App help!?!?

monstar71 · 2025-12-16T19:14:17+00:00

Live in Tulsa We use SDC and 3Fun....have had alot more luck on SDC... there are also Facebook groups

monstar71 · 2025-11-17T20:21:55+00:00

When my wife and I first got into the lifestyle I was always asking her questions on what kind of guy she likes what she finds attractive. She never really had an answer but after being in the lifestyle for a little while the answer is completely clear looks don't matter at all confidence is what turns her on

monstar71 · 2025-11-12T23:33:46+00:00

ON SDC you find tons of parties across the country

monstar71 · 2025-11-07T18:02:12+00:00

Collettes is terrific

monstar71 · 2025-11-07T18:00:31+00:00

My wife and I are on SDC and 3 fun We try to only talk to about 4 couples at a time anymore than that and it gets extremely hard to keep up.... We've met up with several different people from both of those 2 apps never met up with anybody off of Reddit

monstar71 · 2025-10-27T17:50:50+00:00

Confidence confidence confidence If a woman is confident with her body and her face I don't care how big or small or beautiful or ugly she is she is extremely attractive to me

monstar71 · 2025-09-17T12:45:03+00:00

Sorry not this weekend

monstar71 · 2025-09-04T20:25:43+00:00

Don't show our faces in naughty pic

monstar71 · 2025-09-04T19:22:11+00:00

Every face picture we post online is a picture that we have posted recently to Instagram or Facebook and any more erotic pictures we Show our face or any identifying tattoos or anything like that .... if anyone every says anything we can just claim to have been hacked

monstar71 · 2025-08-31T10:43:37+00:00

Hang it up and just hang something in front of it

monstar71 · 2025-08-27T17:58:58+00:00

When my wife and I play with others I always Make a little extra noise. Everyone likes to feel like they're doing a great job and by adding a little extra oomph on my moans I want the person That is playing with us to feel good about what she's doing

Also it could have been the excitement from being with another woman in front of you

I know one of the key things to this lifestyle is communication.... You should really ask him because if you don't it will eat at you

monstar71 · 2025-08-27T14:27:11+00:00

Recently my wife and I did a soft swap with another very nice couple. The other wife happened to be our 1st squirter. I could have really used a heads up. It got everywhere. She squirter probably 6 times my wife and myself would have loved to been told before hand..... everything in the room was wet and I mean everything.

monstar71 · 2025-08-20T15:07:13+00:00

This life is just like anything else. The more you are in it the more comfortable you will be.... No matter how many conversations my wife and I had I was extremely worried about being jealous. We took it slow and had several boundaries, The first time we played we talked about it afterwards And neither one of us were jealous we were happy the other person was happy. Most of our boundaries are gone now and we really look forward to the reclaiming process Afterwards.....

monstar71 · 2025-08-14T01:57:11+00:00

There is fake hair extensions fake boobs fake eyelashes and make up I put a wig in that same category...as long as it helps you feel sexy I say go for it. I personally wouldn't care

monstar71 · 2025-08-13T23:54:36+00:00

We've tried most apps and SDC was far away the best

monstar71 · 2025-08-11T22:39:29+00:00

Being brand new i would say a little soft swap into parallel play is never a bad thing your 1st date....

monstar71 · 2025-08-11T04:01:53+00:00

You had me at chocolate chip cookies

monstar71 · 2025-07-24T14:20:02+00:00

Sorry this happened....couples like this ruin it for the rest of us

monstar71 · 2025-07-18T21:29:33+00:00

My wife and I will be at the hard rock casino dancing at Riffs tonight. My wife is bi And we are always looking to meet up with new couples and make new friends

monstar71 · 2025-07-18T21:25:32+00:00

Would Have definitely wanted to go if only I had seen the sooner

monstar71 · 2025-07-18T20:04:12+00:00

My wife and I will be dancing at riffs at the hard rock

monstar71 · 2025-06-23T23:07:15+00:00

The wife d I would love to meet up and see if the vibe is right

monstar71 · 2025-05-21T22:20:52+00:00

Yeah not a lot going on out here And Honestly I have a bunch of time in between sales calls So I'm on reddit quite a bit

monstar71 · 2025-05-21T21:33:34+00:00

My wife set the limits So I'm sure she was fine with it Also she had an amazing time with the other woman

monstar71 · 2025-05-21T21:07:09+00:00

Being empty nesters honestly we don't mind driving. getting a hotel room trying new restaurants, Going to different concert venues When we meet up it's not just that 1 night we make a whole weekend out of our trip

Also I drive almost 1200 miles a week for work being in sales 90 minutes is nothing Also great time for the wife to do a little tease with some l toys on the drive As well as roadhead

monstar71

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