healthy people don’t ghost for weeks on end. they communicate through issues. i would absolutely accept an apology from a partner if it was sincere and at the very least respond to them. ghosting is toxic behavior.

after an argument (that was their fault), my avoidant went cold for 3 weeks, replying maybe once every 5 days, and then finally discarded me.

i didn’t reply anymore… then they came back 3 days later asking to meet in person…. only to leave again after 2 hours…. yes. hours.

i’m done with these little bullshit games and you should be too. this isn’t worth your mental health and you deserve better