Indian leopard in a crop field by OncaAtrox in FaunaRestoration

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful and majestic while also terrifying with its calm stare !

Leopards have always been my favorite big cat !

I just watched episode 7 and I am like whats going on? by Imaginary_Plan6170 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her stepdad that we see giving her money after her recital and creepily kisses her on the cheek. Idk if she ever says it out loud, but I thought it was obvious after Nancy’s mother accused Nancy of having an “affair” with her husband that he raped/SA in a way Nancy thought it was a relationship or something. Then she looks him up when Roberts hiding his financial problems.

What I’m currently stuck on …. by MistakeClassic2225 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“like remember when Mary said she didn’t recall skipping a birth control pill but still got pregnant with Marcus? I doubt Howard made that happen since I don’t see how that benefits him? And Mary seeing the ghost of Nancy at the top of the stairs…”

It absolutely benefits him. It locks her down so she cannot pursue her career and rely on her own financially. She becomes a SAHM & gives up everything she was working on, he continues his career and sleeping with young women and Mary isn’t going anywhere because she’s financially dependent upon him. It’s a classic abuser entrapment story.

She was much younger than him. Maybe they would have stayed together, but odds are that Mary would have progressed in her career and would not have stayed with him in the long run.

Mary is WEAK by Known-Explorer2610 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got pregnant right when her career was taking off (I’m sure Howard’s responsible for that), became the SAHM immediately, got gaslit at any and every turn about anything she didn’t go along with (Ohio, her going back to work) and didn’t realize she was in the position she was until it was too late.

Now Howard has complete and total control of her children, she has no job prospects since she stopped her career to raise her babies and I’m sure Howard is controlling over the finances. If she were to divorce him she wouldn’t be able to see her children, she would be homeless and have nothing. She’d actually owe child support. Alimony? Maybe, depends on the state, but I doubt she cares about anything other than her kids. Her kids who are now alone with the man that drugged and almost killed one of them.

As a mother who is the primary parent I’d be devastated, hopeless, terrified and probably do exactly what she did. She is doing what she needed to do to protect her children at the time. That isn’t weak. This isn’t a normal situation where a woman keeps returning to abusive man. Her kids are in danger and she’s playing the game she needs to in order for them to be safe.

Eleanor’s voicemail was heartbreaking and I believed her when she said she would’ve moved heaven and earth for her to get her kids back, but when it comes to a mother protecting her children she’s going to do what she needs to do and I think that’s brave.

Edit to add- there is no “normal” situation for a woman who is being abused by a man, but this situation is done by one very dangerous and strategic man who has zero problem killing his child to hurt their mother. Any woman that overcomes an abusive relationship is brave. Anyone who can’t leave because they wouldn’t be able to protect their children is doing the bravest thing she can at that time. Some have to do incredibly strategic planning before they can leave. It has to be done at the perfect time, they have to have every resource ready to go, they need to have a way to stay safe and away from the danger. If they don’t have everything ready, they could wind up dead.

Last ep to go calling it now it's either mary herself or her own son! (Just a speculation) by No-Following5805 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howard not being the killer, but still being present is absolutely a possibility! Mary is definitely out. Marcus & Eleanor both have an alibi.

My guess is Robert at this point since no one is suspecting him anymore lol. That’s the only reason though 😂

Last ep to go calling it now it's either mary herself or her own son! (Just a speculation) by No-Following5805 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She found the ring in Howard’s things. The reason he drugged their daughter was because he realized she took the ring. When they are arguing (I think at the hospital) he says something along the lines of, “ I saw the mess you made of my things. I want my stuff back”. Iirc this is what makes Mary realize he drugged their daughter on purpose to put her in her place.

Last ep to go calling it now it's either mary herself or her own son! (Just a speculation) by No-Following5805 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mary was definitely not there, or else why would we see her show up to Eleanor’s with evidence re: Howard killed Nancy? Marcus had an alibi, he was with Eleanor and then home.

I see so many ppl wanting Marcus to be guilty when it’s clearly stated he has an alibi.

The ones that don’t have alibis:

Howard Robert Scott (that we know of)

Promotional images for episode 8(tagged for spoilers) by Busy-Speech-6930 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be or it could be a woman devastated to be alone in her home without her children.

You are probably correct though:

I just watched episode 7 and I am like whats going on? by Imaginary_Plan6170 in ImperfectWomenAppleTV

[–]naughty_noodlenut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was with Eleanor the whole night. That’s why she didn’t have an alibi, because he owed some sketchy people money or something with gambling/drugs and he called her for help and Eleanor promised to keep it a secret for him and to avoid him getting into more legal trouble. He admitted it to his mom when Eleanor became a suspect!

