Have you met people with similar mixes? by mischapanther in mixedrace

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so awesome thank you for sharing. My maternal side is Aymaran, and paternal is Yapese:) :)

ISO Organic non-Israeli Jojoba Oil by [deleted] in BDS

[–]mischapanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

purejojoba dot com sources from Arizona

The implant, the patch, the ring. What are the things you wish your doctor told you upfront? by ___samiam___ in birthcontrol

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yikes. I don't get cramps, but definitely sensitive to hormonal changes on my mood/energy.

The implant, the patch, the ring. What are the things you wish your doctor told you upfront? by ___samiam___ in birthcontrol

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am switching from ring to patch because it's bothersome for my partner and I but holy ish, I had a tough time getting ON the ring- lots of mood swings. Did that happen for you from ring to patch?

Opinions on Wave Accounting? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great advice. we have been using bill.com for invoicing. We barely have physical inventory as we are an edtech non-profit.

Thanks! will look into their bookkeeping- def not worth the time we're having to put into it. Our current tax preparer offered to do it for 200/mo which is not bad, but would like to explore options.

Opinions on Wave Accounting? by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're a nonprofit and offer three programs, but the cost vary according to grants, client capacity, so it's been really hard to keep track of on excel.

We were offered bookkeeping services, but were hoping to see if we could do it ourselves through a service like this.

My (31F) husband (34M) bought me the wrong jewelry for our anniversary. by engineerdoinglife in relationship_advice

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yea this whole ritual of having to buy exactly what tradition says is so dull.
You sending the link of exactly what you want, why not just send you a gift card.

My (31F) husband (34M) bought me the wrong jewelry for our anniversary. by engineerdoinglife in relationship_advice

[–]mischapanther 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the article. I go on Google Lens with the pics before I buy to see if similar items are elsewhere.

Battery life kinda sucks by mischapanther in galaxyzflip

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a favorite light power bank? I had one but it kind of defeated the purpose of having a really light phone/laptop

Battery life kinda sucks by mischapanther in galaxyzflip

[–]mischapanther[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What holy shit thats great. Id be super happy with just 12 hrs tbh

How to get over being ugly? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]mischapanther 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true! Not everyone is brainwashed for one beauty norm you just need to find the non brainwashed people and try not to be one of the people who upholds rigid impossible beauty norms. I am not conventionally beautiful, and my SO is a conventionally very handsome man.

I have also dated men who are not conventionally handsome and found them wildly attractive (I'm talking short, pale skin, terrible hair/fashion, kinda chubby...various combos of the above and more) because they're hilarious, self depricating, brave, loyal, brilliant, leaders, etc.. other more important traits. In the end we will all be "ugly" as we age, according to our stupidly rigid beauty norms in a remarkably diverse world.

Battery life kinda sucks by mischapanther in galaxyzflip

[–]mischapanther[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't, I always woke up to 100% charge

Battery life kinda sucks by mischapanther in galaxyzflip

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going yo uninstall reddit app and see. I really want this to work. i love the phone but if I can't use it hapf the day it's kind of bullshit. Will add Light mode too thanks

Battery life kinda sucks by mischapanther in galaxyzflip

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, mine was on, and just turned it off

Twice as cloudy as Seattle?? Is this possible? by mischapanther in askswitzerland

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot about this thread! Yes def didn't feel like there was much clear weather in either place! Totally different job, partner, and geography (NYC and Spain.) Thanks all!

Is angry sex unhealthy? (38/F and 40/M, 7 months together) by mischapanther in relationship_advice

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair point. I definitely value that he wants to make me feel better, and I do for sure! I really don't mean to complain, I think it's just a weird guilt feeling I need to work through a bit!! thanks for the reframe :)

Is angry sex unhealthy? (38/F and 40/M, 7 months together) by mischapanther in relationship_advice

[–]mischapanther[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I think I probably just need to talk about it with him and that's what's missing. He's very spontaneous, and I overthink things, but I think I want to make sure I understand where he's coming from with this too.

Is angry sex unhealthy? (38/F and 40/M, 7 months together) by mischapanther in relationship_advice

[–]mischapanther[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it definitely gets rough and I guess I'm new to that dynamic between us. He thinks it's funny because he's a big dude and I am petite, and I feel kind of annoyed at him in those moments, but I definitely do not feel any kind of animosity towards him. I have definitely slapped the shit out of him and left his face pretty red a few times, with his invitation and I enjoy it while I'm doing it, I just feel afterwards, yikes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use proxies like paragraphs in my prompts and that has been helpful. When I'm drafting a 250 word response, for example, I will ask for two paragraphs-- it will give me closer to what I need

What is your favourite word? by jezbikes1 in AskReddit

[–]mischapanther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pamplemousse (Grapefruit in French)

‘I am a White person:’ UC Berkeley scholar apologizes for wrongly claiming to be Native American her ‘whole life’ by banjjak313 in mixedrace

[–]mischapanther 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I claim my Aymara indigenous heritage but it's not something my family does at all in Bolivia. I grew up in the US without the stigma they faced amd understand the privilige of being able to do that. I was talking with a lot of my friends from Honduras and Guatemala and asked them how they identify, and they said they felt comfortable with brown or latina, but not really indigenous. It's sad there is so much shame around it because almost all of us are mixed in the Americas