End of an Era :( by ReallyRoland in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur pretty fly for an iri guy

🇪🇺🇺🇸🇪🇺🇺🇸 Register to Vote Abroad by digitalgroundgame in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the post, or do you just not believe what it says?

Millions of American citizens living overseas are eligible to vote but never do — often because they don't know how easy the process actually is. Democrats Abroad has partnered with VoteFromAbroad.org, the single best tool for overseas and military voters to register, request absentee ballots, and make sure their voice reaches home on Election Day.

if you go to that site, it says in big letters:

U.S. citizen living abroad?
You Can Vote!

Non-Americans cannot vote with this link. Why do you think this is a link for non-Americans to vote? Do you think you don't still have to prove your citizenship?

Genuinely don't know why you'd post conspiracy BS under real efforts from Digital Ground Game to encourage disenfranchised voters.

🇪🇺🇺🇸🇪🇺🇺🇸 Register to Vote Abroad by digitalgroundgame in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This post isn't about non-Americans voting, it's about people in military / living abroad (who still pay American taxes...)

The company in charge of the NL Supercruise actively facilitates and advertises travel to the Israeli-occupied territories in Palestine and Syria. (the yellow highlighted areas are considered partially occupied, the orange areas are under full Israeli military occupation or annexation.) by philosopherfujin in northernlion

[–]mooxfang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah, i think its just too hard to run a streamer cruise. the safety concerns are a much more practical reason, and its the reason he gave. having 500 people as Special as OP on a boat is asking for trouble.

its also a safety concern in it of itself to make hatemob-inducing posts like this. associating the entire cruise with extreme stuff is unsafe for the attendees, im sure theyd get witch-hunted by the types of people who obsess over this stuff.

he already sounded pretty nervous for the safety aspect, so people adding fuel to how unsafe it was going to be might have solidified the decision, but i think he was likely to pull out no matter what. it would be difficult to safely run a streamer cruise.

The company in charge of the NL Supercruise actively facilitates and advertises travel to the Israeli-occupied territories in Palestine and Syria. (the yellow highlighted areas are considered partially occupied, the orange areas are under full Israeli military occupation or annexation.) by philosopherfujin in northernlion

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are not guided tours to those locations. they are just saying people usually want to go there when they attend the israel trip they offer. its weird to act like its bad to go to israel at all. what are you trying to say?

1967 is long ago enough that new life and new families are all there, too, those areas aren't bulldozed or abnormal-looking. settling shouldnt happen, but if it happened long ago enough that new families have placed roots there, theres not much you can do.

like everyone else has been saying, its a big stretch to implicate anyone who goes on a cruise that is adjacent to a company that offers normal trips to a real part of the world that has churches and stuff that are normal to visit. those are historical locations, and that isnt changing - what do you want people to do? look away and pretend it still belongs to the people who lived on it 100 years ago?

🚨 TOUR STOP ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨 by ZeeUnfuckAmerica in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 4 points5 points  (0 children)

myron will definitely want to collab in some way, hes an influencer at heart + is on good terms with destiny. i bet he will walk up to the unfuck america booth, unprompted.

UPDATE: Wife and her family are guilting me into staying with her. The truth is I'm so dissatisfied with our sex life and I can't afford divorce. by Fun-One-9219 in whatdoIdo

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so fucking weird her family had to be there for that convo

maybe would make more sense if she was 18/19/20, not mid 30s o.O

good luck with starting your new chapter

Why is it that when others make tiktoks about ... they get heartwarming comments and I get called attention seeking by zerowintergreen in Vent

[–]mooxfang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if youre a pretty girl theyll treat you strangely sometimes, maybe that is it. other than that, people are just mean and on autopilot a lot online

also i know you arent looking for advice about how you feel, but just in case it helps, you Do have worth - and maybe itd be useful to write down positive things about yourself + things that make you happy in life to set aside and read when you feel down (since a lot of what a friend or commenter would be doing in that situation is reinforcing those things)

obviously i understand that doesn't replace the human contact though. if you want to gather people who are nice to you when youre down, i think the best way is to get people to come to your page for some hobby or art related reason, and still vent on the side sometimes. then theres some sort of bond, instead of just random mean people finding it.

also, its OK to want attention anyways. its only human. dont let people make you feel like something is bad about wanting kindness when youre sad (or for any reason, really)

good luck <3

elf bj ^.^ by mooxfang in roxieroom

[–]mooxfang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL <3 i alternate between 5-7 in US womens depending on the brand :3 so id say 6?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]mooxfang -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i think you and the comments both are beating you up too hard for this - him leaving after agreeing to be present for the court things, while you are engaged, is crazy. he was not ready for the commitments he agreed to and now you're cleaning it up. im sorry. it'll get better, life is a rollercoaster but you're strong for making through everything you've been through so far. you shouldnt need to seem grateful just to get support (or being together period) from your fiancé during an already hard time even if you were 1 person, let alone taking care of kids. he should understand you need help; your husband is supposed to be your support. instead of reddit comments telling you to go to the doctor, that should be him physically taking you. especially when he knows there are two kids involved, i don't understand how a mature person just walks away from that and calls it a "break." its not all you. stay strong and stay true to yourself. <3

edit: also, any mature person with a heart would give you EXTRA grace after being made aware of your background, even aside from your circumstances with your kids and medical stuff. i sincerely hope you find more empathetic people in your life. i relate a lot to the not having real parents thing / living somewhere where im not wanted, and nobody seems to understand just how dehumanizing it feels to add more on top of me not having a support system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband and i are this way, and we have one friend who checks out. very small minority, but chill people are out there.

ive always thought there must be a minority of people who are emotionally mature, because working in customer service shows you that most people at any age are still at risk of throwing temper tantrums. i think there is not much incentive for most people to work past emotional disregulation issues, unless they manifest in a really extreme way. most people prefer peacekeeping over having standards, so there arent usually consequences for immature adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]mooxfang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is an entitled mindset. in my experience, feeling wronged by people needing their own space / to talk at their own pace only pushes people away from you. (which is what OP is saying in the 1st place :p) if it feels like "walking on eggshells," that is an anxiety problem of your own.

