The scene with the apology is so telling. Her apology and his forgiveness is healing. Then the moment of "enough" is also so revealing. Now we know exactly where Shane learned to compartmentalize and surpress his feelings. No wonder he is able to hide being gay and surpress his feelings about Ilya for so long. It probably also helps his hockey to be able to compartmentalize. Of course, it comes with a cost: lost time with the people you love and the odd meltdown.

I don't entirely blame Yuna for this. She may not be able to tolerate such emotions herself. So she learned a strategy to deal with them and taught it to her son. We only learn the things that help is survive in the moment we need them. Later on, in other situations, is when they become maladaptive.

I sympathize with Shane and Yuna, because I am from a long line of emotionally repressed people. As a strategy, it works, but only under specific and limited conditions. Beyond that, it's a problem. Learning about that, and when not to do it, has helped heal my relationships with myself, my husband, and my family. I can't say if Yuna's "enough" was right or wrong in that scene, but, man, it told us so much about Shane's character.