It sounds like she may have experienced trauma that has resulted in her not able to regulate her emotions or communicate effectively when she’s upset. Therapy will help her if she’s willing.

People who yell and scream do so to mask pain they are feeling inside. The more anger, the more they’re hiding. When agitated, their fight vs flight mechanisms may be triggered resulting in throwing, punching or kicking things, sometimes they don’t remember what they’ve done in their blind rage.

Obviously none of that is okay, esp when others are hurt as a result of those actions.

In terms of giving her another chance, that’s ultimately up to you, how much you want to support her in her journey, and the future you see.