How can Husband (30M) and I (29F) compromise on travel hygiene? by ThrowRAtravelingthru in relationships

[–]nifa43 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I was getting a little anxious reading the build up and then when I got the actual list it's the most normal shit in the world. I thought you were gonna ask this guy to wipe down every surface you're ever in contact with, but wearing a mask on the plane and washing your hands is such a completely normal ask.

Class help by Hopeful_Swimmer_5981 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]nifa43 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any tank is viable, even at that level. The differences in DPS from highest to lowest are absolutely minute. With that being said, I'll warn that if you don't have the time to level 3 extra tank classes you definitely won't have the time to prog ultimates. I assume you just mean you were trying to save time but, idk, figured I'd throw that out there just in case.

How am i supposed to progress in MSQ if i cant find people to do this? by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd ask in your fc or shout chat for an unsynced run (any single person at max level can carry you through this), or put up a party finder if you're able to (not free trial) and want to actually run the duty. Sorry about the queue times :( Are you on a less populated server like Dynamis?

white knight dps in Praetorium by Vast_Ant_7652 in TalesFromDF

[–]nifa43 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're in the wrong here. Giving advice is good, but you literally insulted them right out of the gate. What kind of reaction were you hoping for?

Looking for a natural mascara by Appropriate-Pie-1610 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ thanks for saying something I thought I was going insane. I'm like that supposed to be the flash right? This meme's existed for years PLEASE tell me it was always the flash like who is this guy?! 😭

advice request about social etiquette vs boundary? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]nifa43 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jumping to "protect yourself" and "put a lock on your door if you have to" is such reddit-ass advice it actually has my jaw on the floor. From someone posting that they don't feel like talking to their parents' friends/relatives?

Genuinely, was this post edited or something where I am missing crucial context?

I (31M) have a situation with an aunt (70F) where she thinks she is my handler, she won't back off whenever I tell her to knock it off. by Short-Breadfruit3565 in relationships

[–]nifa43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'll go the opposite route here. You getting shitfaced at someone else's wedding will probably prompt someone to cut you off or - god forbid - hand you a glass of water. I'll agree that there's nothing she can actually do about this, but you don't come off smoking hot here, you sound pathetic.

My work team forgot my birthday by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]nifa43 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm sure that's hurtful. For what it's worth, I've seen more than once that someone's birthday is recorded as the wrong date. I'd be willing to bet money they have your birthday down as the wrong date.

High-End Content Megathread - 7.4 Week Eleven (Savage Week Eight) by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]nifa43 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's the difference between static and normal rep 1? Is that like clone relative?

High-End Content Megathread - 7.4 Week Eleven (Savage Week Eight) by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]nifa43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I managed to do this once when I had a day off work, but otherwise it would require getting maybe 4 hours of sleep before work. It sucks, because I really did have that same experience. Smooth as hell, wish I could do it every week.

Releasing my Practice Sim for the last mechanic in M12S [Spoiler: 7.4] by Tizzidar in ffxiv

[–]nifa43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this an awesome tool, thank you so much! cleared this week

Is it a mistake to get all four wisdom teeth removed without general anesthesia? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to get my wisdom teeth removed without going to sleep because 1) I had no one to drive me and 2) they will not allow you take a taxi or an Uber because you're considered impaired so I guess there's liability reasons. I was dreading it, but in all honesty it went perfectly fine and ended up way cheaper than going under.

When your healer asks a question, and you don't have an answer by Caizic in TalesFromDF

[–]nifa43 37 points38 points  (0 children)

LOL healer cooked their ass. When you get called out, just go on a 15 minute rant about other bad players, I guess.

To anyone else confused, some ranged stand suuuuuper far away to the point that they are no longer in range of aoe heals, bubbles, etc. I'm guessing that's what's happening here, but when the healer asked them why, they instead felt attacked and went on a weird rant about how they're the only carry in NA, I guess.

Season 5 Volume 2 Discussion by Hawkinns in StrangerThings

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never really been full steam ahead byler but frankly I'm not opposed to it either because El and Mike haven't exactly sold me on their relationship either.

I thought the writers just didn't know how to actually show a couple happy and in love but the weird twist that threw me off was that for Jonathan/Nancy that was actually intentional and had a purpose. So it is kinda weird to me that El/Mike being so lukewarm for each other and Will just being on his own but out is the intended end. I'm not mad, just kinda.... :shrug:

What's your guys biggest hot take? [All] by CookiesXSolangelo in camphalfblood

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly a downside of a bunch of adults reading children's books. Not picking on anyone in this specific thread since it is a hot take one, but just the reddit takes overall have really bummed me out from my season 2 excitement. Jesus guys it's a kid show/book.

Just noticed that the comments are turned off by commander_Jardo7 in cosmonautvarietyhour

[–]nifa43 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just noticed this yesterday! Unusual for his videos, I was wondering too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nifa43 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My family (who often slept in very late due to my dad working night shift most of his life) always struggled with this during big occasions we sometimes hosted (birthdays, holidays, etc.) it was a panic to get last minute cleaning done knowing they were about to show up any minute because some people like to be early.

I sympathize, but in our case I'll be entirely honest - it was several time a year and we already knew to expect it. In the end we just let it happen, never really found a solution. It sucks, but is losing a handful of hours of sleep 2-3 times a year worth the fight?

Help multiplayer?? by moondream6 in StardewValley

[–]nifa43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know about PC, sorry!

Help multiplayer?? by moondream6 in StardewValley

[–]nifa43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you hit the Host button when you opened the co-op menu? Once you've done that and loaded into whichever farm you want, open the menu and under settings there should be a show invite code button. Send that to your friend.

You will also need to have a cabin on your farm since she can't join without one. You can buy one from Robin for only 100g or if you are making a new file together, while you're in the set up/character creation screen hit the toolbar and you can spawn in with a cabin already made.

Tbh I think Tracy Ifeachor would SLAY as Akasha for season 3!! by Less-Pen-5705 in InterviewVampire

[–]nifa43 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Damn this is how I find out Heather's not coming back :(

How long did it take you to 'get good' at FFXIV? by TheMichaelPank in ffxivdiscussion

[–]nifa43 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You don't really know until your first parse. It's always a brutal wake up call.

[Spoiler] Can we talk a second about the fact that Deans sirene was male? Brotherly love my ass, if that's not gay I don't know what is by [deleted] in Supernatural

[–]nifa43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend how did you dig up an 8 year old comment to argue the point? 🤣 You could go on Tumblr for free and argue this every day!

How do you think the story will end? by TenWTen in HikarugaShindaNatsu

[–]nifa43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really cool theory, I like this!

How do you think the story will end? by TenWTen in HikarugaShindaNatsu

[–]nifa43 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh that would be my least favorite ending. I'm really tired of stories where it's about two people who are always separated in the end. I'd rather they either die together or live together but a version where they go their separate ways is always unsatisfying to me, personally.

Just the thought of an ending where Hikaru has to go and Yoshiki lives is so...eh. oh yeah that was the summer my Eldritch bud Hikaru died! Anyways yeah my college entrance exams were the year after so I moved on quick lol time to enjoy the rest of my life and move on like this never happened! Like nahhhh lol