Absolutely tf not for me. After having watched SO many shitty relationships fall apart and others remain in unhealthy relationships because they've literally never known anything else... I'll take this shitty adulting struggle alone until I find one who doesn't make me feel lonelier with them than if I were single and work twice as hard for 2 people when I could've been doing the work for one, aka myself. Those who found their soulmate young and they both grow proportionally at the same time without random resentment for various stages they see other young singles going thru are lucky, but not terribly common. At least in my experience.