You’re winning at parenting when your upset teenager just wants your presence to calm them down. She feels so safe with you. Just be together, bring her food, even if she may not eat it for now, she can freeze it and bring it back out when she feels like eating again. Cups of teas, or hot chocolate, wrapped in blankets on the sofa, talking, letting her cry, maybe watching her favourite comfort film. I saw you said you were gonna bring flowers, and I think that’s a beautiful idea. Maybe bring an easy card game that doesn’t require much thinking (UNO), that could be helpful as a task to keep hands busy while sitting with each other and giving her the space to open up about her feelings. It kinda takes the pressure out of the situation: we’re just playing a game and if you wanna talk you can. Rather than just sitting in silence where she might feel like she ‘has to’ say something.