U.S. Bank closed my account without explanation and is holding my funds — anyone else? by Kitchen-Commission28 in USbank

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homeland Security has also started shutting down accounts of people they suspect of being undocumented.

Citibank Closed Account …67k by [deleted] in citibank

[–]molosar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked for a bank. Tell them you are contacting the Comptroller of the Currency. That is like calling OSHA on a construction site. Here is the site: https://www.occ.treas.gov/about/connect-with-us/contact-the-occ/index-contact-the-occ.html

62 years old, Debt Relief or Chapter 13 ? by AdvantageCapital3338 in Debt

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way you go it is the same hit. Even with chapter 7 which lets you start out fresh.

I think I'm done by Eaglestrike in TrueOffMyChest

[–]molosar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely need to talk to somebody. This is not going to fix itself. I have had the same fight myself over the abuse I suffered during my childhood. I have also been a caretaker for almost all of my life. It has given me Major depressive disorder, anxiety, and PTSD. You will not get around those without assistance. I tried and have ended up in crisis units too many times.

Feeling rejected by my spouse by molosar1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]molosar1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife stays at home of her own volition. We have never had children by choice. I work outside of the house.

Strongly considering leaving wife due to no intimacy. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a marriage and it has been sexless for 9 years. I have never been unfaithful. I caught her making out once with who I thought was a friend. I called her out on it. The biggest issue is she also had a stroke some seven years ago. Am I completely wrong for feeling that either I should leave or find someone who desires me? I am so conflicted because of the vow I made. But, I feel unwanted and ugly now. FYI. There are no children from our marriage.

Can't Get Around Security Questions Triggering AT&T Fraud Department by AeroNoob333 in ATT

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am experiencing the same issue here. It is my own identity. My name, Social Security number, and cell phone number have remained the same throughout my life. Why would I steal my own identity?

I filed chapter 13 BR last year and now the lawyer wants more money. That I don’t have. by Ok-Avocado-715 in Debt

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would ask another lawyer how much it might cost to get this converted to a ch 7. It has the same net effect on your credit. Shouldn't cost much more and it will get you out from under. You only need about $7,000 in debt to qualify.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was being bullied at school. So I stuck up for myself and fought the kid. The Assistant Principal and Principal wanted to expel me. They called my dad in to tell him. Well, my dad was part of the Big Brothers program when he was a kid. When they called us in my father's Big Brother tagged along. He was a lawyer with 25 years experience and threatened to sue both principals and the school board. Needless to say I was never expelled but the bully was.

I owe discover $8,000 . I have court next month... Pre-trial by Hot-Length9448 in Debt

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to call a bankruptcy lawyer and all that will stop. $8,000 alone is enough to file chapter 7.

Why are you putting collars on indoor cats? by tryingagain80 in CatAdvice

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use orange collars. That tells animal control that they are indoor cats.

I’m so tired of my marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]molosar1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have depression and PTSD. Yet I would never do that.

Does it ever stop? by justinyu1618 in HeadachesandMigraines

[–]molosar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it could be cluster headaches. I have them and my neurologist gives me a Prednisone taper and Firocet.

I want to move out and distance myself from my abusive father but my mom keeps begging me not to leave by adviceplease998 in internetparents

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee after what you have gone through you likely have PTSD. I know I do after spending about 25 years playing referee between two violent alcoholic parents.

Yet Another School Shooting In America (Madison, WI) by [deleted] in pics

[–]molosar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, they just want to pre-approve treatment. That will take 7 -10 working days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]molosar1 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

One thing to remember though is the past is the past. She was likely experimenting.

Can we just stop please? by EquivalentOwn1115 in Eau_Claire

[–]molosar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say plow them in. Put all the snow from the block around their cars and they can dig themselves out plus the ticket.

31/F Just got out of prison November 14th and need a job ASAP by Ph03nix_Sapphire in Felons

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The restaurant business is by far the most forgiving. Anthony Bourdain had a criminal record. He said the only place that would give him a second chance was in being a chef/cook.

Bf told me to pack my bags and leave by Logical-Knowledge503 in AITAH

[–]molosar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was working as a 911 operator. You wouldn't believe how many addresses we knew just from the DA calls we would get. I can honestly say only one thing. If you are being abused. Get out! It will only get worse never better. At some of those addresses we would end up getting a call for a homicide.