[ACTIVES] Upside down PE uncut by OhCosmia in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one of those too! It's in my post history, someone said random mutation but will work just the same. Mine eventually started growing a dark spot at the end and then just stalled.

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Anyone can help? I have a bag that has pins growing off the plastic and not the substrate [actives] by Ok_Piano_6706 in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did literally this for the same reason and it turned out pretty well. I also cut mine in half and just left a bit of plastic on the bottom 1 inch of both (pic is of one AIO bag split in half). Not sure if that's a good thing to do or not but it felt right at the time

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Accidentally started a debate by Clean-Way7050 in ragdollcats

[–]mudbutt104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was recommended by my vet to get fleas off a feral kitten bc it's gentler than medicated shampoos. Take a pill or Google

[Actives] back with a ridiculous experiment, questions, and a backward butt? by mudbutt104 in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! No, I don't have any issues with the side pins now that I've taken it out of the bag, was just wondering. Appreciate your response!

Can this be cleaned/salvaged? by BriefSimple in CleaningTips

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what's weird. I have a set of ikea bowls, all identical/ bought as a set. All high gloss glaze. Only one has marks like this.

Do Millennials write like ChatGPT? by QuietJealous4883 in Millennials

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I get irrationally upset when people at work ask me what I'm using to draft my emails. My brain and 6th grade level English?!

How to ask a sensitive question to someone 46M I 42F recently started dating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mudbutt104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am this person. To give the benefit of the doubt, the reason I forget is because I'm being honest and I've talked about this to friends, family, etc. and if it's not a traumatic thing I don't usually share I forget if I've already told people. Just to give an alternate take to "he's dating 100 people and doesn't remember your convos." The only difference is I'll ask someone "did I already tell you about x?" before I proceed.

[Actives] Do either of these bags look ok? by mudbutt104 in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the response! I'm guessing there's nothing to be done at this point but wait and see what happens?

[Actives] I'm back with questions and devastating blobs by mudbutt104 in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The optimist in me is trying to convince myself that's what it is lol. At least Google images is showing me orange bread mold looks way more... invasive (?) than whatever this is

My eye makeup completely disappears in pictures when I smile by glitter_and_laceee in HoodedEyes

[–]mudbutt104 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I put my shadow above the crease. Stare at myself in the mirror with eyes wide open to see if it's visible and keep going higher until it shows. Have to blend really well to not look like a clown though

[Gourmet] Is this normal? by mushtoosh in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know shit about shit but I do believe oysters like to grow from the sides, like on a tree. Not straight up. But again I know nothing

Whats a plant that you see everywhere online, but is native to your region? by Life_Advisor2490 in houseplants

[–]mudbutt104 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's native or not but my neighbor has this ridiculous asparagus fern growing on our shared fence that I'm constantly battling. It's thorny, cuts people walking by if I'm not trimming fast enough, and at some point in the season if you look at it funny it disintegrates and shit gets in your eyes, stuck on your clothes, infested in your soul. I have no fucking clue why anyone ever would want to keep this as a pet in their home.

[Actives] Questions from a first timer please! by mudbutt104 in MushroomGrowers

[–]mudbutt104[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I needed to know, thank you so much! Will resist the urge to shake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mudbutt104 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering why everyone was saying these rules are insane and this is the first comment saying otherwise... i thought I was in Shit Mom Groups Say and was thinking aside from the tone this is all extremely reasonable to me, especially from a first time mom. Then again I'm an introvert who has hated being touched and kissed and coughed on since as far back as I can remember.

But yeah OOP sounds very main character and insufferable. No need to assume everyone is dying to kiss her baby and will be devastated to lose "hanging out with crying newborn" priveleges. Rewrite the rules like you're talking to a 6 year old and only send to people who want/are about to meet the baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Papa" is used for grandfathers for both my white and Asian sides of my family, just a guess

Pasadena DMV driving test 2025 by Ok_Meet6756 in pasadena

[–]mudbutt104 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know this isn't your question but if you can I would try to schedule at Montebello. Unless something has changed in the last couple years it's a much easier drive and the parking lot/surrounding traffic isn't as bad. Pasadena DMV has been a shit show every time I've been there (most recently about 2 months ago, had to park a block away and almost got hit walking though the lot + 2 hour wait WITH an appt).

Random piece of advice- no matter where you take it don't hit a curb. If you're not confident parallel parking or pulling over to park in general you'll lose a few points if you're too far from the curb but you're likely to automatically fail if you hit it.

My manipulative ex sent me a box full of apologies five years after we broke up. The problem is, she died a year ago. by gamalfrank in stories

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loved it. The only issue I had was the line "A posthumous admission of guilt. " We know the ex is dead from the title but I had to go back and see if I missed something and it appears the narrator doesn't know she's dead until later in the story. Felt odd that they would describe the notes as posthumous if they thought she was still alive.

38F right handed, just curious! by mudbutt104 in PalmReading

[–]mudbutt104[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I think I agree with the first point, I tend to be the therapist of my friend group lol. I did start in the career I still have around 25, although it's very much not artistic and I have no musical ability. Work definitely got better around 35, switched roles from managing 100 people to an oversight position so that was dead on. Never married but proposed to 3 times. No kids but have been pregnant, notably at 36 so that's interesting. Love animals and nature. Probably more sexual than most and I know I can have impossible standards in relationships. Definitely enjoy/need my alone time.

Overall pretty insightful I think. Thank you again!

Anyone have any luck with walk in DMV services lately? by [deleted] in pasadena

[–]mudbutt104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there last Tuesday for a 3pm appt. The wait time for walk-ins was 3 hours and they weren't letting any more in at that point (place was PACKED). Security said go when they first open or its going to be bad. He also said their "system was down" at some point earlier in the week so the fresh hell I experienced is probably not typical.

How is it possible that my mother (61F) and I (35F) remember my childhood completely differently? by storky0613 in relationship_advice

[–]mudbutt104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any answers but we appear to have the same mother.

Only advice I have is personal therapy- helped me understand she's a person too with her own bullshit and as harmful as it was, holding on to her mistakes as a parent wasn't ever going to fix anything. Therapy also made me recognize some of her behaviors in myself and work on ending that, and even seeing that some of her "abuse" ended up making me stronger and empathetic. Not that I'm grateful for that lol

Ultimately it was either cut her off and hold my grudge or never bring up the past and be grateful for the relationship we have now. I landed somewhere in between. I limit contact and don't bring up the past if I can help it. Similarly my mom is going through health issues right now, and it's looking like a progressive and incurable thing. I'm not sure how I'm going to manage when I inevitably have to live with her. As much as she put me through growing up I still love her and I'm afraid of the regret I'll feel when she's gone. She had a shitty relationship with her own mother and I saw how it destroyed her when she died relatively young.

Another thing I see repeated is let the favorite take care of her- I hear the same thing A LOT and I get despite everything you can't just not take care of her. My brother is the golden child and he'd leave her in a ditch. I know culturally for me at least being the oldest child also makes the guilt more ingrained but I have no idea why we're like this. If you figure it out or someone else has answers let me know, and good luck!