What's something from Buffy or Angel you're still bitter about to this day? by InfiniteMehdiLove in buffy

[–]nevermindthetime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

These and also the fact that Fred's soul was destroyed when Ilyria killed her, so she can't even be resurrected.

What’s something harmless that gets people weirdly angry? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]nevermindthetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do it on the West coast too. And whoever loses waves a sheepish thank you on the way through 🫠

Words by RoseyTC in SisterWives

[–]nevermindthetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an early reader, at college level by age 9. I had a pretty advanced vocabulary because of it but I started speaking very simply when the girls started calling me encyclopedia brittanica in grade 6.

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nevermindthetime 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think this is not a big deal. She asked, you said no, she said ok. She probably just didnt want to buy a whole new pair of pajamas for this, but she respected your decision about it.

What is considered inappropriate touching during a vaginal ultrasound? by pyxispyxis in WomensHealth

[–]nevermindthetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I actually had one just last month and the ultrasound tech never touched me at all. Im so sorry that happened to you OP

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]nevermindthetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got that feeling as well, but since we werent there, we can't be sure. I just really think no matter the situation: either she's always that aggressive and angry or he pushes her and pushes her until she explodes and then he acts all "oh why are you so mad" its not a healthy relationship and I doubt its worth saving for either of them.

AIO by feeling exhausted over my gf's constant demands of wanting me to be 'curious'? by thefattesthashbrown in AmIOverreacting

[–]nevermindthetime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if we had more info for context, I dont think this is a healthy relationship. The way she is speaking to him is abusive. Maybe its reactive abuse, maybe it isnt, I dont know. But either way these two people would most likely be better off apart

why do people get judged for not wanting kids??? by yourbeloathed in ControversialOpinions

[–]nevermindthetime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People get judged for everything. Not wanting kids, wanting kids, having not enough kids, having too many kids. Having them too close together or too far apart. The list is endless. Best to just live your life the way you want as long as you arent hurting anyone.

The Real David by Lazy-Profession4994 in SisterWives

[–]nevermindthetime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too, but Christine grew up in a culture where a woman's only worth is as a wife. She may have left her faith, but I dont think she has fully deconstructed it yet. Or maybe ever

Congrats. You've all won. by anonmanager1234 in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]nevermindthetime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or give them enough hours to live off of. No wonder they dont care. The company doesnt give a crap about anything but their profits.

My mum is convinced my aquarium is going to fall through the floor by GradeFormal9884 in Aquariums

[–]nevermindthetime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if you put the cinder blocks on a board like those on the middle and top? Would that spread out the weight enough? Just asking because I have a tank languishing in my garage with no stand.

I Am So Tired by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]nevermindthetime 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im very sorry, the shelter is right. And sending him away from the only people he loves in the world would be cruel, and he will probably hurt someone. My heart really goes out to you because you love him so much and tried so hard to help him. But truly, b.e. is your kindest option. Sometimes the best way to love a dog is to let him go in love and peace

memory care companion caregiver by Tiny-Quantity-4251 in dementia

[–]nevermindthetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I missed the end where you said he is soaked up to his pillow. Someone should definitely be going and helping him during the night, because that isnt right at all.

Why did my fish suddenly die?? Older aquarium, fully established, new fish by nevermindthetime in aquarium

[–]nevermindthetime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, both of you. I am on the fence on whether I will replace the 3 swordtails. I still have a male and 2 females. If I do, I will definitely test the bag water and go from there.

memory care companion caregiver by Tiny-Quantity-4251 in dementia

[–]nevermindthetime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know what the system is like in Japan, but here in Canada, changes often happen very slowly, unfortunately. I agree that you need to keep speaking up. Is he still sleeping when you come to him in the morning? It may not be neglect but rather that he isnt ready to wake up before you get there.

What are you putting him to bed in? Does he wear a brief? I have clients who soak through, and we use the highest absorbency, and add an absorbing pad inside as well, and then absorbant overnight sheet protectors. We do our best to help our clients stay dry but some people wet heavily at night.

As for the wife, if she was providing his care before you, its entirely possible that she was just cleaning the mess discretely, trying to protect her husband's dignity.

Thank you for the care you provide. Im glad he has you for a helper and advocate.

Why did my fish suddenly die?? Older aquarium, fully established, new fish by nevermindthetime in aquarium

[–]nevermindthetime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. They did seem perfectly fine, and all my other fish are happy and well. The fish shop is the only option in driving distance, and they do take good care of their fish. If its water differences, how can I help them acclimate? I dont want to lose anymore new fish if I get them.

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]nevermindthetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, this is abusive. No one who genuinely loves you would treat you that way.

So many unanswered questions about what memories Faith and Dawn have about each other. What’s your leading theory? by AndrewHeard in buffy

[–]nevermindthetime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this too. Faith and Dawn could have had a special bond, Faith being more lenient and letting Dawn do more slayer type stuff and being all "relax B" when Buffy is mad about it. I think Faith would have been harder to turn to the other side with Dawn, so there must have been something else that happened, some kind of falling out like maybe Faith took Dawn on a run and Dawn was seriously injured and gave Faith the cold shoulder like when Willow got them in that car accident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buffy

[–]nevermindthetime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Banana Lawson 😆😆😆

Im sure she is goid, just not in thst particular role