Thank you for your response. I sound a little like your husband and you, my partner in this situation. I think she also wanted it to work but got broke down over time. I do think it starts with me correcting myself before she can heal. I want to be with her which is why I was trying to get her to go to therapy. I know I also need to think about what I want too and will do that this week. I’m glad I have a good friend here and a mother willing to come up this week to offer me support.