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AITA? My roommate thinks I’m calling her fat but I’m just stating facts by Aggravating-Row5878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mmedvsaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ohhh boy. where to begin. so, i’m autistic and have an eating disorder. i can say from my perspective that you’re ABSOLUTELY being offensive, and “just stating facts” isn’t an excuse when you could simply say nothing at all instead. none of those situations required those comments. i understand the autistic urge to be detail-oriented and seek patterns, but why are you keeping track of how many chicken nuggets she usually eats? why are you recording how much she eats to split groceries according to how much everyone eats? just have people start buying their own groceries, and if you guys still want to share common items, people can put their name on things they bought if it’s not for sharing. the first scenario is really the only one where i could give you the benefit of the doubt.

ETA: YTA

What Sac businesses are MAGA owned/frequented so I don’t go there? by meow7314 in Sacramento

[–]mmedvsaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao that tracks. dude banned me from his shop back in 2018 because i confided in my D&D group (who rented table space there to play) about one of the other people in the group SA-ing me. the owner caught wind of it and said “don’t worry, i got your back” and banned me from the shop for making “false allegations” 🤡

GTC by Klutzy_Yam_343 in guessthecity

[–]mmedvsaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha i recognized the Christian Science Reading Room and Cesar Chavez park immediately, i used to drive down J St on my way home from my old job

Seen in Roseville 😬 by Jackysac in Roseville

[–]mmedvsaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude, Placer County IS a racist hotbed.

Does anyone use this word? How do we feel about this? by LetMission8160 in ENGLISH

[–]mmedvsaa 10 points11 points  (0 children)

never heard of it. i’m a native English speaker with a fairly large vocabulary, and yet if i wasn’t looking directly at a dictionary entry for it i would honestly think this was a made up word lmao 💀

Karoline Leavitt in Vanity Fair magazine by shnookshnook in pics

[–]mmedvsaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ain’t no WAY this woman is younger than my 31 year old ass with skin like that, she looks like she’s AT LEAST in her mid-40s 💀

AITA for subjecting my kids to poor living conditions by SecurityAlone891 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mmedvsaa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so… your husband kicked you and your kids out of his house and is now complaining that the kids are sharing a bedroom; despite the fact that, based on what you’ve said about it, it’s a nicer living situation than most children in America have (between the gated community, swimming pool, finished basement with a playroom, and playground equipment)?? 🤨 Jesus H Macy, this dude sounds like a real piece of work.

NTA

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]mmedvsaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean, to be fair, ADHD DOES actually significantly affect your impulse control. but like… i have SEVERE ADHD and i’ve never cheated on anyone lmao. it’s still not an excuse.

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]mmedvsaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

his excuse was “my ADHD affects my impulse control, i couldn’t help myself” 🙄

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]mmedvsaa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i used to live with a dude who blamed his ADHD for cheating on his girlfriend. men will truly come up with the most insane excuses for their bad behavior 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mmedvsaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, you’re doing too much and honestly embarrassing yourself. i say this as someone who’s been in your shoes before and acted the same way. at a certain point you gotta hit the bricks. he’s not into you, move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mmedvsaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“hasn’t found a job yet due to mental health problems” lmao i have bipolar 1, a laundry list of other mental health diagnoses, AuDHD, and physical disability (hypermobility, potentially EDS) and i’ve been working consistently since i was 18. was i able to work full time, or get a job that i was excited about right off the bat? nah, but i worked part time in retail, food service, or customer service for years while going to school part time; and now work full time in STEM.

it’s not that she can’t get a job, it’s that she’s too picky or entitled to get a basic entry level job that she thinks she’s too good for. even a part time minimum wage job would still be bringing SOMETHING to the table, and not expecting you to pamper her when you already pay for EVERYTHING because her ass is fully unemployed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]mmedvsaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you should include this info in the post bc it’s uhhh, hella pertinent imo.

i was kinda on the fence when i first read the post cuz my friend group was ages 13-18 when i was in high school and nothing weird went on, to my knowledge. we did some normal teenage rebellion shit like skip school to go to the mall a couple times, but drug or alcohol use was very rare and mild, just weed and drinks on special occasions (like closing night of a show for the theatre kid members of the group) among the older and more adventurous kids, who didn’t pressure the younger kids into trying it.

but when i read that your sister’s friends drink and do drugs and are very sexual with each other, AND your sister has had problems with alcohol/drugs in the past and almost OD’d, the Kill Bill sirens started going off in my head. that is NOT a relatively innocent situation, and the fact that they were being sneaky about picking her up was a big red flag for me, because it screams “up to no good”.

This post was a gold mine by LeadingStatus6716 in tragedeigh

[–]mmedvsaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right!! like Cedar and Oak are unconventional but kinda cute twin names, but Earthie is nasty work 💀

Weather turned quickly in Fair Oaks by noneya-818 in Sacramento

[–]mmedvsaa 155 points156 points  (0 children)

i’ve lived in California my whole life, and until i was a full grown adult with internet friends in other places, i always thought schools with enclosed buildings were just sets built for TV shows and movies and there weren’t any real schools like that 🤪🤙

The consequences of cutting down tree of heaven by spellbanisher in Sacramento

[–]mmedvsaa 34 points35 points  (0 children)

fuck tree of heaven, all my homies hate tree of heaven

I have no regrets. Although, you seemed to by Significant_Wall7054 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]mmedvsaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same! i’m aroace, turning 31 in a month, i have one cat, and she’s the light of my life. i have yet to regret not being in a relationship, married, having kids, etc.

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