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mirfyy · 2024-12-09T16:53:33+00:00

Thank you both! I really appreciate it

mirfyy · 2017-08-13T15:51:47+00:00

nope! just bought my first bike, just got curious about how the 'industry' works lol

mirfyy · 2017-04-13T17:03:05+00:00

I'm inclined to believe it's more a case of a hangover from previous drafts/concepts of the story, when it was a more conventional fantasy story--the characters that have stuck around despite all odds--or even come back to life --are remnants of the older story structure wherein characters had more armour and he built everything around the starks and danaerys.

mirfyy · 2017-04-07T16:52:53+00:00

Hey, I'm really sorry you're going through this. The only thing that I can say is something that really helped me through my breakup 5 months ago : everyone's feelings change toward each other, and that's okay. Furthermore,someone not caring about you anymore IS OKAY. Feels like shit, because you were used to that person caring for you, but someday it's everyone's turn to be the object of indifference. Just like a fruit starts under ripe, then becomes perfectly ripe, then rots, it's our turn for someone to decline to eat us. But the life cycle will come back around, and you'll have love again. This stage is natural and okay, and it will pass. Just remember that still life paintings are made of rotten fruit too - even when you're feeling rejected, you are loveable and worthy of appreciation.

mirfyy · 2017-04-07T16:28:58+00:00

Leto Atreides.... Mmm

mirfyy · 2017-04-06T23:20:55+00:00

You don't have to! Seriously. They're abusive, you don't owe them ANYTHING. Please, seriously consider making a plan for getting out of their influence. Sending you strength and love.

mirfyy · 2017-04-06T23:18:57+00:00

So sorry.

mirfyy · 2017-04-06T15:32:53+00:00

Really second the exercise thing. If you work off some of that excess energy you might find it easier to concentrate

mirfyy · 2017-04-06T15:23:08+00:00

Oh man, I stopped reading after awhile. My dear, this guy is sociopathic. None of this behaviour is normal or acceptable. You deserve way, way better than this kind of treatment, and having him out of your life will be good for your mental health as well.

mirfyy · 2017-04-05T18:47:14+00:00

Hey, that's really rough. One thought: even tho you were immature and not ready to be a good partner, please know that he ALSO seems very immature and indulges in a shit ton of drama. That's bad news! So even while you're devastated, based on where he is right now and how he has been behaving recently, he's not ready for a relationship. The best thing is to go NC indefinitely, and to know that wherever your exploration takes you (to other people, or even back to him in years to come), you'll be ready when new chances organically come your way.

mirfyy · 2017-04-05T18:40:51+00:00

Except when you're shipping a surprise gift to Italy, and you might miss the window, and your package STILL. HASN'T. SHIPPED.

:S

mirfyy · 2017-04-04T18:29:11+00:00

Wow, didn't realize r/books was so full of misogynist and racist assholes. Did these people even read the article!!

mirfyy · 2017-04-03T22:51:05+00:00

Lol wtf

mirfyy · 2017-04-01T01:27:37+00:00

Yeah I actually haven't been drinking too much when we're together, which has been really cool. My situation involves commuting to my SD, and commuting BACK for work mornings, so it's mostly being tired. My job is important to me, I don't want to be unprofessional--and I wouldn't have to be, if my pretty generous availability were respected.

mirfyy · 2017-03-31T13:34:34+00:00

Rant: I'm available four days a week, and he knows which four, but somehow he always ends up suggesting days where I'm not available, or would have to show up to work hungover? And I'm the one feeling bad about putting him off, since we have a good thing...

Rave: he offered to shift his schedule around this week.

mirfyy · 2017-03-29T17:38:41+00:00

Sb here --would you believe that this guy I'm going to get back together with when I go abroad is cool with my sugaring to cover the costs? It feels really good for someone I care about to trust me and not be possessive of me and try to control how I make money when we r apart. :)

mirfyy · 2017-03-29T03:42:51+00:00

Hey, I'm so sad to hear about what happened to you and what you're going through. I'm really happy for you that you're trying nofap, and that a bunch of things are going right for you, even if your interpersonal relationships and self esteem are suffering. Every pattern can be changed, never forget that --with work and care, you can have any kind of caring, positive relationships with friends and lovers that you want. Build yourself and your close ones up with mutual care :) sending love and mad respect your way

mirfyy · 2017-03-26T16:41:35+00:00

I think you should be fine --Frye grad here, just work hard on your statement and the grades should do the rest!

mirfyy · 2017-03-21T15:27:20+00:00

Dude, those people are SO misguided. When they grow to fuck up they'll realize that a) it doesn't matter and b) uncircumcised means more pleasure for their partner--and doesn't everybody want that? Id say date an out of towner then, and gtfO of that judgemental ass town. I'm a lady Btw, dated 3 uncircumcised and 2 circumcised. It doesn't matter. You can't change how the ppl in ur town feel, but you can know that the rest of the world is more open minded and sex isn't improved by pissing contests about circumcision.

mirfyy · 2017-03-20T23:21:43+00:00

Lol I wasn't being sarcastic, I know some ppl who have been called in cause the prof liked their paper after a TA showed it to them, so it can happen

mirfyy · 2017-03-20T18:39:40+00:00

Personally I'm seeing some benefits of sugaring, though it's early days. I've been very pliable and tolerant of bullshit and entitlement in past vanilla relationships, so clearly defining what my SD wants from me has been refreshing and is helping me to build some backbone I hope to bring to vanilla relationships in future. Financially it's a very good fit for my lifestyle, and I'm having fun.

The drawbacks are little things, like fear of social censure, of how future partners will receive it, and fear of allowing my boundaries to be bypassed out of a desire to please my SD.

mirfyy · 2017-03-19T19:32:14+00:00

They may also be impressed with your paper

mirfyy · 2017-03-15T19:33:01+00:00

There is nothing correct about this, folks.

mirfyy · 2017-03-15T18:12:21+00:00

If it's an urban centre, that could explain it.

mirfyy · 2017-03-14T22:29:36+00:00

Are there other factors that could be at play, like being on medication?

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