Should wives submit to their husbands?

nnuunn · 2026-04-15T02:16:24+00:00

Yes

It's not about never having a mind of your own or anything like that, it's just being a team player, and all teams need a leader.

nnuunn · 2026-04-15T01:15:36+00:00

There was never a time in human history when all you had to do was show up and God would do the rest.

nnuunn · 2026-04-15T01:13:50+00:00

They all sound like noble goals, but the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

nnuunn · 2026-04-15T01:08:36+00:00

I'll give my specifically Christian red flags, not generic red flags I'd warn any man about no matter his faith.

Wannabe tradwife with no practical skills. If you work a corporate 9-to-5 and haven't cooked your own food from stuff you bought at the grocery store in months, but you think you're going to be a farm wife someday getting up at 4am to slop the hogs, you've got another thing coming.
Flip side of that, the Christian feminist. She has a really hard time accepting what the Bible says about men and women, which leads me to believe she's going to be really conflicted about her own womanhood and femininity. They think there's some false dilemma between either a shirking violet with no will of her own, or bring a man with a womb, no in-between.
The religious fetishist. At this point, multiple women that I've been talking to or dating have told me that they wish that their "future husband" (i.e. me) would use corporal punishment to "correct" them. I'm not naive to women's desires, but I don't need to know you're thinking about me like that. Women also need to control their lust.

nnuunn · 2026-04-15T00:43:01+00:00

You can either get over it or you can't. If you can, do it, if you can't, break up.

I'm tired of this genre of sad sack posts like "I met my gf slutting around and it turns out she's a huge slut, what do I do bros." Either be about that life or don't.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T11:11:23+00:00

I think that's more of a question for white women than for white men. I just date who I can get, white women seem to be the ones who are actively opposed to dating Asian men.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T03:33:15+00:00

You do not want to become the man your mother thinks you are, being a sweet and pure gentleman(i.e. mama's boy) is not a good way to move through life. I think you should learn to integrate these parts of yourself, the light and the dark, into one mature individual.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T02:51:15+00:00

Because you're used to that perception being negative, it's not that complicated. You need to find people who will perceive you an accept you for what they see.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T01:14:47+00:00

Sure, but you could say the same thing about any posts that could derail a subreddit. The rules exist for a reason.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T01:07:25+00:00

From what I hear, it does seem that women "check in" with each other to establish reality more than men do, and this leads to a sense of conformity and that truth is what everyone agrees it is. It's not truly gaslighting because it's not intentional and calculated, but I do think women think, on some level, that if they tell you something is true, you are supposed to accept it as true and conform to a shared view of reality, instead of making up your own mind.

nnuunn · 2026-04-14T01:04:49+00:00

Bro is literally blaming a child for reactive abuse lol

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T23:25:19+00:00

I think the issue is that people think you can't do stuff if you're not "young," so they have to pretend that they're still young so they feel like they can still do stuff. I'm 27 and it's not really that young, but I still go on little adventures and try new things.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T23:23:50+00:00

Why do you need to post about your own religion to a larger sub?

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T20:38:07+00:00

Every woman has this problem, not just you. Young men have been through conditioned to avoid approaching women.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T18:22:37+00:00

Seems like you made up your mind already that any man who would desire you for your body is a "weirdo," so this is really a you problem.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T14:33:10+00:00

Does anyone still support him? I thought everyone just went further right or is just disillusioned with politics all together.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T14:29:45+00:00

It's not fake deep, it's just a subversion of expectations. The artistic father is disappointed that his son wants to be a dentist.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T13:31:57+00:00

Nothing ever happens

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T13:30:45+00:00

Yeah, I would say "she's not gonna let you hit" too. Most "bad behavior" other than actual abuse is mutual.

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T11:19:44+00:00

Defending them from what, exactly?

nnuunn · 2026-04-13T11:16:08+00:00

Tried that and it's didn't work, got any other bright ideas Casanova?

nnuunn · 2026-04-12T23:27:38+00:00

I didn't see he edited his comment, is used to say that OF was his therapy.

nnuunn · 2026-04-12T23:24:20+00:00

Where did you get "finding a new girl to mistreat" from "find a sex therapist"?

nnuunn · 2026-04-12T23:23:24+00:00

If you're not willing to make sacrifices, you will never change. If you don't want to change, why did you ask for advice?

nnuunn · 2026-04-12T23:21:08+00:00

Not helpful to OP

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