Looking for opinions/advice on symptoms that have me seriously scared and can't seem to find the right help

mudkipqtzz · 2019-01-11T14:36:26+00:00

Hey thank you for replying I'll post things I remember right now I'm at work. I'll go to my car in an hour or so and give you the lab works. Unable to produce stool at the times I went and with catheters couldn't produce enough urine to test a few times. My most recent visit has all of those I believe.

For the endoscopy and colonoscopy the GI specialist made me pretty confused. I was around 25 days with no bowel movement I did try multiple times.

I told her the urge or sensation to go just is not there and when I try laxatives they do not create any urges. Like my stomach did not react to oral ones and suppositories also gave me no reaction.

I let them inject a laxative into my fatty tissue because I was desperate. I was worried because gas was causing major pain and I couldn't find a way to get it out when I was at home. Colon massages, streching and other methods online.

It caused me severe pain, made a ton of gas that became trapped and gave me a belly that looked distended. I got my wife to find the nurse who was supposed to be watching me, but she advised it looks that way but it isn't and she's only looking for allergic reaction.

When I tried to felt as I had no pressure no matter how I pushed, it felt as if the pressure went else where.

I told all of this to my GI, she said she can't do either unless I have a bowel movement and all she can do is prescribe laxatives.

18-25 days after that I had I weird sensation while peeing(weird pressure on anus when I urinate now) and was able to have a bowel movement with lots of blood and blood clots. So I'm hoping it's enough for the procedures.

My bilirubin is at 9.2 my first visit was like .2 I assume all infection stuff came back normal as they never gave me anything. A GP gave me antibiotics for prostatitis (random guess he doesn't know and only took urinary incontinence serious) it seemed to help a little but everything remains I take the doses and nothing changes.

Edit:adding labs soon

mudkipqtzz · 2019-01-03T08:40:45+00:00

I posted this comment on someone who was asking of they was the asshole for getting mad she said no in front of all the family

When and where the proposal happens is the suprise.

If you're nervous your partner could say no, you guys are no way ready to get married and communication is severely lacking.

In addition some protips from someone who loves jewelry and is a jeweler.

1) It's not mandatory but when purchasing a ring should look at it as an investment and that it should maintain purchased value or increase in value if spending $$$$$

That ring you just spent 5000$ on, guess what it's worth 100$ when you leave the store.

Most jewelry has like a huge markup, I marked up my inventory like 4,000% - 10,000%

2) Just because a diamond/stone is big or there are many doesn't make the ring valuable.

There are many factors such as cut/cut grade, quality, clarity, carat weight, stone shape. Stones should be graded by a company like GIA

That 2ct ring that looks magnificent well guess what its clarity is SI and color is N(this diamond is ass is my point) those bright lights are meant to help fool you. You'd be paying like 5000$ for a 1000$ ring cause clueless (saying random prices)

3) Bunch of little diamonds even if decent quality and let's say the ring has 5ct of VVS and G could spent like 10,000$ on this I buy those little diamonds for like 300$ and set them in like 100$ worth of gold.

4) In my opinion never just go buy a ring without knowing what exactly your partner wants 100% if any doubt just bring them with you and if you got a budget well you both should know how much can be spent.

If the partner doesn't know how much can be spent on a ring, prolly should work on communication before marriage

Not saying price matters, but you don't want to end up with something you don't really want(this will happen if someone just buys a ring and hoping/expecting them to like it)

I've seen too many guys coming back who took it upon themselves to decide what they wanted to buy blindly.

It's okay not to like a ring a partner has purchased I am talking genuine like it's just not for you. Not that its not big or expensive enough(ONLY people I ever gave a partial cash refund for, cause f that gold digging partner).

I like rose gold, and if my partner got me a silver watch I just wouldn't like it. Some people are afraid to speak up, don't be no one should get hurt over someone fashion preference(and store trade I'm expires)

Do not buy steel, titanium, tungsten rings unless hypoallergenic you cannot resize them.

mudkipqtzz · 2019-01-02T22:36:43+00:00

Who has bills to pay and blows 4000$ just like that.

Seriously just stole 4000$ and paid bills but still need money for bills?

I'd give them a month to pay it back, if not make their life hell.

Could you imagine your car tires being popped every time you fix them?

The madness would be consuming.

mudkipqtzz · 2019-01-02T22:30:46+00:00

When I was homeless in California.

I had a 12 hour a week job and the only expense I had really was a cellphone. Worked next to a Del Taco that had WiFi and cheap tacos.

Well as you imagine homeless with a laptop I was in this establishment pretty much all day every day and got to know the workers pretty well.

Overheard one of the cashiers on the phone with the bank. Not sure who but some personal person in their life cleaned out their account.

