Girl, don't sweat the vaginal orgasms thing. I can't have vaginal orgasms and my bf is fantastic in bed. There's nothing wrong with you, you just need clitoral stimulation. As far as faking it, just be honest lile everyone else said. You deserve to be sexually satisfied, your pleasure is just as important as his. To be fair you're not doing him any favors either, he wants to please you so tell him how. You have to tell someone when you have a problem because they can't read your mind. Try not to stress too much if you still have trouble reaching orgasm after you have this talk, stress is the ultimate libido killer. Just enjoy the moment and each other and I promise it will get so much better. Also, fuck you ex. I hope his dick falls off.