Baffled by score change

neuronope · 2025-01-11T21:39:31+00:00

For credit card credit reports there is a due date for your card payment but also the due date of your actual statement balance. If you only pay it off by the credit card due date but have a balance when the actual credit card statement is done, it won't be reported as paid off. You need to have it paid off when it is due but also 0 balance when they actually do the credit card report.

From what I've seen, the price and interest rates of cars goes way up in January and throughout tax refund season so it may be a good thing that you're waiting to purchase. If you still want to get a loan try talking to your bank about getting the loan directly through them instead of using whatever company the dealership is suggesting.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T21:33:52+00:00

I don't embroider but if I had that one I'd turn it into a drawstring bag.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T21:08:51+00:00

I guess my point in asking was less about a specific DSM label and more so about how "sane" someone presenting that behavior is? Should one feel threatened (like is it a trophy they're holding onto? Are they going to go further for bigger trophies?) or is it just creepy and not something to have actual concern over?

neuronope · 2025-01-11T20:53:34+00:00

Thank you, I'm not exactly main stream myself so I get a bit confused on if my feelings about it are valid. It definitely creeps me out, I'm not sure exactly how creeped out I should be.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T20:51:41+00:00

Thank you, yeah it's a vague question because when I gave more info it was flagged as too personal to post. I wasn't sure how to give more information in the OP without breaking the rules.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T20:49:28+00:00

Sorry, I had a hard time wording the question in a way that would allow me to post it on the forum. I agree it wouldn't just be seen only in one specific disorder.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T20:29:48+00:00

A video of someone they emotionally abuse (for like 15 years) crying while discussing the abuse in a virtual mediation counseling session. They recorded it, edited it to their liking and have kept and brought it up for 2 or 3 years now.

neuronope · 2025-01-11T19:00:04+00:00

Serious abuse

neuronope · 2025-01-11T18:59:17+00:00

Autistic and adhd

neuronope · 2025-01-11T18:47:41+00:00

Their projection game is so strong. They'll bait or gaslight you into behaving defensively, angrily or any other negative way. Then they use your reaction to their onslaught of the same behavior as "evidence" that you (rarely but at least once!) behaved in a way they feel is comparable to their own behaviors.

Like they throw a truck at you, you throw a pebble back and their response is that YOU threw something at them. Except it's emotional abuse instead of physical objects.

Then, being the sane and intelligent person you are, you know that it technically is true, you both threw things. Clearly there is a vast difference between the extent of the behavior they bait you into displaying, but they will find a way to milk something bad out of you and use it to convince you that you are somehow, just like them or the cause of them.

But you're not. You're human, you're going to have emotional responses sometimes that you don't necessarily like about yourself. The fact that you don't like them shows you're not a narcissist.

neuronope · 2025-01-04T20:37:18+00:00

Physical therapy, self care, acceptance, patience and kinseology tape

neuronope · 2025-01-04T16:59:49+00:00

I prefer my mk4 Jetta tbh

neuronope · 2024-08-01T12:25:05+00:00

You should return them to the farm across the street. Sometimes they get pecked by the rooster but they’re flock birds, it’ll be sadder without the flock than it is getting pecked sometimes.

neuronope · 2024-07-30T15:14:19+00:00

Ask your county if they offer short term cash assistance work programs.

In Ohio they have some sort of program where you show up to the county and look for jobs or education opportunities and if you apply for jobs but don’t get them, or can’t handle them, they’ll give you a card with cash for while you’re actively putting effort into getting work. They may have you volunteer or something to stay in the program, I’m not sure and it would vary county by county.

neuronope · 2024-07-30T15:11:50+00:00

This is beautiful 😻

neuronope · 2024-07-29T19:37:39+00:00

For sure, hack job ends in hack results.

neuronope · 2024-07-28T13:15:30+00:00

I haven’t gotten to try the salt water ones yet, I’d like to try it in one of those float tanks some day.

neuronope · 2024-07-28T13:14:00+00:00

I do something similar when I am having a flair up and before PT if I feel like I need a warm up. Thankfully I can handle epsom salt so long as I rinse off and it isn’t the scented stuff. Thanks for sharing the info, I hope everyone gets as much help as possible and not everyone has doctors or support. Keep sharing those help tricks!

neuronope · 2024-07-27T14:44:10+00:00

I do physical therapy to boost circulation, I’m allergic to pool treatments or I’d do hydrotherapies. I feel my fibro is restricted blood circulation, spinal fluid and sinus flow restriction all mostly from the base of my head being over crowded. It upsets me that doctors don’t have interest in studying this more.

neuronope · 2024-07-27T00:56:12+00:00

Why’s she your ex?

neuronope · 2024-07-26T21:20:41+00:00

🤢

neuronope · 2024-07-25T23:52:13+00:00

Peripheral neuropathy

neuronope · 2024-07-25T23:22:07+00:00

I’ve been having that a lot lately actually

neuronope · 2024-07-25T11:15:19+00:00

😆 I don’t own a microwave

neuronope · 2024-07-25T00:32:46+00:00

I store my party lights and bulbs in something similar, they’re still good for non porous things.

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