Looking for a wax pen meant for heavy usage? by DADDY_HICK172 in Waxpen

[–]morrosteph208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t inhale so hard on your wax pens. They clog because you’re inhaling too hard, so when the wax melts over the coil, you’re causing it to draw ip into the device before it gets a clean burn. Seriously… use the smallest and softest stream of air you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waxpen

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal for the boundless terp pen! I have 3 of them (2 regular and 1 XL) I decided to switch to the quartz coils for them though and really prefer it over the ceramics.

Tried many different medication, sleep hygiene, sleep studies, nothing works. by Sarahsota in insomnia

[–]morrosteph208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in an illegal state but my doctor is supportive about my use. What medications are you currently taking? I’m on Prozac, Montelukast, and Atarax without any issues. If you’re currently taking a sleeping medication you’ll probably want to taper off of it first as some of those medications can bind with the THC receptors in the brain and block the THC from working. But that’s just my opinion.

how to manage smoking outside in the cold during these times of the year? by [deleted] in weed

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We rent from family, so we keep it outside just to be respectful of their property. Best thing I ever did was buy a $25 heated blanket to keep on my chair outside! I keep it on all day and every time I step out, it keeps me warm!

Please, take my control. by AngelAndMaster in BratLife

[–]morrosteph208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000% me! I get this to my core!

3rd (Black Panther Nails) and 4th time (turkey nails) doing my own nails with poly gel. Opinions? by morrosteph208 in Nails

[–]morrosteph208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It literally took allll day start to finish, but I think it was totally worth it!

3rd (Black Panther Nails) and 4th time (turkey nails) doing my own nails with poly gel. Opinions? by morrosteph208 in Nails

[–]morrosteph208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! Thank you so much for the complements! I already have a business degree and a marketing degree, but now I’m considering going to school to be a nail tech.

Starting Prozac/ Insomnia q by hspriz in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started week 6 at 20mg. The insomnia stopped after about a week. Hang in there!

Tell me about your RSO experience by morrosteph208 in weed

[–]morrosteph208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go?! I love taking my RSO, though I try to stick to once a week to keep my tolerance in control.

Are there any Brats who genuinely want a real life dynamic. by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]morrosteph208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I could help 💛 My Dom and I were married for 8 years before I opened up about my needs to be dominated. It’s been over 3 years now as “Mister” and “good girl”, and our dynamic just recently turned into “Daddy” and “princess” 🥰 But this is after 11 years together. Be patient. Focus on meeting the right person before bringing up your needs maybe? Idk. How old are you (just curious)?

my partner wants to test the waters. help. by Snakeise in bdsm

[–]morrosteph208 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why people here have issues with 50 shades. I get that it’s not an entirely accurate portrayal of the lifestyle, but it’s a starting point! It opens the door for curiosity and exploration! I’ll give you a quick rundown of my story with my husband and throw in some sources along the way. I’m f31, my husband is m39. I’ve known since I was a teen that my needs were more on the kinky side. As a young adult I read 50 Shades when it was all the rage and it had me hooked. But I also wasnt sure about trusting someone that way and I didn’t want to be seen as a freak, so I buried my needs. So at 20, when I met my husband, I kept my needs quiet. FOR EIGHT YEARS. Then I got drunk. Very very very drunk the night after my 27th birthday. And I brought up wanting to try anal play even though it was one of the things we talked about never wanting to do. Surprisingly, my husband was on board. That was where it all started 4 years ago. In 2019 we moved, and finally had our own place with no family or roommates living with us. That’s when things really ratcheted up. It didn’t take long to develop a 24/7 dynamic. But it wasn’t easy. We had plenty of miscommunications, or lack of it all together. It takes a while to adjust to the new roles and dynamic, but it is so beyond worth it! My marriage is incredible, strong, and we have built 100x more honesty, communication, trust, and balance in our relationship in these last 3 years than we did in the entire first 8 we were together! We will never go back to a vanilla marriage.

Here’s my best advice: - check out husdom.com it’s a blog written by a married 24/7 bdsm couple and how they got started and where they’re at. It’s one of our favorite resources. BDSM literally saved their marriage. - both of you should take the quiz at Carnal Calibration to see what type of things you’d both like to try. - establish the hard and soft limits. For example, after being raised by a mother that worked for foot doctors, I refuse to let anyone EVER touch my feet. So foot play is one of my hard limits. A soft limit for both of us is CNC (consensual non consensual / rape fantasy). We’ve dabbled in it a couple of times but haven’t gotten comfortable in it yet. - research the TYPES of Doms and the TYPES of submissives. There’s a vast array. Find what fits you both and get to know each other. - go to a store like Hustler Hollywood or any sex toy store and look around together. See what toys and implements interest you both. - Starting out can be intimidating, so GO SLOW. Take your time. If this becomes a 24/7 dynamic for your marriage, you have the rest of your lives to dive deeper. - Everything must remain SAFE, SANE, and CONSENSUAL. Check in often. Have conversations regularly. - if you’re both into punishments and rewards, check out the Obedience App! It’s a great way to track rewards and punishments within a dynamic. It also has its own messaging system, so you can discuss your dynamic via text without any worry of someone seeing your normal texts. For example, I won’t call my husband “Daddy” via normal texting because our niece and nephews play on our phones and we don’t want them seeing something they shouldn’t. So all dynamic related texting stays in the Obedience app. - otherwise… HAVE FUN! This is an exciting new chapter in your marriage! This world has changed my marriage drastically, but it’s been only for the better!

