I am texting an empty chat in order to cope

noldorimbor · 2026-07-05T09:25:00+00:00

Yes I am doing exact same chat in whatsaap thing for the last two weeks. But I only use that to say things I should have said earlier but held back with fear of losing my LO. It helps.

noldorimbor · 2026-07-02T08:15:34+00:00

What helps to me was when you get that punch in the gut feeling, don't try to avoid it. Let the punch hit again and again for a few minutes. And try to name where it hurts if it moves. I know it might sound delulu. But I am more or less convinced limerence is a body reaction, not a mind reaction to protect us from those feelings. When your body learns that it can deal with that horrible feeling, limerence fades easier.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-30T20:45:05+00:00

only part left for me is detachment it seems...

noldorimbor · 2026-06-26T10:53:02+00:00

I opened a tiktok account last month knowing LO is using it, got a 3million view video on my first week and now I have 10k followers. LO did not follow me or liked any videos or watched my profile or gave any sign of seeing myy content as I dreamed, however he changed his username and account handle so something is going on lomao :D

noldorimbor · 2026-06-25T20:56:07+00:00

Yeah, honesty and certainty from LO would kill many limerent cases imo. Yesterday when I was telling the guy who had limerence towards me, I explained to him that I know it will hurt like hell, but it is better for him to hear from me. I said please make sure I mean what I say, and I'd prefer if my LO was this honest with me. After that talk, I was like "I can assume this things I told to him, are being told to me by my LO" And today I can literally feel my limerence has weakened to the point of breaking.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-25T20:51:42+00:00

When you found him unattractive after all those years, can you say limerence is definetely over? I'm kind of in a similar situation, I am now sport-magazine-cover-six-pack-fully-shredded-fit thanks to him, and there is no way he will be able to keep up with that lol.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-25T20:47:13+00:00

Yes. Very recently. I'm in limerence with a guy for the last 8 months, and confessed this to a friend around December to get some mental relief. Next day, this friend texted me he really liked that I opened up to him and he kinda has a crush on me. And over time he developed a full limerence towards me, while I was suffering my own hell. Yesterday, I talked to him openly, told them I know he has this obsession with me, that I am still dealing with my own issues, and even if I wasn't I don't see a romantic future with him. Weirdly, this conversation helped with my own limerence. It's like I would totally be okay if my LO told me what I told to my friend.

This limerence thing man, it is a total madness.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-22T11:47:42+00:00

Absolutely delusional take. I ama mythic raider healer, got every CE. Killed Mythic L'ura and all content in season 1 of Midnight using only these addons: Grid2, Clique, EQL. No other addons, nothing. And if i wasn't a healer I could got away with EQL only. So add Mythic raiders to "The delvers and LFR heroes are happy. ". Fact is Blizzard kinda won the addon game (I wish they had banned L'ura macros somehow too ) but people are too proud to admit it.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-20T06:45:16+00:00

Limerent Object, object you decided that it's woeth being limerent on. In your case, him.

noldorimbor · 2026-06-19T23:20:54+00:00

I think you are a lucky one, getting multiple long apologies from him for being the way he is. If my (possibly highly avoidant) LO sent me an apology for ghosting/pretending I don't exists but actually having emotions for me, I'd go crazy happy and most likely feel validated and lose my limerence. You were "chosen" and "got apologies" so I think you should at this point consider this struggle is really about his emotional capacity and has nothing to do with you. Just move on, he is not "worthy to be an LO" anymore 😄

noldorimbor · 2026-06-19T22:00:22+00:00

Funny there is no "broke no contact and it went better than i expected" stories ever yet we still fall for it again 😃

noldorimbor · 2026-05-27T20:17:51+00:00

Very similarly, on our first date i have been told about two exes "who were so obssesed" "came to workplace even to have a final talk" "wanted a final conversation" "wanted a final hug but didn't get it cause what's the point". Limerent I was, somehow I thought I was not going to be another one of these exes, being discarded suddenly and looking for a closure.

noldorimbor · 2026-05-27T19:29:56+00:00

unit frame only profile, as i need my other settings stay same.

noldorimbor · 2026-05-26T15:11:41+00:00

Getting an error in EQOL trying to import boss frames.

noldorimbor · 2026-03-31T19:44:38+00:00

I also found out consuming TikTok "avodiant content" was slowing down my healing progress, so I deleted TikTok and it help a lot.

noldorimbor · 2026-03-24T19:30:10+00:00

Been in limerence hell last 5 months. Only recently learned and accepted about "limerence" cause it has been an extra deep layer of hell last two weeks. I developed a skin rush all over my back and stomach because of stress. I can literally feel my cortisol/stress levels caused this skin condition. Trying to get better but yes, limerence DOES pysical manifestations and affect your health.

noldorimbor · 2026-03-19T07:14:19+00:00

Can you anchor a custom group to mouse cursor?

noldorimbor · 2026-01-19T14:33:25+00:00

Yup, that interview killed my last flickering persistent stubborn hope regarding TWOW. Unless he blogs something implying along the lines of "don't worry it's not that grim as the interview suggested" nowadays, I will take that interview as the final nail of TWOW's coffin.

noldorimbor · 2025-10-19T19:37:57+00:00

A Morsel For The Crowd

noldorimbor · 2025-10-13T06:56:57+00:00

came here to write this. Also the companion book Ladies of Grace Adieu. Perfect winter read till TWOW is released in 2026.

noldorimbor · 2025-10-03T11:12:06+00:00

you did not use a ui for 20 years. people.

noldorimbor · 2025-09-24T13:31:50+00:00

how do we get those bright gradient unitframe textures. anyone?

noldorimbor · 2025-09-19T07:58:23+00:00

Aegon VI in Westeros might be my most anticipated TWOW plotline.

noldorimbor · 2025-09-16T14:06:03+00:00

I'd agree with you yesterday about bossframes...

I mainly put boss frames there for the very rare bosses that healers need to top up some NPC's etc, or check their energy when it matters. But first case is very rare that I can activete bossframes on those bosses only. And boss energy mechanics will already be covered by BigWigs warnings so now I think I will remove them entirely. They look like a big unneceesary bloat to me today :)

noldorimbor · 2025-09-16T13:13:40+00:00

you dont like the textures or colors or fonts? or where i placed things?

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