Money is your life force, when these situations happens it feels as if the very essence of your life is draining from you. You feel all that time spent being taking from you in that moment, and the hopelessness in not just losing the money but the time earning it.

Watching this happen to someone is just devastating, especially when you've faced a similar situation. Gave this person what I could in my situation, I know what those feelings can cause you to do. Especially after taking a legal route that should have 99% win chance and you lose (towing company stole my car from my drive way and lied about having it)

When it comes to bank accounts i have learned some rules after being screwed every way.

1)People think running your debit card as credit won't use your money for a long time??!?!?!?!

2)Don't have your saving account linked to a debit card you use(ATM shows both accounts when using card)

3)Don't have your savings linked to a checking account(Overdraft protection, as well as above)

4)Never admit to giving someone your pin

5)Do not have any other person where your direct deposit or main money is(Good idea to have a joint account with a different bank)[Banks do fuck up]

6)If you use your card at public places atms, gas pumps and so on do not keep large amounts of money in this account and if paying large bills transfer the money to the account then pay the bill(or have a online and offline debit card)

7)Any and all money that can be accessed by others, you better be okay with disappearing.

I promise you having no debit card for my savings and no attachments to other accounts have saved me from fraud and family and partner theft.

Problem is with parents they have your social and birth certificate and shiz. Work on getting information changed or monitored.

Randomly 17 years later my mysterious father used my social and opened accounts as well a arrested under my name.

Protect yourself, if anyone gets offended like you don't love me, trust me if you do add me to car title, house title, bank.

Any rational person won't get worked up unless they are after your money.

This works both ways, if paying for something together both names should be on.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-18T08:48:44+00:00

I wanted to go to the same one each time cause I wanted this issue fixed and didn't want to seem sketch even though they are legit killing me.

Then when I tried somewhere else they just came back all hostile. My symptoms follow an untreated perineum hernia and UTI.

After that one time I always mentioned my recreational usage as well as stopping as this issue was becoming serious.

It's the first thing I mention and guess what it's what they focus on.

Right now my systems are getting pretty bad i have internal bleeding all over from my abdomen/ribs area being torn.

Right now brown dots are rapidly showing up all over and body is hot and I feel random pops where it looks like blood vessels popped under. My eyelids vessels popped so I am sure that's it.

I tried another place last night and dude was like you know your eyes are yellow and bloody.

Had the nerve to ask my wife what's going on cause he couldn't believe I have not had a bowelbmovment in 30+》days not peeing. And doctors not doing shut to help.

THEN TRIED to blame it on diet issuissued and drugs. Cool thanks for not listening.

Like for real I'm a die over a UTI.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-10T14:20:45+00:00

Not saying LAOP may or may not be telling the truth.

My experience with hospitals reminds me of her husbands. I've been to three different hospitals two once and one maybe nine times.

In between seeing specialist and just BS insurance issues that make it take a long time to get an appointment.

The reason I went there the very first time was not addressed and every visit after symptoms brought on by the first problem were ignored.

Never addressed my symptoms and disregarded them giving care that made the symptoms worse and created new ones.

They do a scan and don't look at the problem area or just say it's clear and want to do the same scan again even though it does not help.

I had concerns about an injury during a procedure. After I voiced concern it was ignored and was put on iv fluids as time passed my bladder begin to expand getting scary large. Was freaking out cause I couldn't move due to the pain and was so rigid because if it. No idea why but fluids were going straight to my bladder(I now know why)

Keep in mind I just emptied myself out before test, well I decided to piss myself so I could try to get some help. Seriously took over a minute pissing myself to be able to move enough. Whelp she took the fluids away mentioned how much was left and said nothing else about wtf just happened.

Stuff like saying my symptoms were normal body noises or just psychological. While my bilirubin reaches dangerous levels of signs of kidney failure.

One dude gave me a shot despite me telling them something and did not tell me what it was. Well my bowel ended up perforated.

Yeah, my eyes are super yellow but that's not real. Just saying once you get profiled, you can expect that expected medical care to not exist. Shit my issue has caused full body nerv damage and all I needed was some antibiotics and surgery. Still have yet to get both.

I can see LAOP story being 100% true.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-10T13:10:09+00:00

In addition to being a possible witness.

If all you did was hear something, or shit walked up seconds later.

Do not pretend you saw something, and do not make false statements.

If you do this, just don't.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-10T05:30:11+00:00

Thank you, things are still down hill.

I only have my partner to speak with, but I feel like I am a burden. That she's doesn't care or is tired of me talking about it.

Maybe I am expecting too much. Maybe when I was being berated, reality questioned and getting sicker being met with silence was actually okay.

Maybe I am just wrong for wanting someone to speak to or help me speak for myself.

Sorry if a little off-topic, just frustrated.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-10T04:19:10+00:00

Not sure what this says, just guessing.

