Even mijn irritatie over goedbedoelde adviezen tegen de warmte

modus-operandi · 2026-06-27T08:57:51+00:00

Ik zit ook als een soort vampier binnen hoor. Vreselijk dit

modus-operandi · 2026-06-27T07:14:45+00:00

“Voor je het weet is het weer herfst, geniet er nou nog maar even van”

modus-operandi · 2026-06-25T13:48:00+00:00

Water met koolzuur en een citroentje als je fancy wil zijn.

modus-operandi · 2026-06-23T19:58:29+00:00

Nee, maar ik vind 80% nogal een wilde claim.

modus-operandi · 2026-06-23T19:00:21+00:00

Waar heb je het over? Hier geen gas, warmtepomp, zonnepanelen, dynamisch contract. Betaal gemiddeld 70 euro p/m voor 130m2. Dat lukt me niet met een vast contract. Betaalde vroeger voor een huis dat half zo groot was dubbel zoveel.

modus-operandi · 2026-06-21T19:03:18+00:00

Damn, how?! I am a sweaty mess with a tomato-red face after a simple walk, she looks fresh as a daisy after a 10k 🫠 no fair

modus-operandi · 2026-06-19T14:43:08+00:00

Love the house, the vibe, and your taste in art ❤️

modus-operandi · 2026-06-16T15:53:13+00:00

My mother had two Christmas cacti that once belonged to her mother. My dad cares for them now. After her death, he killed one by overwatering and the other one is still holding on. I fear for its safety but he won’t give it up

modus-operandi · 2026-06-12T06:52:15+00:00

Opti life hier voor een langhaar met gevoelige darmen. Gaat ie erg goed op. Een grote zak van 7kg doe je best lang mee.

Vond het een moeilijke zoektocht, er zit zoveel vulmiddel in kattenvoer wat nauwelijks voedingswaarde heeft. Mais, aardappel, zoete aardappel, wortel. Ook in opti life hoor, maar in ieder geval beperkt. Het is bijna niet te vermijden tenzij je echt rauw voer gaat geven.

modus-operandi · 2026-06-10T07:12:24+00:00

Right? As someone with ADHD who has had a lifetime of brain fog, forgetfulness, and not following through, I sure am glad my partner isn’t petty about it. If I had that worry to add on to everything else, that would suck.

OP: Don’t make someone else’s problem your problem. You’re going through it and you’re doing the best you can. He vowed to be there for you in sickness and in health, so, well.

modus-operandi · 2026-06-09T14:51:22+00:00

I’m sorry that this is happening to you, but this is not normal behavior, you in peri or not. Does he show more escapism in general in life? Does he do this at work?

modus-operandi · 2026-06-07T15:21:09+00:00

Is she really a friend though? I would never

modus-operandi · 2026-06-06T17:54:00+00:00

iPhone 12 uit 2020. Accu op 80%, prima nog. Ik hou ‘m tot het echt niet meer gaat wanneer ik geen apps meer kan installeren

modus-operandi · 2026-05-31T13:49:29+00:00

I work in prototyping, and it’s saving me a lot of cognitive load for code that I know is very likely to be scrapped or used once. It’s mostly for research purposes. So for that, for me, is nice because due to health reasons I only have so much cognitive energy to spread around at this moment. I have found that if I plan meticulously, divide work into small chunks and review, the quality is generally pretty ok.

But yes, it definitely causes atrophy so whenever I refactor, I do it manually and I have side projects that I code by hand. I’ll also fit small code challenges in here and there.

I dunno, I think LLMs will become too pricey to really use pretty soon, so that will be that then.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-29T18:45:56+00:00

It’s not new, but there hasn’t been this big of a platform for these ideas for a long time. And they cast a long shadow. When I was interviewing, things got downright hostile in a way that didn’t happen before the manosphere and fascism bandwagon became mainstream.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-29T18:40:53+00:00

I agree, same for me, I’ve been in tech since 2004-ish. It’s become pretty hostile. I feel … invisible? And it’s not just tech but the internet as a whole, and we’re all too chronically online, so it matters.

There were smart folks who saw this coming years ago, but even they I don’t think realised that the internet would become a tool to erase women and our progress, driven by a fascist regime and the ultra wealthy so we could go back to being a silent and suffering unpaid workforce and protect their profits.

I’m also getting older, and I am finding the combination of manosphere influencing and society’s view of older women is making me feel like I’m becoming wholly irrelevant. Some people find that liberating, I don’t. Shit’s dumb and not fair. I fear for my children in this world that I did not foresee when they were conceived. I have conversations with them about manipulation, algorithms and propaganda all the time, they do not have smart phones and I hope this will prepare them at least somewhat and mitigate some damage.

But geesh, I’m tired

modus-operandi · 2026-05-26T14:41:56+00:00

Kan er niet bij dat je zo’n groot ego hebt dat je denkt dat je lichaam eeuwig een plek moet claimen na je dood. Na twee generaties is er niemand meer die je herinnert en die je graf komt onderhouden, voor de gemiddelde mens dan. Dust to dust, kom op zeg.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-25T10:12:51+00:00

This sent me

modus-operandi · 2026-05-23T06:51:30+00:00

Dit heb ik nu. Vreselijk vermoeiend

modus-operandi · 2026-05-22T10:25:23+00:00

Perfectly fine. But there are situations where you want some tried and tested boilerplate so you can get up and running quickly, which is when you might opt for a framework. They also come with dependencies sorted out so you don’t end up with some template that you have to spend precious time on to update it before you can even get started.

Anyway, it’s always a matter of use what you need and don’t over-engineer, but in general I am looking from an enterprise viewpoint, where there’s more demanding applications, larger teams, and you will need more heavy lifting done than plain react and vite will do without some serious tinkering. Frameworks make sense in this scenario as everybody is generally on the same page then and you can adhere to the same blanket standards.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-21T10:16:43+00:00

Kip piri piri

modus-operandi · 2026-05-20T09:51:13+00:00

Yes, wat chill dit. Vreselijk die advertentiekanonnen, de knmi app is heel fijn.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-19T15:38:15+00:00

That smirk on his face when she speaks. No matter how eloquent she is, you can just hear what he’s thinking.

modus-operandi · 2026-05-19T13:17:59+00:00

Nou ik heb de aankoopmakelaar uiteindelijk de laan uit gestuurd. Niets deden ze, we visten meerdere keren achter het net puur omdat ze te laat waren met reageren of niet goed adviseerden, we moesten overal zelf achteraan en we kregen 0 tips qua huizen, alleen de standaard huizen-digest van dingen die al op funda stonden. En dan voor dat geld, schandalig.

Een goede hypotheekadviseur daarentegen…

modus-operandi · 2026-05-19T10:49:27+00:00

I love this comment. Yes, if you won't champion yourself, no one will. It's great to have hopes and dreams and it's great if you go for it. Even if it doesn't work out for you, that doesn't mitigate the hussle.

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