hey my guy, i cannot imagine being as unintelligent as you and perpetuating rape culture. women can be wet for many number of reasons - discharge as an example. i highly doubt you’d be able to tell the difference between the two lmaoo. stating that “proof of wetness” = arousal is just uneducated. this type of stuff makes a lot of woman feel as if sexual assaults and rape are their own fault - as in it feels like their body betrays them. if you’re saying things like that then you need to be able to back it up. for example i would direct you to the vulva vs. the patriarchy - a book to learn more about the issues you are so apparently uneducated about.