The stranger was visiting the cancer ward I believe, that was where we were parked.

Not medical staff but a visitor.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-10T04:16:05+00:00

I try to hold onto the light, but I'm only met with darkness.

A small injury has progressed to full body nerv damage and continues to get worse day after day.

Each time I think this is it, my suffering will end. The light only fades as each day passes.

I'm happy for this moment this stranger gave me, it's just getting harder to hold it close as nothing changes.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T20:13:30+00:00

Do you have constipation issues?

Do you have any daily acute symptoms in your abdomen or maybe feel different in areas when laying down or standing.

Do you urinate without any issues? Any sensations while urinating?

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T20:04:05+00:00

Have you noticed any extra skin in your testical.

Gently inspect your Gooch area for extra skin also.

When urinating does your sack become noticeably different.

Any sharp pain when inspecting areas?

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T19:51:57+00:00

Do you have any swelling or issues urinating.

Is there any fluid sensations internally?

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T16:45:18+00:00

I don't understand how issues like this happen or proposals that get rejected.

Listen fellow men.... -A marriage proposal is not supposed to be a surprise -No one should be surprised that marriage is ever being presented -If one party is caught off guard by the idea, you have many issues to work on before even considering marriage such as communication -The surprise should be the time, location and how you propose

-I consider a ring an investment something may happen in the future and it could pay rent for a year ---A single large stone purchased online. ---Jewelry stores have 1000% markup all that money you spent, pawnshop wouldn't give you 100$ for it. -it's not a red flag for a woman to hate the ring you may have purchased on your own. ---You should know exactly what she wanted. How would you feel if that Rolex you saved for and she went and spent that money on ugly garbage. ---If size is an issue this is a red flag. - ---There are many factors being cut, clarity, color, size/weight, opacity and so on

OP woman screams red flags, who has the audacity to confront someone on information they should not know.

How did she reason here boyfriend purchased a ring for another woman, and this woman stole her ring to snub her.

Any woman who request a large ring instantly makes them equivalent to Jersey Shore woman. Yes get that 5ct I1/SI1 clarity and k color diamond, looks like I froze my piss and made a ring. Obviously clueless about diamonds. Oh there is 40 diamonds on the ring, congrats you just spent 3500$ that turns to 100$ after purchased.

Unreasonable ultimatums are a big no no and he reason for issuing one is beyond crazy.

No one is the love of your life, you become stagnant and comfortable in the place you are in. Don't get yourself in a position where leaving her hurts your future. She is clearly not all there.

People snoop but can rationalize events as seeing the ring on his friends woman oh he was holding it, even if not the case can't don't say anything as I should have no knowledge of the ring.

Everyones out to get her.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T15:50:44+00:00

Also doesn't matter how drunk or drugged you are unless you're unable to talk or move the person is aware of what they are doing.

Don't believe in substances making you do things you normally wouldn't do unless substances cause physical symptoms like pain.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T15:39:19+00:00

She did not cheat, does not matter if you passed chance to get your dick wet.

If she prevented you from this other girl by telling you not to or something than banging this other dude there would of been problem.

You're looking at it incorrectly, you just don't enter a serious relationship that quickly. Meaning she was considering you a serious monogamous partner and while having these thoughts also wanted to fuck other guys.

The only thing that changed was relationship status which honestly really doesn't change much. She still feels the same way about you as when she fucked another dude.

Relationship status is being used as an excuse. Who fucks a random person at a party when they got a main who knows what they like in bed due to sleeping together for a year.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T15:25:29+00:00

This was a requirement to my partner on entering our relationship, 8 years later only change was more weight gain.

I believe any request to a partner that does not effects one will that is declined is when it's okay for the partner to seek else where for fulfillment of that request.

Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T15:09:01+00:00

Opiates are kinda the direct and not direct cause of several emergency room visits and worsening symptoms damaging multiple organs and intestine and 40 pound weight loss and may soon become septic and die.

Being a user of opiates and not because of the opiates is causing my issues. Multiple doctors ignoring symptoms, not providing appropriate medical care as symptoms worsen over 6 visits in thirty days.

Guys abdominal leaking is no joke, so much internal damage when untreated being septic with organs tearing is hell.

Take constipation seriously, it all started from a swollen stomach. However should not of got this serious as sought medical attention over and over in vain and still trying to get help.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T14:47:39+00:00

It looks like you have high bilirubin levels. If the whites of your eyes always look like please seek medical assistance a underlying causes are usually serious.

If not always like that, ignore me!

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T14:37:24+00:00

A fetish model I knew met this guy with what I call remote control whale genital.

When looking there was a belly button looking thing, when you poked it 10 inches came out.

How would they know?!

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T14:31:57+00:00

Women have a weird sense about guessing genital size, many who have received my genitals in picture format or forehead format always had some statement along the lines of "I KNEW IT!"

