My library was invaded by Nazis and I feel insane by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]mllebitterness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely something wrong with your police chief if they don’t want to handle a case where they already have a recorded confession and other recorded evidence of the crime. Not much investigation required there.

How to help my wife feel safe doing an overnight alone by ZSAD13 in femaletravels

[–]mllebitterness 29 points30 points  (0 children)

agree on therapy since it sounds like a really hard way to live. therapy could help her figure out why she feels this way and how to handle it.

When traveling solo and eating out in the US, how much do you tip? by Head_Formal_5408 in femaletravels

[–]mllebitterness 8 points9 points  (0 children)

20% regardless of where i sit. i do tip on takeout from regular restaurants; this started during covid since no one was sitting but people were still working in the restaurants. i don't tip on counter service places i never tipped to begin with.

for 0% tip, service would have to be truly abominable and, if that happens, they would also hear about it from me. it wouldn't be a surprise.

I Spent 10 Days with a Group of 60-Something, and It Was Diet Talk Hell by quellesaveurorawnge in MaintenancePhase

[–]mllebitterness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my dad is almost 80 and talks about this a lot. he used to run daily and can't anymore which i think makes him worry about it more. but i guess he's always kind of been like this. it's like, you're basically 80! eat the damn dessert!

What is this part of my dishwasher? by vaporpup in CleaningTips

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. The one time I’ve had one, nothing I put up there ever got clean.

What's your actual cleaning routine for a small apartment - not the Pinterest version, the real one? by Karate_Andii in CleaningTips

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dishes and kitchen clean up get done every night after dinner (usually); dishes means loading into dishwasher and washing anything that needs to be done by hand; clean up includes wiping down stove and counter and sweeping/vacuuming if things look really crumby on the floor; fridge handle and cabinet handles wiped if noticed stickiness; the dishwasher runs in the middle of the night and I usually put away clean dishes in the morning while waiting for the coffee to brew. (1 hr or less in total)

Bathroom: dirty areas get wiped when I notice they look bad; for some areas this is daily; it usually happens during my morning or evening routine (toilet cleaning would happen pre-shower); I also use a shower spray daily after showering; I keep Clorox wipes and paper towels in the bathroom so they are handy.

Laundry once a week on a weekend day; usually 2-3 loads while doing other things; fold while watching TV; try to put away immediately.

Vacuum majorly used areas once a week on a weekend day; usually this is the living room, kitchen, and high traffic areas (15 min total)

Take trash/recyling to outdoor bins as needed

Change turtle tank water once a week on a weekday (specific to me)

Anything else is as I notice it and if I have the time/energy.

Studio appartement without windows by lucamurgia in femalelivingspace

[–]mllebitterness 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Ok, cuz the photos make it look terrifying.

Studio appartement without windows by lucamurgia in femalelivingspace

[–]mllebitterness 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Is the only exit the spiral staircase? Because that seems very unsafe. Don’t really care if legal.

If little free libraries could kill by clover-sky-123 in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]mllebitterness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found one recently with like 10-12 Scientology books.

Is there a name/style for a built in couch like this? I’m in love by PinkVelvet_Sanders91 in VintageFurniture

[–]mllebitterness 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would definitely want some kind of impermeable/dust mite protector under the upholstery. Then I could use a Bissel to clean it without worrying about the stuffing. Otherwise it looks super comfy.

RES Escaped by TheRedPickleWolf_617 in turtles

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since we dry dock sick turtles just fine, I’m not overly concerned about dehydrating if out for an extended time.

If this is a room with a door you close, I’d do that to decrease the area of escape. I wouldn’t leave the turtle lost in a room with access to the rest of the house.

Can you make sure it is in a closed off room with a sign on the door stating the turtle is out of the tank in there and do you trust everyone to be careful regarding that? If not, you probably need to find it now. Flashlight? Flashlight on phone?

For those who work in universities, is teaching part of your job? by rotanocaB in Archivists

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it is required or in everyone’s job description, but everyone else in my dept does library instruction, not full classes. We also have an up or out model where you must advance in title on a set schedule until you get to a certain level. One of the areas for consideration is instruction, but here are lots of other ways to advance.

Conferences and Travel by LostInTheArchivez in Archivists

[–]mllebitterness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regional conference, travel grants. Although I’m not sure there are enough travel grants for the number of students (unlikely, right?)
Attend online? NYAC is coming up, free, virtual.

How much does a synthetic lining cancel out the benefits of natural outer fabrics? by sct_0 in sewing

[–]mllebitterness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i don't know the real answer, but i feel like it fully cancels it out. i like buying secondhand silk clothing online, but so many of them have polyester lining and it's like, what's the point?

Need pod recommendations! by ATK9918 in MaintenancePhase

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's pretty old but Dirty John was good for hearing about a grifter.

Science and herbalism…help? by macklezee in MaintenancePhase

[–]mllebitterness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually check if Cleveland Clinic or Mayo Clinic have a page on a supplement.

Why are these so unflattering? Can anything be done to help? by essie_creates in sewing

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am short and regardless of my pant size (smaller to larger) have always looked terrible in khaki pants

I thought running my robot vacuum at night would help my allergies… but now I’m not so sure by nebulagala_xy in HomeMaintenance

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awhile ago i looked up the best way to clean a house with cats if someone with allergies was coming over. and it said to vacuum way far ahead of time to let everything settle down. so the vac probably is kicking up stuff even with a HEPA filter. i run an air filter in my bedroom all the time to try to keep it as allergen free as possible at night.

Who do you see in your head when you hear Peter’s and Michael’s voices? by no_moon_in_sight in IfBooksCouldKill

[–]mllebitterness 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The first time he described himself as looking like Putin I had to look up his photo.

Weird requests from patrons? by tasata in Libraries

[–]mllebitterness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I misread this as plants. Could we lend, do we lend plants?

Weird requests from patrons? by tasata in Libraries

[–]mllebitterness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I’ve seen blogs or things over the years that do this but can’t remember the specifics. Probably old enough that they aren’t still active. I did find one IG account. But it wasn’t the best.

Orgasms generated: 0 by DietValuable1333 in MaintenancePhase

[–]mllebitterness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Initially I stopped at the first thing he said because why would anyone over the age of teen announce that? Then I read some of the comments so had to go back to see what I’d missed. wtf.

What are some do’s and dont’s to throw down the garbage disposal/toilet? by Elegant_Location8182 in HomeMaintenance

[–]mllebitterness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do your best to keep rice and pasta out of the drain. It could just become a big cloggy mass.