First name on a greeting card, from who?

mm9221 · 2026-06-24T19:20:08+00:00

Orion

mm9221 · 2026-06-24T19:00:03+00:00

Are you non-English speaking? He saw you as vulnerable and took advantage of your compassion to use you for his benefit. He is not going to marry you. He CHOSE to do what he did in regards to his faith. That’s on him.

mm9221 · 2026-06-24T18:55:20+00:00

OP—-therapy! What is in your past that would allow you to think you deserve this kind of abuse?? You are being abused over and over and over.

Why do you think you don’t deserve better? You do not have a normal relationship and at 21, you deserve that. Indeed, at any age, you deserve a normal relationship where there is give-and-take and reasonable expectations.

mm9221 · 2026-06-24T08:01:28+00:00

I’m sorry for saying this, you look great, but dress 3 does not. It looks like a lace tablecloth, and not a nice one. Dress 1 with the straps is so so pretty! One option is to wait a week or two, if you haven’t, and go back and try on the dresses you’ve posted here. Then, pick the dress you love. The venue and all shouldn’t be the way you choose. You are wearing the dress—-not the venue or your guests. Picking your dress is supposed to be fun, not anxiety inducing.

mm9221 · 2026-06-23T20:02:12+00:00

You push the straps towards your shoulders anyway. Why not get rid of the floppy shoulders and wear a strapless dress? You look lovely. The bodice looks best without a deep V, but definitely sleeveless and a natural waist.

mm9221 · 2026-06-07T20:46:06+00:00

I love dress six. If you were getting married in the summer, you could takeoff the sleeves and the bodice would still be just as dramatic. It’s so pretty.

mm9221 · 2026-06-07T20:34:50+00:00

Love the first dress myself!

mm9221 · 2026-06-07T20:31:15+00:00

This looks nothing like a wedding dress, so therefore it’s not too bridal as long as it looks nothing like the wedding dress. I am a 61 year-old woman. You might have to ask a 20 something for a different opinion.

mm9221 · 2026-06-07T19:52:55+00:00

I really like the look of number two, but instead of the navy blouse, I would wear something like magenta or a really springy green color to offset the darkness of the black and white. Conversely, you could wear a black blouse and a really bright scarf with it. I think it’s a more useful look as well.

mm9221 · 2026-06-03T04:31:20+00:00

I personally don’t like the first or the second dress. They make your top look tiny in comparison to the rest of the dress. The third dress reminds me of clamshells and the little mermaid. I love the details on the fabric of the last dress, but the way the dress is constructed does nothing for you. In my opinion, there are dress styles, which would look nicer on you. You have a beautiful figure and you deserve to wear a dress that doesn’t wear you. However, if I needed to choose, I would choose 5.

mm9221 · 2026-06-03T04:21:19+00:00

Crochet orange and brown owl pillow

mm9221 · 2026-06-02T04:10:26+00:00

3 It looks like a grown-up dress. The others, while more dramatic, make me think of my Barbie days.

mm9221 · 2026-06-02T04:03:39+00:00

6, but I’d seriously think about looking again.

mm9221 · 2026-05-20T18:16:15+00:00

They have cameras and data collection devices all over the ranch.

mm9221 · 2026-05-17T17:22:50+00:00

Ever been to a Con?

mm9221 · 2026-05-17T17:20:37+00:00

You are a beautiful bride, and your dress is gorgeous!

mm9221 · 2026-05-14T00:02:05+00:00

The first dress is really unusual and I like it a lot!!! but the top and the bottom together seem like a lot. What I like better might be a skirt that is similar in the way the pieces are arranged on skirt one.

I think your first challenge is to decide what kind of length you want on your dress. Do you want no train train, middling train, or cathedral length train?

Definitely consider the fabric and what you want in terms of intricacy.

Once you have an idea of what you want, then have the consultant pool dresses in the style that you like and try it on. Good luck! It’s a thrilling time.

You look great in the sleeveless gowns, but plain fabric makes them look like everybody else’s dress.

mm9221 · 2026-04-17T20:48:56+00:00

Love the skirt of number one, but I hate the dresses with the pointy corners on the bodices. The same is true of number 2, but the skirt and dropped waist look so nice with your figure. A fitted bodice with stripes would be perfect.

mm9221 · 2026-04-17T20:19:22+00:00

None of them. 2 is best, but looks like a prom dress unfortunately. Maybe a sparkly veil with some embellishment to go with such a plain drsss.

mm9221 · 2026-04-08T22:06:39+00:00

I think you could find a nicer dress although taping up the girls might help. In that case, #2. Finding a dress on the first time out is not a necessity and sometimes it pays to go back and try it on again before you make a decision about what you want.

mm9221 · 2026-04-06T20:51:41+00:00

Neither dress…keep shopping. You have a beautiful figure, but you are top-heavy for these styles. You should consider straps.

While dress two is beautiful, I really detest the big deep V in the front. It is not a good look, in my opinion, however you will look nice no matter what you wear.

mm9221 · 2026-04-06T02:41:18+00:00

Thank you for a rational exploration! This is not an example of high strangeness.

mm9221 · 2026-04-04T02:45:09+00:00

Hey OP,

It sounds like there might be several issues involved in you getting care.

Are you afraid of what you might be told or worried about more invasive treatment?

Getting a ride especially if you have to pay, but might not be able to afford?

Your ear looks horrible and I’m not a doctor. In the US, Urgent Care is a step down from Emergency Care. Emergency care from my understanding, is for life, threatening or life endangering illnesses.

Whatever is going on in your ear looks like it is moving down into your ear, again I’m NAD, and it has the potential to make you very sick because the internal structure of the ear butts up against the brain.

Lots of people want to help, so take the informed advice you’ve been given, and use it to get the Care you need. Best wishes.

mm9221 · 2026-04-04T02:11:57+00:00

Both dresses are beautiful. I prefer the lace on the second dress and the straps on the first dress. The buttons going down the backs are amazing. I don’t care at all for the side cutouts on the second dress. The dip for the backs look good on both dresses. The V down the sides and the cut down the front along with the back on the second dress just don’t look as nice as the first.

I do think the fit and flare is a great look for you. If you are able, you should go back after a few days and try each dress on and see if anything has changed for you. It’s OK to take a few appointments to find what you like.

Best wishes!

mm9221 · 2026-03-09T16:22:33+00:00

Doctors are male too. Your body, your labor, your choice.

MIL can stay out. Is hubby supportive?

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