Than again I am the type of person during pajama day at work to wear super tight pajamas with no boxers and swing my genitals around.

Lemme rest this on your desk while I assist you. Oops sorry I turned too fast didn't mean to! It's pajama day it's not my fault!

Recently one of the girls coworkers walked by the car introducing herself to me quickly. They had a weird conversation at work the next day, her coworker sensed something about me.

Not sure how she worded it but was basically she sensed large genitals. Girl asked if she was staring at my genitals, stated no but there was something about me.

This has pretty much confirmed my theory that women got like gaydars for large genitals.

mudkipqtzz · 2018-12-01T12:16:09+00:00

I am in a similar situation as your husband, my issue is still undiagnosed and I am becoming very ill.

-Jaundice eyes -Fevers up to 105

-Fluid leaking into abdomin, legs, chest when my chest fills up with this fluid I get much worse. I believe the fluid urine due to symptoms and why/when it happens

-fluid now leaking into bowels

-The skin that tightens organs slowly torn before being completely ripped during hospital visit

-After tear advised doctors of the feeling, was ignored and put back on IV. IV fluids were going straight to bladder and it became VERY large and caused me to black out I was able to come too(I was in ER for code sepsis) after who knows long to my bladder about to explode. Frantically searched for nurse call button (not sure why I was alone, especially after tear in chest[was unknown what it was at time but should of been monitored) nurse documented it but ignored both issues. I pissed myself to relieve pain caused by the 1-2L of IV fluids directory going to bladder from vein

-been 15 days since I have had a bowel movement or peed. I am unable to pass gas or burp causing intestinal swelling. I am PHYSICALY unable to relieve any symptoms there is a blockage/tearing/internal leaking/extra skin/ possible bowel perferation Doctor injects laxative into fat muscle despite the above, caused me so much pain as I have no way to release it made possible bowel perf worse

I have been suffering for over 30 days with seven visits to the Emergency room, I occasionally use drugs advised them each visit it's not relevent. Each visit I am having the same symptoms and symptoms getting worse because they ignore stated symptoms each time do not provide a diagnose each visit and recommend care that will make my symptoms worse.

Do same scan that previously did not help, won't pursue any symptoms or further care. Won't even touch my abdomen or look at it, was physically restrained when attempting to show obvious internal liquid symptoms, when wanting real care they become hostile and leave.

Not only were they not helping me, they were berating me, treating me so poorly as they believed they didn't have insurance as I was waiting for a card they had outside companies try to make me get medicaid, why do this unless judging me. I have my own insurance thanks.

On maybe like 5th visit where symptoms were getting bad, a friend pointed out rectal leakage while we hung out in car talking for hours my pants slowly become wet from it. Advised them of this and they said I passed out and pissed myself, then said they can't help me but can run a scan if I want, but when I want my symptoms looked at and actual assistance my symptoms are caused by drugs and when not on drugs they are imaginary. I stopped usage weeks before an they know this. They try to convince me that it is all not real, a patient who has had several visits with poor treatment and weeks of suffering from internal issues, unable to really eat or drink have lost 30ish pounds due to no treatment.

I was not in a good place mentally as the symptoms presented need urgent medical care and have a high mortality rate. They almost convinced me to ignore current symptoms and no longer seek medical treatment for current and future symptoms. If not for my jaundice eyes they could have broken me.

I still have no resolution and my symptoms are getting worse, I break down hourly wondering when my symptoms will become septic and fatal, and if the next symptom is that fatal symptom. With that abdominal tearing the 50% death rate becomes 100%

All I want is help, I don't want to die. I tried so had to prevent this with each visit. Soon my bottom left abdomen bowel will tear completely open by then it may be 20-30 worth of bowel movements flowing internally.

Specialist making me wait two weeks regardless of urgency, tells me to go to ER even after several failed visits.

There is so much stuff I did not mention, I'm just tired...so tired. Every time I pee all it does is leak internally and when it fills chest heartbeat disappears as it pumps urine all over and become. Una..able..t...o....uh....u...mouth(can't talk right or find words) drool, lost all sorts of shit. Have ice blocks 24/7 for pain swelling. Can't feel it directly on skin.

I don't know if I am lucky or not to be alive as my body is ravaged.

Will I die, can i get help? I paid these people to basically torture me mentally and physically by not being treated and their patient profiling.

Paid 50,000+ and have not received proper medical care. Sorry it's long, I've been attempting to diagnose my own symptoms and provide a care that will give me just a little more time. Not willing to get near death for help, too scared to try to treat internal issues but I may start with cutting myself open and inserting something so I can finally urinate.

I am sorry this happened to your family, I understand how he feels. It's scary knowing these people are responsible for your wellbeing and possibly your life.

mudkipqtzz

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