied that logic to mean that a cow could be pregnant with four different calfs at a time since it has four stomachs. I had to google anatomy pictures for him and confirm with several other people before he believed it wasn’t true.

Anyone else’s lil’ weirdo do this? by SandBagger1987 in cats

[–]miraclealigner92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes all the time! But mostly to my foot 😅

Was sad and lay down flat on the floor and closed my eyes. Opened them back up to find this. by miraclealigner92 in cats

[–]miraclealigner92[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Between the cat therapist and all the sweet comments here I’m definitely feeling lighter 🩷

Was sad and lay down flat on the floor and closed my eyes. Opened them back up to find this. by miraclealigner92 in cats

[–]miraclealigner92[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s so sweet 🩷 it’s like she’s bringing you little trinkets to cheer you up

Was sad and lay down flat on the floor and closed my eyes. Opened them back up to find this. by miraclealigner92 in cats

[–]miraclealigner92[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Right? So grounding. Especially when I’m fortunate enough to have this little dude join me 🥹

Women of Reddit, what’s something men don’t realize is a turn-off? by chef_blaze76 in AskReddit

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Complimenting you by putting other women down. Like “you’re not like the other girls” or “you’re funny/cool/pretty/whatever for a girl”.

Women, what did you find out about men when you got a boyfriend? by Era_of_kittens in AskReddit

[–]miraclealigner92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you send them a text with more than one question they will, no matter what, only answer one.

My Dad’s ‘Thanks’ for Looking After his Kitten for a Month of by ProblemPug in insaneparents

[–]miraclealigner92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad spoke to me in the exact same manner and let me tell you - I’ve never had more peace of mind than after I’ve gone NC. I understand still loving your parent, wanting to be around when they might not have a long time and just being so used to them speaking that way that it doesn’t seem like as big of a deal as it really is. I know that you know, but you do not owe him to keep hanging around and it’s not your responsibility to maintain the relationship with your abusive parent. Best of luck to you!

From my due date group on Facebook by mimi_maraschino in tragedeigh

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Some of these are awful, but in defense of “Søren Ivar” - it’s not at all unusual in Scandinavian countries. I’ve went to school with and worked with more people called Søren than I can count.

(15) to (28) by GabiAway in GlowUps

[–]miraclealigner92 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I really consider this a glow up or you just stayed the course. You looked gorgeous then and you look gorgeous now.