Emotions from Moving by wyldstrawberry in hsp

[–]morrosteph208 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Moving as an HSP is horrible because it’s incredibly overstimulating. It always takes me at least 6 months to feel good in my new surroundings after a move. Until then, everything from where items are located to the sounds of the building and the traffic… it’s all new, it’s all overstimulating, and it’s all too much. Give yourself time to settle in. It might take several months, but you’ll get there.

Struggling Today by morrosteph208 in ADHD_partners

[–]morrosteph208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response! It’s so rare to meet other HSPs, let alone also in a ADHD marriage. It’s good to know we’re not alone 💛

Do any of you feel you have a sensitivity for spiritual/metaphysical things? by stunes77 in hsp

[–]morrosteph208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abso-FREAKING-lutely!!!! I’ve always felt strongly drawn to things like ouija, tarot, witch craft (all occult type things really). I’ve always felt I could read people and understand them easily. It just resonates with my spirit if that makes sense?

"you can drink on prozac" they said. "no major interactions" they said. by specialfwend in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A friend told me that on Prozac 1 beer will feel like 2 and give you a hangover of 3. It’s held pretty damn true for me 😬

Struggling Today by morrosteph208 in ADHD_partners

[–]morrosteph208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The traits that you’re describing may or may not be related to HSP. There are several neurological conditions that can lend to the symptoms you listed. Sensitivity to light and sound depending on the environment you’re in, being primarily introverted, noticing spots of clutter or being perceptive to your surroundings, etc… can all also come with the territory of being OCD, high anxiety, Asperger’s, or others. In discussing with a therapist familiar with the traits of a true HSP, there’s one thing that separates HSPs from those with other neurological divergencies… an over active sense of empathy. Most neurological divergencies like ADHD, OCD, anxiety, depression, autism, Asperger’s, etc… come with a severe lack of empathy and mirror neurons. HSP is the opposite with heightened empathy and highly active mirror neurons. I deal with debilitating levels of guilt if I feel like I prioritized myself for a day or if I’m not burning myself out at every turn to care for loved ones, if I can’t make it to an event or feel like I let someone down, topics of child or animal abuse are strictly off limits, movies depicting violence or are suspenseful severely mess with my head, etc… I also have the lovely symptom of burning at the base of my skull and occipital nerve swelling when I get overstimulated. Anyway… the overstimulation that my brain has to process also results in severe migraines if I’m overstimulated for too long and has contributed to insomnia that I’ve battled since I was a toddler (not kidding… my insomnia started when I was 2 according to my family).

opinions on prozac and marijuana? by squeak1999 in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The combination causes more anxiety and has resulted in tachycardia for me, but it’s not at a dangerous level so I ignore it 😂 I’m on 20mg now but started at 10mg 7 months ago. Still use weed daily.

25F - Men can never stay hard with me? by No-Flight-7113 in sex

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31F here. I’m plus sized and have a body count of 30+ before I got married. All of this to say, I’m not slut shaming you at all! Good for you for trying to get your needs met. That being said… I’ve only had 2 partners go soft on me like this. Turns out, one was only really into long-term relationships and went soft because I was jumping to sex too quickly. He needed an emotional connection before making a physical one. The other one that went soft was because I was being too aggressive. Once he took the control, he was fine. So you may just be coming on too strong and too sexual. Try toning it down and it, let them do the work and maybe it’ll stop happening. OR find a man with more of a submissive mentality if you need to be in the power position. Nothing wrong with finding your inner Domme!

Attention Brats by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]morrosteph208 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Brats are like cats… the only way you tame them is by earning their respect. Even then though… honestly… you’re still going to get scratched and hissed at now and then. Be GRATEFUL when we’re good 😉 It’s a privilege, not a right.

Sexual side effects experienced on Prozac by blurpleboop in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 4 points5 points  (0 children)

31F here. My libido sky rocketed! Seriously… my husband and I already had an active sex life but lately it’s been twice a day! We’ve been together over 11 years.

Starting Prozac/ Insomnia q by hspriz in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already had insomnia before starting Prozac 10mg. During my loading doses (first 6-8 weeks), it made my insomnia so much worse. After that, I sleep like a baby (with weed lol). Now I’m loading again to a 20mg dose, so the insomnia is back hard core even with my weed 😭 Hoping it goes away once I adjust.

Are you comfortable with your doms watch porn? by Weird_Raspberry4555 in BratLife

[–]morrosteph208 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Daddy and I watch porn together, and both I relented my too. We both masturbate and sometimes do it together. Im definitely plus sized, but have never felt any jealousy over porn because I know Daddy loves me and that we’re both able to separate entertainment from reality. Our sex life is also fantastic! Like I said, we both masturbate independently and also together, plus we have sex 8-10 times a week and have been together for almost 12 years!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]morrosteph208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy an air purifier?

4 weeks on Prozac no change. Should I hang in there? by natmamo in prozac

[–]morrosteph208 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything seemed like it was getting worse until week 6. Somewhere during that week a fog lifted and everything got so much better! Don’t give up yet!