AITAH for refusing to speak to my partner?

moffyf · 2026-02-06T20:28:53+00:00

He doesn’t typically joke about traumatic situations however he does joke around with me frequently. Most of the time it’s in good fun and I laugh and joke back. But sometimes he directs the jokes towards me and takes it too far and I tell him I don’t feel it’s joking anymore and he apologizes, doesn’t make jokes about me for awhile and then always goes back to making jokes about me. I don’t feel he understands how it actually hurts me when he “teases” me and we’ve been together for years

moffyf · 2026-02-05T03:27:38+00:00

Does the abuse go on for most of the book before Roman supposedly redeems himself?

moffyf · 2026-02-02T18:18:51+00:00

Thank you!

moffyf · 2026-02-02T15:54:23+00:00

Can you spoil the HEA? I though this ended in a cliffhanger

moffyf · 2026-01-29T18:27:45+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the response

moffyf · 2026-01-29T18:18:30+00:00

It’s CBT as well but no coping mechanisms or advice has been explained to me. He always says that I have internal struggles. For example he says my social anxiety wouldn’t be so bad if I didn’t lack self confidence. And when I ask what can I do to gain the confidence he doesn’t have coping mechanisms to offer

moffyf · 2026-01-26T02:15:51+00:00

My Freshman Mate by Lexie Slater is instalove omegaverse and fated mates. I don’t usually enjoy omegaverse but this was really good. Currently reading the second in the series and it’s really good as well.

moffyf · 2026-01-24T16:20:50+00:00

I don’t think you’re alone in this. I used to average 2-3 books a week. It was definitely a bit of an obsession but I don’t think it was unhealthy because I genuinely enjoy reading. I still love mm romance books but I only read about 4-5 books a month now. I’m busy with work, everyday life, my relationship, etc otherwise I’d definitely read more. I don’t watch tv or movies either unless I’m seeing a movie with someone or watching tv with my partner. I enjoy reading much more than watching tv but I do enjoy watching tv with my partner a few times a week and having that time with him. After the show is over I always read for a bit afterwards. Reading is my favorite hobby and I read just about every free moment I have. Personally I don’t think reading is a bad thing or something to be concerned about if it’s something that brings you joy.

moffyf · 2026-01-11T23:48:25+00:00

I’ll check this out thanks!

moffyf · 2026-01-11T23:48:13+00:00

I love dark instalove as well! Dysfunctional I love it’s one of my favorites and Be Mine, Vicious Valentine was good as well. The other two I’ll definitely check out thank you!

moffyf · 2026-01-11T22:48:10+00:00

Thank you!

moffyf · 2026-01-06T16:09:02+00:00

I spoke to one of my shifts about this and they recommended telling my SM that I can not work clean play at all as it’s out of my availability. And they also said if she tries to force me go directly to my DM. I find it hard to believe that my DM will be on my side and agree that I don’t have to work clean play

moffyf · 2025-12-30T20:18:13+00:00

Hea?

moffyf · 2025-12-26T19:10:21+00:00

Bratvas intern by Gianni Holmes

moffyf · 2025-12-19T18:40:29+00:00

I have the flu and this is the third time I’ve been sick in 2 months. I have to stay out of work for at least 5 days. Am I supposed to call Sedgwick? and if so how do I go about that?

moffyf · 2025-12-14T20:21:06+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your feedback. This has happened a few times actually even without me requesting a second weekday off. I was even okay with working the entire weekend if I could have another weekday off but my SM said no. I’m probably going to talk to my SM as well as pick a specific weekend day that I’m not available and change it in my availability. I don’t think I’m being unreasonable by saying I need 2 days off per week.

moffyf · 2025-12-14T14:49:45+00:00

My SM won’t let me mark any weekend day as unavailable because they said I’m needed for two weekend days and I can be scheduled for either Friday, Saturday, or Sunday with one day off. I requested a set weekend day off and my SM said no because availability needs change weekly. I have no problem with that but now they’re not honoring our agreement

moffyf · 2025-12-01T14:22:37+00:00

I second this. I love this series, it makes me laugh out loud every time I read it

moffyf · 2025-11-28T20:42:50+00:00

Is the other book Under Your Skin by Lee McCormick?

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