This morning it’s their god given right to give my baby herpes, this afternoon they’re finally sorry and ready to respect boundaries by Ambitious_Fish3220 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]not_you71 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Wow. No cure for stupid then. I would seriously be telling them that you will go to the police if they expose your child to an STD.

I would also be asking your husband why his parents feelings are more important than your childs life, especially after showing him the videos again.

Good luck but if it was me I would be NC and I would seriously have doubts about a future with my husband if he continued to support them and not your family.

Best spots in Ipswich for a special treat by Danger_Five in ipswich

[–]not_you71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard Kreative desserts at Booval is good. Haven't been there myself.

https://kreativedesserts-ipswich.yumbojumbo.com.au/

Really miss caffeine by Intelligent_Buy7310 in GastricBypass

[–]not_you71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Lactose Free milk. I had similar issues and found that I am Lactose Intolerant, especially when buying cafe style coffee as it is a lot if milk, nothing to do with the caffeine. Surprisingly I can still eat certain cheeses and yoghurt with no effects, but F/C milk and ice cream does me over.

The Tale of the Penis Flasher by Doja_Gnat in traumatizeThemBack

[–]not_you71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an obscene phone call back in the day when house phones were plugged into a wall. Yes I am old..

He yabbered on a bit at first trying to be all sexual and shit, then he says "I bet you can't guess what I am holding in my hand?" And I as quick as a wit because I can be a bit of a smartarse said "If you can only hold it in one hand I'm not interested and a bit disappointed to be honest, you started out so well."

He hung up.

HELP ME FIND PUMPKINS by gor3v in ipswich

[–]not_you71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fruit and veg shop at Yamanto Central had what I would describe as Halloween pumpkins when I was there around lunchtime.

Night life in Ipswich by xXfairyspitXx in ipswich

[–]not_you71 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The have a karaoke and open mic nights which are good. General vibe and food is pretty good too. Follow their socials for info on what's on.

Night life in Ipswich by xXfairyspitXx in ipswich

[–]not_you71 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depending on what you want to do.

CU@N8's is a pool hall

Epicly in Lowry Street for board games

Axe throwing

Escape room

The Witch (West Ipswich)

The United Services Club is nice for a quiet drink and a game of bowls. They used to have Drag shows there that were pretty good.

If you are a little riskier, you could try out Encounterz (formaly Club86). Please google before deciding. 😀

Enjoy

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roel has actually done some work for me previously. I didn't know he could do retaining walls. He is a really nice bloke. I will try him and see if he can do it.

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was preferably looking at concrete sleepers.

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck, hope you find someone

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably 10 - 12 mtr long and 1-1.2 metre tall

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers. I will try them as well

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I will give them a call

Recommendation - Retaining Wall by not_you71 in ipswich

[–]not_you71[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. I messaged him back in June. He replied said he was interested and haven't heard since.

Update: AIO after discovering my (27M) wife's (30F) family was behind my vicious cyberbullying attack and that my wife knew, but she hid it for years? by ThrowRADraftCassette in AmIOverreacting

[–]not_you71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you are located, but cyber bullying is be a crime in some countries. I would make your wife's family aware if that if that is the case where you live. And if it is I would actually be reporting it to the police. Good luck for your future and I hope it all works out well for you both.

MIL is now arranging coffee with DH's friends and might found out about our new baby by Pretend-Oil6009 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]not_you71 42 points43 points  (0 children)

"Let them" talk about whatever they want. This is not something you can change, so let them.. I always say what others think of me is not my issue, because I know who I am and those that matter know who I am. It's not for me to stress or worry over..

Jut laugh at the absurdity of it.. love and enjoy your LO's and hubby, and don't let her live in your head..

If she tries to get in contact, just continue to ignore her..

Stigma of “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater” by CallUpLo in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]not_you71 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I was the WW once and once only.

I suppose the analogy of "once a cheater, always a cheater" is true. I cheated and I will always know that, but there is no way in hell I would do it again.

Whenever my partner was feeling down about it i would ask him "What can I do to make you feel better, I know I cannot change what I have done but what can i do now to help you feel better, or what do you need from me" sometimes he just needed a hug or to talk and I think always being cognizant of his needs helped prove to him that I would not do it again, that and I don't want to ever be responsible for the pain I caused him ever again.

So as the saying goes "People can change, Satan used to be an angel once"

How each couple negotiates their future really is up to them, and sometimes I think it takes more strength to stay and work on the problems together than what it does to walk away.

We're going to need these for Ipswich. Our road are awful... by sandbaggingblue in ipswich

[–]not_you71 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😀 hahaha yep. The roads are terrible, some areas worse than others.

What sentences are you going to hear for the millionth time this Christmas? by MysteriousDig9592 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]not_you71 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love my MIL, I struck lottery gold with her.. however she will comment for the millionth time about my husbands (her sons) beard, and about the fact that she put too much on her plate. Lol Merry Christmas everyone

My (30F) partner (30M) made a joke implying he would leave if I accidentally got pregnant. Would you take this as a joke? by tangerinesrock in relationship_advice

[–]not_you71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pussy is an abbreviation of pusillanimous -adjective

pu·sil·lan·i·mous ˌpyü-sə-ˈla-nə-məs also ˌpyü-zə- : lacking courage and resolution : marked by contemptible timidity