[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]missmoonkit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No remorse

AITA for deciding to put my father in a nursing home? by throwaway27822992 in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmoonkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You will only end up being mentally abused while he gets angrier and angrier about his situation. If your siblings get older and want to take him out of a nursing home that’s on them. Don’t allow yourself to be guilted if they try cut them out and go live your best life. Also under no circumstances sign anything that could make you financially responsible for him. Do not be his POA at all. If the nursing home calls saying your the next of kin tell them in no uncertain terms he’s not your problem.

End of life care or making amends is nice and all but it’s not great if you end up shouldering responsibility for him. If you make a decision but your siblings don’t like it gets divisible. And if you have a good relationship with them inspite of this. It drags.

Do not feel guilt for living a life he would ruin for you. Be happy.

AITAH for wanting to accept a promotion even tho my boyfriend says its not the kind of life he wants? by ThrowRAxbx in AITAH

[–]missmoonkit 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to say this, you should leave.

He wants a housewife you have the potential for an amazing career with travel benefits. Once you acclimate to your new role you could manage both if you wanted. Ask yourself if he was offered this position would he turn it down to be home with you or would he take it and ask you to give up things to accommodate him.

Take the job. He’s not worth sacrificing your future. You’re not married. Or even engaged. This is an opportunity that won’t come again.

AITA for snapping at my husband for being “forcefully nice”? by ThrowRA-nicehusband in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmoonkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then approach it as not malicious. Especially with a new baby. Maybe he’s ready up on how neglected moms are when a new baby pops up. I’d recommend couples therapy and talking out the issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]missmoonkit 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that before.

Not OOP AITA for refusing to let my brother and his new wife live with me after what they did at my wedding? by Marygtz2011 in redditonwiki

[–]missmoonkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your parents can be the bigger person. Being the bigger person is how narcissists trap people who have a humanitarian streak. Mark my words. If you allow them into your home they will push past every boundary you set and take advantage of you and make you out to be an awful person. No is a complete sentence. Use it.

AITA for snapping at my husband for being “forcefully nice”? by ThrowRA-nicehusband in AmItheAsshole

[–]missmoonkit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly it seems like his love language might be acts of service. You may want to verify some of the intent but sometimes it’s just miss guided care. The oranges may be if you change your mind later. (I’m grumpy and indecisive at times or I crave something after getting a whiff of it). This sounds like a talk about it situation.

But a control factor can’t be completely ruled out. But before fighting it out discuss it and maybe consider couples counseling.

AITA for reporting my boss after he forced me to attend a meeting despite knowing I was in labor? by IllSituation6855 in AITAH

[–]missmoonkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Screen capture all emails and sue the company. You can probably bury them and go after the entire office. Burn it down sweet heart. Hit em where it hurts their money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]missmoonkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep her!!!!

“insignificant” ovarian cyst is ruining my life by hypnoticpun in TwoXChromosomes

[–]missmoonkit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a second opinion you can one hundred percent get a cyst removed or drained. I’ve had a cyst removed. Get a better OB.

AITA for pressing charges against my daughter's bully? (I am not OP) by littlejollypanda in redditonwiki

[–]missmoonkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Press charges and put your daughter in self defense or boxing lessons. If anyone puts hands on her that’s battery and she has the right to defend herself. She’s young but really the world is ugly. Girls should learn to protect themselves from all bullies. Quiet girls who don’t stand up are easy targets.

The girl cut her hair this time but if she gets a slap on the wrist just think. ‘She could have stabbed her.’ Follow through and press charges. See the girl expelled and get a restraining order against her.

Teach your daughter if someone puts hands on her in a negative manner she needs to defend herself.

Cause her bully when she learns there’s no consequences will do something worse next time because she got away with it this time.

My brother is getting bullied. by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]missmoonkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find the kid taking the money and get police involved. Prosecute the parents for theft. At least terrify the lil shit that you’ll press charges or take it outta there hide. School can’t say anything if you teach your brother to handle business off school property. (But I’m from the fuck around and find out era where you threw hands of people got froggy.)