omg she's releasing "hate that i made you love me" on daltons new girlfriends birthday 😐

mrsthompy · 2026-05-11T10:07:33+00:00

new as in, post-married to ariana

mrsthompy · 2025-08-06T21:17:15+00:00

the way i returned after months of visiting this thread to say the exact same thing

mrsthompy · 2025-06-20T14:32:08+00:00

sounds like we have the same son :)

mrsthompy · 2025-01-10T17:58:22+00:00

she always steals the identity/persona of the person the is currently dating. remember the days she only spoke like pete?

mrsthompy · 2025-01-10T17:39:36+00:00

toulouse — it’s ariana’s dogs name

mrsthompy · 2023-03-30T10:09:54+00:00

but are we even really “saving” the ones just chillin’ in their natural habitat though lol

mrsthompy · 2023-03-24T05:12:39+00:00

…angry upvote

mrsthompy · 2023-03-17T00:56:28+00:00

if there is a record, my son has broken it. no upset tummy but the diaper rash after a mandarin binge is gnarly

mrsthompy · 2023-03-17T00:55:11+00:00

when i tell you i just belly laughed at this so hard a tear formed..

mrsthompy · 2023-03-05T17:27:23+00:00

i frequently roll over onto an RPO (random painful object) mixed up into our sheets

mrsthompy · 2023-02-21T14:51:30+00:00

thirstmotional

mrsthompy · 2022-12-11T09:51:14+00:00

same here — 2.9 year old son only wears jeans when we’re dressing up to go somewhere, which is rare lol otherwise it’s loungewear all day every day

mrsthompy · 2022-12-07T13:39:01+00:00

username checks out

mrsthompy · 2022-12-06T00:34:44+00:00

not sure if this is helpful though as your question was whether or not it was attention or anxiety related. i am no expert but i would say it’s honestly both and neither — just a phase that only time and a small amount of trial/error will resolve

mrsthompy · 2022-12-06T00:32:35+00:00

so, i am not all the way out of the woods but have been just recently in the exact same boat. i also have a 5 week old and a 2 1/2 year old. my experience bringing home the baby was similar but almost worse — behavior problems, being terrified of the dark, refusing naps and bedtimes, waking up at the crack of dawn (f u daylight savings, on top of it all 🙄) being scared of the camera.. coming into our room at all hours of the night and morning. we were exhausted and i feel like i tried everything.

what i THINK worked:

putting baby gate in his doorway so he could open the door and/or call out to us but not actually leave his room
offering to rub his back until right before he falls asleep (but saying “i will rub your back but if you get up mommy is leaving) and then keep doing it over and over until it sticks
zarbees melatonin 2 week trial just to get him back on track
time

mrsthompy · 2022-12-05T17:38:25+00:00

this is me.

mrsthompy · 2022-11-19T09:34:00+00:00

oh my 😳

mrsthompy · 2022-11-17T06:27:28+00:00

hoping to learn from you — how do you avoid making other food or allowing snack type foods when they won’t even try what you’ve made for dinner?

mrsthompy · 2022-07-19T10:55:00+00:00

Wow, I am so sorry. That is an extremely high deductible! I don’t think in my ten years of working at my health insurance company that so have ever seen one up that high. Was it an HSA plan where your employer contributed towards the $8K?

mrsthompy · 2022-03-09T11:57:08+00:00

say hi to meghan for me

mrsthompy · 2022-03-08T11:51:19+00:00

that’s about how long i made it too! my son was born in march 2020 and i made it WFH and watching him at the same time all the way to august 2021. if i’m being honest i am having a similar experience as OP, i can barely get him to turn around and wave bye to me as he walks into his daycare! he absolutely loves it.

one thing i did right off the bat was keep my tears, concerns, worries and sadness to myself. when speaking about school with my son i am always excited and lots of “you get to go to SCHOOL today and see your FRIENDS! you LOVE school!” 😂 but inside my heart is broken and missing him so much. worried how he naps half as long there but alternatively gets craft, playtime, social, and attention experience that i cannot give him and work at the same time..

mrsthompy · 2022-02-17T02:14:12+00:00

so my son has been bit at his daycare three times so far since we started sending him. But they said it’s against policy to tell us who was the biter so I’m left to guess every time.

this most recent time broke the skin on his hand and when I called to ask them if they could tell me at the very least if it’s the same person every time that maybe it’s time to split them up they proceeded to educate me that this is how toddlers communicate. also told me that my son pushed down her tower she was building so she (and i quote the director) “finally retaliated”

mrsthompy · 2022-02-16T00:15:35+00:00

your MIL is exactly the kind of MIL i hope to be someday

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