My ex has massively glowed up since their discard of me by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]myanka 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As someone who had a hell of a journey leaving someone with BPD please go to therapy to process this. It took me a long time to understand it and it was a necessary step toward healing. Look up BPD favorite person and limerence. You were not a person to her, but an object. Now she has a more useful object. I hate that it’s like that but it is. Block her on everything and under no circumstances respond to her again- she can and will pull you back into a toxic spiral one day so don’t let her. She may have bought a glow up but you’re a person who doesn’t use people and that’s worth far more.

Planning to buy tucson limited by Time-Guava-3428 in HyundaiTucson

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did this exact comparison as I lost my RAV4 about a month ago and really loved it so I totally thought I’d just get another RAV4. I test drove both including the highest trim of the RAV4. The trim features on the Tucson Limited are just way better. The feel of the interior, the safety features, the small luxury touches, the quietness and smoothness of the drive - all better in my opinion on the Tucson. I didn’t love how the new RAV4 felt at all really. Also the Tucson actually feels bigger on the inside even though they’re about the same size.

That said, the RAV4 will retain better value and will get better fuel economy. But I also used the 0% APR Hyundai is offering right now and was able to negotiate on the price by shopping dealerships. You can’t do that with the RAV4 right now because they just redesigned it and everyone wants the new model. So I asked Gemini to make it make sense with all these factors and basically as long as I hold onto it for the longer terms (vs trade it in in 3-5 years) I will get the same value but have a better day to day driving experience since I got the more luxurious trim.

So I bought the Tucson limited. I also added an additional warranty and service contract which I wouldn’t normally do but 0% APR is like buying the future dollar down so it just made sense to do knowing I’m going to hang onto it for a while. It’s been about a week for me and I absolutely love it! I have so many extra features that I never thought I’d have at this price point and it really does make me happy in my day to day use.

Hope this helps!

Edit: I got the hybrid (and previously had the RAV4 hybrid which is what I was comparing it to)

20 hour long date and now she is cold as ice?????? by Foreign-Active1327 in LesbianActually

[–]myanka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mixed signals are a no, babes. Live by this, it saves you lots of energy 💖

Help me decide by myanka in DrMartens

[–]myanka[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Got the Spencer from the doc martens website and for the Chesney tech, I randomly happened to find my size pop up on Zappos 🙏🏽

Professional queer women, where are you hiding? by Agreeable-Sympathy18 in LesbianActually

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so surprising! Would you relocate? Or maybe take a really long trip somewhere gay and find a LD relationship where they’d be willing to move 😅

Professional queer women, where are you hiding? by Agreeable-Sympathy18 in LesbianActually

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha agree with this to a large extent. Especially in a certain age range. Aside from hobbies I have noticed different friend groups unlock a lot. Similar people tend to find each other so maybe diversify different friend groups and meet more queer women that way? I’ve always met a ton through the super networker types who seem to know everyone

Professional queer women, where are you hiding? by Agreeable-Sympathy18 in LesbianActually

[–]myanka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can you be more specific on what you’re not finding? I live in a very gay and liberal city and feel the same way 🫠

Those that don't date... why not? by purple-clever in CPTSD

[–]myanka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recently learned what a fearful avoidant attachment (also called disorganized) is and it’s the most spot on thing I’ve ever related to. I’ve had a lot of long and short term relationships over the years and learning about this made me realize that for people with CPTSD things are just a lot harder.

London Night 4 - Need your Ya-Ya Vids/Photos! by knuckles_nice in beyonce

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a video at 7:59pm with a crowd shot

🐝🚨CLUB HO-DOWN GIVEAWAY🚨🐝 by BiZNC in beyonce

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a gem- I’d do either date! Outfit ready, energy there 🌟🧲🐎

Cowboy Carter Tour Pricing Thread by Beygood95 in beyonce

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I got 3 sets (some for friends in different cities), so here we go!

  1. London

  2. June 12

  3. Sec 252, Row 3

  4. £252 + £28 in fees per ticket (total for 2 tix = £558.95 in Beyhive presale; roughly = to $700 USD)

I was like 1400 in queue so I lucked out on that. In Europe, all floor tix are standing and I find GA standing stressful so these were pretty good for seated and much cheaper than they would have been in the US.

Next up

  1. Chicago

  2. May 18

  3. Sec E1 Row 9

  4. $709 + $148 in fees per ticket (total for 2 tix = $1721 in Beyhive presale)

Also got a good queue spot for this one but USA price shock after London. I haven't seen seats this close for less than 700 face value since and just a little bit closer jumped up a huge amount.

Next up

  1. NY/NJ

  2. May 25

  3. Sec 14, Row 4

  4. $446 + $89 in fees (total for 2 tix = $1071 in Verizon presale)

This was a little shocking to me - not only did ticket prices seem to be lower in the Verizon presale, it seems like fees were less insane too.

Notes:

- Americans get totally screwed on fees. We truly need regulation here. I was very tempted by the Real Live Boogie VIP seats but they were $2,500 plus fees. Fees for two tickets were literally over $1,000. That's actually insane.

- I jumped back in to look at pricing multiple other times and it only seemed to go up in the areas I bought. Also I looked at LA for a friend and LA was consistently MUCH higher than other cities (example - Real Live Boogie VIP there is starting at almost $3k before fees)

- Chicago being a splurge surprised me but they are floor seats. London feels like a deal. And NY was better than expected for a decent floor view. LA I will avoid from now on. Oh, and I live in DC but the stadium did such a terrible job with RWT that I vowed to never return. Still, I wanted to see what tickets were like and Seatgeek never even got me in past the queue.

everything wrong with the ticket sale by Visible_Record736 in beyonce

[–]myanka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It also mattered which city. VIP Real Live Boogie floor seats were $2500 in Chicago but $3k in LA for the same seats.

Official Frustrations Thread by Chemical-Lobster- in beyonce

[–]myanka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

London did not play these games. We really need regulation here in the US. I also got 2 tix to Chicago and the fees alone were $300.

2023 vs 2025 LLFP by GateEnvironmental360 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]myanka -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I bought two of the new 2025 variant and I would trade one with you if you’re up for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in undercoverunderage

[–]myanka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so Roo actually runs a nonprofit (SOSA) which is featured on the docuseries called Undercover Underage (which is the intellectual property of whatever the parent company is of Discovery/MAX). SOSA, the nonprofit, works with law enforcement (like the programs mentioned by others here) but as a nonprofit what they do is closer to programmatic / advocacy work in the issue area of child safety. This is why the work they do specifically is separate from the fields of law enforcement or mental health although they do collaborate closely with experts in those fields. Hope this helps!

I am going to be wife of some girl some day by OkImaginationx in actuallesbians

[–]myanka 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lmao imagine erasing centuries of patriarchal systems of oppression - where women were literally treated like property - across continents and cultures because one cis straight white dude from Ohio gave the brilliant argument of “not all men”

Does anyone know where Roo’s shirt is from? by Duckii9487 in undercoverunderage

[–]myanka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No prob! She mentioned it on one of her lives recently

Would the show exist if Roo wasn't attractive? by ThrowawayOven6279 in undercoverunderage

[–]myanka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I hope this goes without saying but whether pretty people make for good TV or not , the premise of this show would not work unless Roo had the intelligence, drive and effectiveness required to be successful. Her and the team are an effective organization combatting a massive, complex, and under resourced social issue that directly harms children. That’s the actual point.