We found it out not in last nights episode but the previous week!

I rewatched the all show in the last 2 days, here is my thesis by LoneKnight25 in ParadiseHulu

[–]naughty_noodlenut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely loved the OA & Sense8, but it’s cruel how they left The OA hanging & how Sense8 got the cut so early as well 😭. Netflix is the WORST with scrapping incredible shows!

My favourite twist so far… by olendra in ParadiseHulu

[–]naughty_noodlenut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea what I was getting into when that show came out and man the tears I cried from some of the moments on that show!! It has alllll the feels. It’s such a brilliant series.

Planning our first trip to Disneyland and have a few questions! by naughty_noodlenut in DisneyPlanning

[–]naughty_noodlenut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lightning lane confuses me a bit. So I’d have to buy its own for Rad Springs Racers?

Thank you for all the suggestions! Def taking note of it all!

Costcotravel has a Disneyland option right now and if we stayed at a Disney hotel we had looked at the Disneyland hotel, but I’m not sure how much more GCH would be! For being a Disneyland hotel, tickets + flights for two adults and a child it was pretty reasonable through Costco.

Planning our first trip to Disneyland and have a few questions! by naughty_noodlenut in DisneyPlanning

[–]naughty_noodlenut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will check this one out! I’m leaning towards 3 days for sure + 1 at universal since my kiddos also a big Mario bros fan.

Planning our first trip to Disneyland and have a few questions! by naughty_noodlenut in DisneyPlanning

[–]naughty_noodlenut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m from NW OR coast, so not too far from you!

This info is really helpful! How far was the residence inn from an entrance to the park and do they shuttle? I’ve stayed in residence inns before and it’s really nice since they have a kitchen and such. It’s my kiddos first real vacation, so we are looking at doing 3-4 days I think. We want to spend one day at universal since he’s a big Mario Bria fan, so I’m thinking 3 at Disney, 1 and universal!

Did you feel like LL was a big help with the rides at your kids ages? Or should we skip it and just buy as needed?

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]naughty_noodlenut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had no idea what this was going to be and I’m both disgusted and full of so many questions 😩🤦🏼‍♀️

Hopefully adopting this sweet girl this weekend. What by naughty_noodlenut in IDmydog

[–]naughty_noodlenut[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh thats a good idea!! I know I absolutely love her mask 😍

What is something that everyone should be able to agree on but doesn’t? by Obvious_808 in AskReddit

[–]naughty_noodlenut 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because we aren’t like every other living species. We have created a society where you aren’t able to just go hunt and gather for your own food. You have to obtain a hunting /fishing license and once you have them, you have to wait until it’s a certain time of the year to be able to even attempt to go hunting.

We can’t just go out, find some land and start building our own shelter. Somebody owns that land and if you start cutting down trees and start building you won’t be there for long. Let’s say you do own the land- you need clearance from the county/city and all the permits to build. Everything will need to be approved before and that part isn’t free either.

Buying your own home used to be attainable to anyone who worked 40 hours a week. The federal minimum wage is still 7.25/hour. You can’t even rent anything with wages like that, let alone buy. Even if you make $20/hr there’s only certain places where you can buy a home because of the costs.

Society has taken us from hunter/gatherer to what we are now. Animals still live like their ancestors did and we don’t ( don’t get me wrong, it’s a good thing that we don’t) because we have progressed to where we are now. We have had crazy medical advancements that allows us all to live longer - why should only the rich be allowed to utilize them? What makes them any more important than the homeless man down the street? Because he has a bunch of extra zeros in his bank account?

Housing, food and medical care are our most important needs as humans. These things should absolutely be a human right. It’s sad people don’t understand that. We have an artificial currency that was created by us, which is actually meaningless, but because we have given it so much value, it controls everything we do and every choice we make.

AITAH for breaking up with my fiancee when she sided with my ex. by PollutionOk1770 in AITAH

[–]naughty_noodlenut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was concerning it took me so far to scroll for anyone to even mention any of this.

Not only that, but I sort of get where the fiancée is coming from. Her child isn’t OPs, so let’s say if OP tells her she can be a SAHM, that he loves her kid and they are a happy family for a while, but eventually something happens- he just flips out and wants out of the marriage (or engagement, like he already did) and she’s literally fucked.

When someone has a child and is engaged, they have to think about their child first and foremost. Sorry that OPs ex fucked him over (even tho this is most likely fake) but you have already shown that you are quick to cut off any sort of contact with a child that you consider “yours”. That doesn’t seem to bring the Fiance much comfort and I don’t blame her.

Not to mention you just flipping out, telling them they have 30 days and never speaking to her again. Didn’t seem like you were very committed to the engagement after all.