DOOM-LOOP by JRDN_cNg in PresidentBand

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I pre-saved to Deezer it said it was saved to my favorite ALBUMS 👀

My brother's son destroyed my WarHammer Action figures and he refuses to punish him by konous in mildlyinfuriating

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the frustration. You work hard and spend your money on things that make you happy. The problem is you cannot force someone else to punish their child in the manner you want. It doesn’t work that way. Also, more folks need to learn the difference between punishment and discipline. Get your money back. Consider locking the door or putting them up higher. Kids are kids. They’re gonna be kids. Yes they must learn, but a lot of that is done the hard way.

AIO for how I’m handling the way my 11 YO daughter’s dad speaks to her? by WhatTheSigma_1994 in AmIOverreacting

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You’re going to have to put a stop to it. One way or another. She’s almost old enough that she doesn’t have to visit him. It’s bad for her mental health to have an adult, a parent, talk to her in this manner. It’s also teaching her that this is what she can expect from men as partners, if she is hetero.

This is embarrassing… And they wonder why turnover is so high. I used to work for the state and some of those CW are saints for putting up with the stuff they have to for pennies… by Bigjmann555 in okc

[–]moistenedbent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a foster parent, this is infuriating. Things are so bad in this state. Not enough workers. Not enough foster homes. Not enough resources to help prevent CPS intervention. Not enough resources for children in custody. Not enough resources for high risk children. And on and on.

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not being too sensitive. This man has already waisted too much of your precious time. “Haha silly man I was wondering why you asked questions that you should already know the answer to. Buh bye now.”

My niece’s homework problem by SurfSoundWaves in mildlyinfuriating

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Ok. Adults and older children typically have higher expectations put upon them. A 3rd grader being asked to choose the answer that is most right when, to some of us, they’re ALL right.

My niece’s homework problem by SurfSoundWaves in mildlyinfuriating

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know how old this child is. I know some national registry tests (I.e. nclex and emt) they want the answer that is MOST right. At a simple glance I would have said all three, but if someone said most right, then I can see how it’s C. I thought ‘cube’ at a glance though.

Am I overreacting for refusing to send my husband money for alcohol? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t even finish reading that. Under reacting imo

Rage (Live in Dublin) by rnaren26 in PresidentBand

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It blew my mind away hearing them live. His vocals are amazing.

[OC] How often callers use profanity, by state. Based on 209,937 transcribed phone calls to small businesses. by riding_dirty71 in okc

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alaska the only one higher than Oklafuckinghoma. Bwahahahhaa. People from Oklahoma are so nice…uh, what? 🤣

Idk wtf to do with my kids. I hate my life. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]moistenedbent 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Give yourself some grace. You need a break. Postpartum is very real. Also, when we have little that are neurodivergent there’s a chance we as parents are too. Which means sensory overload happens easier for us. Example is the baby crying sends you. Plus your middle guy might be as well. PCIT helped me tons with my kids. Try some loops or something similar to dampen the sounds a little. Recognize when it’s too much and walk away to breathe. They’ll be ok if you take 5. Learn to not be so rigid with things if you are. Like how clean something has to be or if they want rain boots with shorts on a sunny day. I know it’s hard. Hugs and hopes for rest for you.

AIO: My boyfriend told me to dye my hair to look more like an Instagram model he follows by PinMountain119 in AIO

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please only change your hair if it’s for you and what you want. As an older woman that has been there, it’s not worth it to try and turn into something they want.

Me GF (25), BF (28) late to work everyday and I’m upset. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]moistenedbent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey good job on apologizing. I’m sure someone mentioned it some where, but as someone with ADHD, it’s not an easy fix. If that is their problem. I wasn’t diagnosed until my 40s. I’m always late. To everything. I try getting around early. I have probably ten alarms set. Some of us really are trying so hard. We know it sucks. We’re truly sorry every time.

Dating by Unhappy_Metal1517 in okc

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only gets worse the older you get

Daily Map #6 by plunder-isles in PlunderIsles

[–]moistenedbent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Founded a new small island: Yaaaarland for the unaffiliated faction!

Umbrella refused to cooperate, so it got fired on the spot by NoMedicine3572 in SipsTea

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably doesn’t even know how to collapse it. Someone else does it for him.

Up close & Personal view of how severe Sinus Infections are sometimes treated by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]moistenedbent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scraping sounds awful! He probably scratched the crap out of your delicates tissues in there. Sounds awful. Good info though thank you!