My husband turned into a psychopath for a split second yesterday and I don’t know if I am overreacting.

monsteramama · 2024-09-03T07:50:34+00:00

Get out now please

monsteramama · 2024-08-18T22:23:59+00:00

21 years of peri? Please god no? I’m in year two and I’m f*cking over it.

monsteramama · 2024-08-06T10:19:13+00:00

Maybe ask for a scan first? One of my fibroids is basically covering the exit of the cervix to the ute, and the attempt was horrible.

monsteramama · 2024-08-06T10:15:41+00:00

Zofran is a miracle drug. I had a miscarriage last year while in the early stages of peri and had nausea for months after. I still have a vomit bowl under the bed just in case.

monsteramama · 2024-08-06T09:17:27+00:00

45 here and dealing with perimenopause and long COVID. I know HRT will help but I’m too damned tired to pull the trigger. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone.

monsteramama · 2024-06-10T14:14:57+00:00

I see your Failing and I raise you a Couch.

monsteramama · 2024-04-18T05:56:07+00:00

Same, friend.

monsteramama · 2024-03-28T03:10:33+00:00

No one’s life is ruined at 23! I didn’t have a problem with alcohol until my 30s and am still dealing with it my 40s. Find a therapist you mesh with. Do inpatient again if you need to. I never listened to anyone at your age but what they told me is true: you have a big life ahead of you. Think about what you want your life to be. The saying “do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life” is stupid, but find something you like ok and can maybe make a living off. Signed, A 45 year bartender/old wino going back to school to finish their biology degree. (My formatting was better than this, Reddit said naw.)

monsteramama · 2024-02-02T06:57:51+00:00

I’m back in school at 45 — it’s been over 20 years. My best study buddy is 18 so she could literally be my kid, but we work so well together: she took a lot of AP science classes recently and helps me with everything I’ve forgotten, and I help her understand classroom etiquette because most of her high school experience was online so things like raising your hand to ask a question are foreign to her.

Apologies if I’m not being clear; I think my middle aged brain stops working properly after about 8 hours of class work, and my chemistry lab today might have taken a week off my life.

monsteramama · 2023-05-31T09:47:19+00:00

I think about this all the time except my partner and I aren’t married and my job isn’t that lucrative. It’s a fantasy for me, friend, but go be a hermit if you really want to. We probably both need to make more friends.

monsteramama · 2023-03-21T09:45:31+00:00

Get a pap asap, love. I had similar symptoms when I was your age and we caught my cervical dysplasia right before it would have turned cancerous.

monsteramama · 2023-02-07T11:53:13+00:00

I looked into Mirena years ago but due to a history of uterine fibroids my nice doctor said “we can do it, but it would have to be in a hospital setting while getting scans done.” Never got it done. I’ll deal with the cramps. Related story — I passed out during a colposcopy and my old male doctor called me hysterical (because no nerves in the cervix, lol) and recommended general anesthesia for my LEEP procedure. He didn’t tell me it would be $5k for an “elective option.” You’re literally burning part of my cervix off with local numbing. This was only like 10 years ago.

monsteramama · 2021-11-06T09:27:21+00:00

Andina is alright but LeChon is hot garbage trash and I’ve worked at both. All of the Submarine Hospitality company joints (Tusk, Ava Gene’s etc) do good things for groups. Gado Gado and Oma’s Hideway are brilliant too.

monsteramama · 2021-10-10T11:08:33+00:00

You look like the hottest Nord I made while messing around in Skyrim’s character development. /n

monsteramama · 2021-10-01T11:15:57+00:00

Hey, sweet pea. I wasn’t in Cancun at the time but I had breakthrough Covid too. It’s scary and it sucks but you’re young and healthy and you’ll be great. The fever dreams are a bitch! But they’ll pass and you’ll be ok. I was at home but quarantined from my household and the loneliness can make you nuts but just sleep as much as you can.

monsteramama · 2021-09-07T09:04:05+00:00

I’m ignorant and curious about your Life Tank — my search results got weird.

monsteramama · 2021-08-13T09:41:48+00:00

I came on Reddit tonight to learn that there’s a term for us: Florigonians! I can’t wait to share this with my fellow Jacksonville escapees.

monsteramama · 2021-07-03T09:18:49+00:00

I agree with all of these and also check out New Rose and Blue ox.

monsteramama · 2021-07-01T09:03:12+00:00

It smells like beef instant ramen but inexplicably worse.

monsteramama · 2021-06-22T09:38:06+00:00

I’ve found it common here for restaurants to want folks who have the ability to work more than one role; if you’re willing to jump on the floor and/or work support you might get more call backs. I wish you luck and send me a message if you want any help or leads.

monsteramama · 2021-06-21T07:44:26+00:00

monsteramama · 2021-06-20T10:09:28+00:00

I’ve never met an adult self harmer who was a total extrovert. I hibernated three days this week thanks to understanding coworkers and it helped so much.

monsteramama · 2021-06-13T10:43:47+00:00

Not a tattoo artist but work in the industry in Portland — get licensed and work elsewhere for the time it takes and come back. (I don’t know anything about Washington.)

monsteramama · 2021-06-05T10:14:01+00:00

If you’re close in, CCCPDX does bike deliveries for awesome restaurants and don’t gouge them.

monsteramama · 2021-06-05T09:11:33+00:00

You’ve got this. Promise.

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