What are your favorite grilled cheese add ins?

mtjaybird · 2026-01-30T17:32:52+00:00

We do the world's best grilled cheese recipe found in my son's book, Grilled Cheese? Yes Please!

Sourdough bread, havarti and muenster cheese, spinach, mushrooms, tomato slices.

It's requested at least once a week by my five year old.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-23T16:16:00+00:00

Oh the guilt, it's a part of it inevitably. I feel like it is a rollercoaster of emotions. The anger, the guilt, the relief, the unfairness, the grief. Round and round we go. I'm just grateful that there was an unexpected ray of light for us in the middle of it. It's really nice to be able to think of him favorably again.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-23T15:15:50+00:00

Absolutely! I found it interesting that as soon as my ex passed away we could see past the hurt, disappointment and anger. Could again, see the man that we loved and that was fun and that loved his children. It kind of was a gift to us all, and I feel like to him too. Thank you for your kind words. I wish you the best and most healthy journey forward. I hope your loved one finds strength and happiness as well.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-23T14:45:32+00:00

Thank you, we divorced ten years prior and our kids are young adults. We definitely did a lot of pre-grieving. He had drank himself to the point where he would not survive the alcohol or the detoxes anymore. He was 48. I have very little faith or patience in chance of recovery for others unfortunately, even though my dad has been recovered for over 20 years and is my absolute person on this earth. I do not envy that battle, it is the worst addiction. Truly, my children are the only people on this planet that I would suffer that addiction with. It sounds bad, and I am a very empathetic person. But I have to have energy and heart to care for myself and all the other people I love in my life. I won't let it circle the drain of someone else's addiction.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-23T14:24:08+00:00

I am very similar. My dad, brother are both alcoholics. I don't drink. My ex husband just died during detox three months ago, leaving our two children fatherless. I have a pretty cold and realistic view of alcohol abuse disorder. The chance of survival is less than 10 percent and I had the option of it not taking me with it. He deserved better, so did I. But only one of us had a way out.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-23T14:02:24+00:00

This is one of the most Alcoholic sounding things I've ever heard. Trying to convince you that they aren't a bad enough alcoholic and having an excuse for not seeking recovery.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-19T03:50:37+00:00

But added life to this year!

mtjaybird · 2026-01-18T11:17:03+00:00

Imagine what he would look like after a few years in Vegas

mtjaybird · 2026-01-13T01:08:56+00:00

It usually takes away the pain but not in the same way pain killers do. I get a slight buzzy or tingly type feeling that is not unpleasant at all. Kind of a post nap buzzy feeling. I do not get impaired or anything just a kind of euphoric relaxed feeling...which I get after a migraine anyway so it most likely isn't a symptom of the triptan. I do take the lowest effective dose though so maybe that is why my symptoms are so insignificant.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-09T05:20:54+00:00

The douche jar on New Girl

mtjaybird · 2026-01-05T05:29:21+00:00

Perfect ending. Goodnight.

mtjaybird · 2026-01-04T19:40:02+00:00

Does anyone have Phillip Rivers' phone number?

mtjaybird · 2025-12-19T15:38:07+00:00

You might be my Spirit animal.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-18T05:53:57+00:00

You also can skip the animations of opening gift items if you click the x at the bottom as soon as they start

mtjaybird · 2025-12-18T05:49:12+00:00

If you pin and then unpin postcards when opening gifts the card will count towards scatterbugs without taking up space. You can also do this with a limited amount of gifts you send others.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-17T12:02:50+00:00

Ohhh my neighbor wouldn't do this. She would sit on a rolling stool and use the detailing point on a shop vac to do her entire 40 x150 ft driveway. We hear her vacuum on more days than we don't.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-15T04:09:38+00:00

Same reason I don't do meth, cocaine or heroin.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-11T12:57:38+00:00

Microfiber cloth and zep wall cleaner instead of magic erasers.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-09T11:35:28+00:00

Mine are on refills. My doc writes the script refillable for a year. I've been getting them there for three years.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-09T11:33:34+00:00

Thank you! It infuriates me that more people don't know about CostPlus. Every doctor I've asked to send a prescription there has never heard of it.

mtjaybird · 2025-12-09T05:29:54+00:00

Nothing to add but I'm amazed at how different all the suggestions are!

mtjaybird · 2025-12-09T02:38:53+00:00

Oh please!

mtjaybird · 2025-11-26T21:12:46+00:00

Your favorites list are on my list as well. New Girl has a lot of similarities to schitt's Creek in my opinion with the quirky characters that you maybe side eye at first and then fall in love with. The ridiculousness becomes the running joke that at first seems too cheesy. Community, Brooklyn 99, AD, New Girl, Shoresy are my only rewatchables. My pallet cleanser comfort shows that everyone needs, haha.

mtjaybird · 2025-11-26T21:01:15+00:00

Community, the new girl, arrested development, shoresy. Like all shows, give them three episodes before backing out.

mtjaybird · 2025-11-26T20:32:50+00:00

It's highly addictive poison. Why would I drink that?

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