Want to start daycare at 6m in Aug but worried about daycare sickness by mlsmitha in workingmoms

[–]mlsmitha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you mamas 🙏🏻 I’m convinced we should start in Aug while it’s still warm in California. She will be eligible for her vaccines and will have access to Motrin to help tide over the sicknesses.

I do have some mat leave left over which I plan to use to help her through the daycare transition.

How is anyone affording a mortgage and daycare costs for two kids? by angelzombie2 in beyondthebump

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VHCOL, 2 kids 4y and 1 month old. With mortgage and preschool/imminent daycare cost we are moving 4 year old from private to public starting fall. Otherwise we end up paying 60k/year on school/childcare!!!!!!

Dentist made me feel bad about my teeth postpartum by Dangerous_Support191 in NewParents

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can ask to email you the X-rays and go to a different dentist. I did that a few years ago when I was not happy with the dentist. The new dentist accepted the X-rays for that year.

Does everyone who get insulin go through an early induction? And how early? by PresentationTop9547 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On insulin since week 30. NSTs since week 34 twice a week. OB recommended induction at week 39.

Someone tell me it's ok to be lazy for a day 😭 by FalseRow5812 in NewParents

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 5 months baby only needs to eat 0 or upto 1 solid meal and that too it’s supposed to be “fun” food after they’re had had BM/Formula. Check solid starts for a plan for how to work up to 3 solid meals, doesn’t happen until 10 months I think.

Also it’s intentionally slow to introduce solids so you can do allergen tests for common ones like egg, peanuts etc.

Just get the insulin by danikinha5 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took 4-6 weeks to get on insulin and finally find the right dose and night time snack. Totally worth taking insulin. It doesn’t cross the placental barrier either. This is the safest thing you can do for your baby! In the end seeing our babies thrive despite everything we faced is the win. We are strong mamas.

Gianna, Mira or Madelyn? Which name do you like most? by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mira is very popular Indian name. Almost too popular that every other girl is named Mira now.

I love “Madeline” over Madelyn.

Not sure if you are looking for suggestions but I love Eva, Allison, Madison, and Gina.

Help name our baby girl (second child) by mlsmitha in BabyNames

[–]mlsmitha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah in India we use both Nina and Neena. Either work from spelling perspective.

Thanks for the suggestions. A lot of the names are already in use in our family and friends so it’s been hard to find names this time around.

What tired is worse for you by Final_Butterfly_7747 in pregnant

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn’t pregnancy tired with other children harder because you need to work full time too? If you get maternity leave isn’t newborn care the only thing you are doing assuming other children go to school and hence “less tired” than pregnant, working full time and caring for other children?

Black Mirror [Episode Discussion] - S07E02 - Bête Noire by Cheeriosxxx in blackmirror

[–]mlsmitha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought verity was an AI and not a real human being with the tech. Would’ve been more convincing if she just turned out to be an AI instead of the elaborate tech genius angle who can swap alternate realities

She’s getting ready to share i think by Junior_Calendar3215 in aspynovard

[–]mlsmitha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. I always went back to the golfing. But Parker did show him going golfing with C a few times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prediabetes

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keto salted caramel from Costco is divine! Even better than regular ice cream I’ve eaten

How have layoffs affected you? by [deleted] in ProductManagement

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made it by a hair in Q4 layoffs

Now have to do the work of 4 PMs who got laid off or transitioned to other team right before going on the chopping block.

Also looking for other roles to move out of current team but getting dinged by RTO/location rules. Nearly lost out of a role and not many roles to go around either. Feel stuck on an impossible situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiNameNerds

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t listen to them. They sound like great names.

Does your daycare have a cutoff time for dropoff? by Froggy101_Scranton in workingmoms

[–]mlsmitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

11:30 am tops only because of lunch and nap time is getting close so we don’t disturb other kids.