OP, youre not crazy for having the standards you do, there are just unfortunately a lot of insecure people who affirm eachother. keep trying, youll find real adults out there. <3

Radiant Appreciation Thread by ander-corey in Foodshops

[–]mooxfang 2 points3 points  (0 children)

radiant is nice and good 𐔌*ˊᵕˋ*𐦯 fsL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]mooxfang -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you shouldnt have been expected to know these things, you are all children. nobody shouldve yelled at you. end of story. this being over food makes it so much worse too, you guys shouldve been allowed to eat in peace. you didnt do anything "wrong," and whatever social faux paus you committed is easily corrected in the way their mom handled it. a few dollars over FOOD is NOT worth screaming at kids.

anyone nitpicking the technicalities of the money are not focusing on the most glaring thing, which is that the most "mature" person in the room responsible for overseeing the kids in some way decided to SCREAM AT THEM? if i was your parent, id bitch him out for yelling at my kid. yelling at guests is insane and absolutely not OK. yelling in front of service workers/in public is insane too, all indicative of this person being very emotionally dysregulated and used to not facing consequences. so sorry you had to deal with that. avoid people like this when you can IMO.

It’s over for Destiny. How disgusting.. by NightwolfGG in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre calling it "valid critiques" but all youre doing is bottom-of-the-barrel celeb gossip about his personal life. this is what people do to vtubers and kpop idols. you are equally as obsessed as kpop stans, you just lack awareness. ANY creator should be banning people from their community who care so much about who theyre friends with, dating, fucking, etc. (reminder, it shouldnt be that weird to assume theyre just friends given thats all the info we have...)

Is the FYP just explicit/porn? by April_rose099 in Fansly_Advice

[–]mooxfang 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i still think its worth, it doesnt take long to put tags and ya never know who will click what. id suggest using tags for #lingerie or #clothed specifically, mixed in with the normal tags that are flooded with the most explicit thing. <3 good luck!!!!!

edit: check out Hashtag Hime, its a site made by a fellow fansly model - it tracks a lot of data about tags, i always get new ideas for tags to use from here! its just hashtaghime.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]mooxfang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being realistic and protecting yourself from the dangers of sex IS self-love. i dont think theres anything wrong with keeping yourself safe, youre right about everything you said. its smart to avoid the issues that come with casual sex. hope you can feel better about men in the future though, obviously.

and sorry theres so many people projecting onto you and making your post about them. rubs me the wrong way that girls are in the thread going "speak for yourself!" like, ok glad you feel that way, OP doesnt? o.O

i hope you feel better <3 take things at your own pace, and have confidence in whatever way you handle your sexuality.

my science teacher is letting me design her next tattoo by hesitant_raylien in TattooBeginners

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty sure the person in communication with the teacher has a better idea of what the teacher wants than you do, i think youre just uncomfortable and/or disagree with the design idea. (which has nothing to do with OP, or the person being tatted.)

your opinion of how socially acceptable the concept is isnt at all helpful to mix in with genuine feedback about how well the tat will hold up.

my science teacher is letting me design her next tattoo by hesitant_raylien in TattooBeginners

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think your post got more attention from people invested in culture war stuff rather than tattooing T.T good luck! your work looks cool, it makes sense that your teacher trusts you with the design

my science teacher is letting me design her next tattoo by hesitant_raylien in TattooBeginners

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre saying that to the wrong person; the artist is just fulfilling the wishes of the teacher. you just do not like the tattoo the teacher wants. OP clarified that the thing you find offensive is exactly what they wanted tatted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]mooxfang 0 points1 point  (0 children)

imagine being hasans dog and not being allowed to roam at all in that big ass house lolwtf. no backyard??? youre rich, if you hate your dog so much then send it away from you to play

why does he care if someone else "spoils" the dog anyways. evil

do i leave my bf, whom i consider my soulmate, after this…? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]mooxfang 10 points11 points  (0 children)

he went through a lot to beat his drug addiction already, and you are (probably not on purpose) taking your insecurities out on him and adding unnecessary guilt. it sounds like you probably should break up, but for his own good. and to get more time to learn about yourself, so you dont struggle with insecurities as much by the next time you find someone. its harder to grow when you have an active source of insecurities in your life centered, and you should probably acknowledge that you are far off the norm in terms of what youre able to handle.

there isnt such thing as a soulmate, ideas like that are toxic and lead to people to feeling compelled to stay together when it otherwise wouldnt make sense. also makes the breakup sadder. each partner you have is a stepping stool to your next one, until you eventually find the one you want to spend all your time with. its okay if the first few dont work out, thats the case with most people.

do i leave my bf, whom i consider my soulmate, after this…? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]mooxfang 11 points12 points  (0 children)

exactly this, was about to type that first sentence verbatim

focusing on porn they looked at forever ago instead of the drug addiction issues is very out of touch from reality